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CONFRONTATIONAL JESUS: You Need Help
In this message, we continue the Confrontational Jesus series with a truth many of us resist—but desperately need: you need help. Looking at Ephesians 2:1–10, we're reminded that our lives are not built on our effort, but on God's grace.
As A. W. Tozer once said, "What comes to your mind when you think about God is the most important thing about you." Because what you believe about God shapes how you live.
We live in a culture full of confusion—but God is not a God of confusion, but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33). And in this series, we're exposing old lies—heresies—that still show up today in modern forms.
This week, we confront a major one: Pelagianism—the belief that you are good, you can fix yourself, and you're in control.
It sounds empowering. But it's not the truth.
Here are the three lies—and the three uncomfortable truths Jesus uses to set us free:
1. Lie: "You are a good person" Culture says your good outweighs your bad. But Scripture teaches something deeper: sin has affected all of us.
Uncomfortable Truth: You are not good Romans 5:12 and Psalm 51:5 remind us that sin is not just something we do—it's part of our nature. And if we build our identity on our performance, we'll always live in comparison, shame, or pride.
But the gospel says your identity isn't based on your performance—it's based on Jesus' performance.
2. Lie: "You can make yourself better" This is the belief that with enough effort, discipline, or self-improvement—you can fix your life.
Uncomfortable Truth: You can't make yourself better Ephesians 2 says we were dead in our sin—not struggling, not weak—dead. And dead people don't fix themselves.
In John 15, Jesus says apart from Him, we can do nothing. Real transformation doesn't come from striving—it comes from remaining in Him.
As Dallas Willard said, "Grace is not opposed to effort, it is opposed to earning."
3. Lie: "You are in control" We like to believe our future is in our hands—that we can shape our destiny through effort and decisions.
Uncomfortable Truth: You are not in control Ephesians 2 shows us the reality:
- God initiates (He gave us life)
- God saves (by grace through faith)
- God prepares (good works in advance)
Even Jesus makes it clear in Matthew 19:26—what feels impossible for us is only possible with God.
Here's the tension: God calls us to do things that are impossible—so we realize how much we need Him.
And that's the invitation:
Not to try harder. Not to be better. But to surrender.
Because the uncomfortable truth is better than a comfortable lie. And the truth is—you need help.
The good news? Jesus doesn't just point out the problem—He is the solution.
As seen in Philippians 2:5–11, Jesus didn't partially obey or halfway sacrifice—He fully gave Himself so we could have life.
So the question is: Where are you still striving instead of surrendering? Where are you trying to do what only Jesus can do?
Today is your opportunity to stop building your life on yourself… and start building it on Him.
Scripture References: Ephesians 2:1–10 1 Corinthians 14:33 Romans 5:12 Psalm 51:5 John 15:1–5 Matthew 19:26 Philippians 2:5–11
Keywords: Addison McIrvin, Onechurch, You Need Help sermon, Ephesians 2 explained, Pelagianism, grace vs works, Christian truth vs culture, identity in Christ, spiritual growth, surrender to God, biblical teaching, confronting culture, Jesus and grace, salvation by grace, Christian discipleship
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