Nobody warns you about this part of chasing big goals.
Not the productivity gurus.
Not the motivational speakers.
Not even your well-meaning friends.
It’s the gut-punch fear that shows up right before you take action.
• That moment before you hit “publish” on a bold idea.
• The silence before you walk onto a stage.
• The terrifying realization that people might not just dislike your work—they might actually talk about howmuch they dislike it.
That fear isn’t just annoying. It can be paralyzing.
And the worst part? It creates a whole alternate reality where everything you do is a disaster before it even begins.
Nobody will read it.
Nobody will care.
Nobody will show up.
Sound familiar?
Here’s the kicker: Fear only exists in the waiting.
Once you start moving, it fades.
• The roller coaster is scariest when you’re in line, not when you’re flying down the tracks.
• The book launch is terrifying before the doors open, not when the room is packed.
• The speech is unbearable in the first three minutes, then suddenly, you’re in the zone.
Action is the antidote.
Not overthinking. Not waiting for “the right time.” Not perfecting it to death.
Just doing the thing.
So if you’ve been stuck, trapped in that parallel fear-world where your worst-case scenario plays on repeat—what’s one small action you can take today to break the cycle?
Because the only wayout… is through.
More about Patricia Bathory:
Patricia is dedicated to empowering individuals and organizations to thrive in today's interconnected world.
She helps build connected cultures in the workplace through:
• Impactful keynote speeches
• Interactive workshops
• Personalized individual sessions
• Helping you get started on your journey with her book, 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅: 𝑩𝒖𝒊𝒍𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑹𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝑨𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒆𝒗𝒆 𝑺𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝑴𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒂 𝑳𝒂𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝑰𝒎𝒑𝒂𝒄𝒕
She offers a holistic approach to personal and professional growth, drawing from her private psychotherapy practice, leadership insights, and the transformative power of connection.