Opinions That Change

After having two kids, I experienced what I believed was a miscarriage. I went to the ER multiple times, was bleeding and in pain, and kept being reassured that I was going through a normal pregnancy loss. I even went on a trip to Texas, did photoshoots, and tried to carry on with life while my body was telling me something was very wrong.

After my third trip to the ER, I finally learned the truth: I was having an ectopic pregnancy and needed emergency surgery.

The fear of having another ectopic pregnancy stayed with me long after the surgery. I became anxious about pregnancy, took tests constantly, and when I eventually found out I was pregnant again less than a year later, I was convinced something was wrong. My pregnancy levels were so high that I immediately feared another ectopic.

But this time, there were two babies.

Twins. 🤍🤍

Suddenly, I was going to have four kids under four.

My twins were mono-di, which brought an entirely new level of anxiety as I navigated the pregnancy and the fear of twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome. Physically, the pregnancy was incredibly difficult too—shortness of breath, intense back and sciatic pain, awful acid reflux, and the everyday discomfort of carrying two babies. In the middle of it all, we moved from Washington to Utah.

And then they were here.

The first year with my twins was surprisingly a time when I truly thrived. But once they became mobile, everything changed. 😂 Life with four little ones became overwhelming in ways I wasn't prepared for, and honestly, I wasn't doing well.

Now my twins are five, and for the first time in years, I feel like I'm finally catching my breath.

In this episode, I’m sharing the whole story—the pregnancy loss I thought I was experiencing, the ectopic pregnancy that nearly went unnoticed, the fear that followed me into my next pregnancy, the shock of finding out I was carrying twins, the physical and emotional toll of a mono-di twin pregnancy, moving across states, and the beautiful, chaotic, exhausting years that followed.

This is a story about loss, fear, motherhood, survival, and realizing that sometimes you don't understand just how much you've been carrying until you finally get a chance to breathe.

What if decluttering isn’t just about cleaning out your closet?

Sometimes the things taking up the most space in our lives aren’t things at all—they’re commitments, notifications, distractions, packed calendars, and even good things that have slowly crowded out the best things.

In this episode, I’m talking about what it looks like to intentionally create more margin in our lives and make sure our calendars actually reflect what we say we value: God, family, friends, health, and the people we’ve been entrusted with.

I share some of the routines that have helped our family be more intentional with our time—from planning one-on-one dates with our kids, to family nights, to actually putting meaningful experiences on the calendar instead of just hoping they happen.

Because life ebbs and flows, and we don't always get it right. But sometimes we have to stop, look at what is filling our time, and ask: Does this deserve a place here?

This episode is an encouragement to declutter more than your home—to declutter your calendar, phone, commitments, and mind so you can make room for more peace, purpose, presence, and the people who matter most.

And I’m leaving you with a simple challenge: remove one thing this week that’s taking up space you need for something more important.

Because sometimes the best way to move forward is to make room for what matters most.

People often tell me, "You're so naturally talented," or "You just have an eye for photography." But the truth is, I wasn't born knowing how to use a camera—I built every skill through mistakes, persistence, and a whole lot of trial and error.

In this episode, I'm sharing the stories behind the polished images you see today: the disaster at my first wedding, accidentally shooting an entire session at ISO 20,000, learning what RAW files were far later than I'd like to admit, re-editing galleries, crying in a gas station parking lot after crashing my bride's car, and the countless moments I questioned whether I should keep going.

I'll also share the people who believed in me before I believed in myself, the education I invested in, the uncomfortable season of charging $20 for sessions, offering to assist for free, and how consistency—not talent—changed everything.

Whether you're a photographer, creative, entrepreneur, or simply chasing a dream that feels bigger than your current abilities, this episode is a reminder that no one starts as an expert. Every person you admire was once a beginner who decided not to quit.

Because confidence doesn't come before action—it comes after showing up, over and over again.

If you've ever wondered whether you're "good enough" to start, this episode is for you.

This week, I'm joined by my friend Dallin Macomber for a spirited debate as we each reveal our Top 10 Family Movies of All Time. Our lists couldn't be more different—I'm championing inspiring true-story classics like The Sound of Music, October Sky, and Miracle, while Dallin makes the case for animated favorites like Mulan, Kung Fu Panda, and Pokémon.

Along the way, we argue over what actually makes a great family movie, defend some controversial picks, and tackle an unexpected question: Can you honestly rank a movie in your all-time Top 10 if you've never read the book it was based on?

Whether you're a fan of heartfelt true stories, animated adventures, or just love a good movie debate, this episode is full of fun disagreements, nostalgia, and plenty of recommendations for your next family movie night.

In today's episode, I'm sharing some of my thoughts and experiences growing up in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints—and the perspectives I've developed along the way.

We talk about why church attendance has been worth it for me, even during the season of life when I had four kids under four and spent more time walking the hallways than sitting in the chapel. I share why I believe showing up isn't about convenience or entertainment, but about worshipping Christ and renewing my covenants with God.

I also dive into why I don't think we need to immediately say yes to every calling, how I've learned that information often leads to inspiration, why I think we've become a little too comfortable publicly discussing garments, and one parenting decision I've made with confidence: my children will not have one-on-one meetings with church leaders.

This isn't an episode about telling you what to think. It's simply an honest conversation about the beliefs, practices, and personal boundaries that have brought me peace as I've navigated faith, family, and discipleship. Whether you agree with every point or not, I hope it offers something thoughtful to consider.

What do you do when you're $135,000 in debt and feel like there's no way out?

In this episode, I'm sharing the full story of how my husband and I completely changed the trajectory of our family's finances and paid off $135,000 of debt in just two years.

It wasn't easy, glamorous, or quick. We sold nearly everything we owned and moved our family of six into a fifth wheel for a year and a half. I worked in a gym daycare with my four kids by my side, cleaned the gym after hours, and even coached gymnastics for a minute. I also became a gestational carrier, while my husband worked two jobs to help us reach our goal.

Along the way, we learned that getting out of debt wasn't just about making more money—it was about changing our habits. After eight years of trying (and failing) to stick to a budget, we finally found a system that worked. We chose to live on as little as possible, stayed committed to paying our tithing, and kept showing up even when the sacrifices felt overwhelming.

If you're feeling buried by debt, discouraged by your finances, or wondering if financial freedom is even possible, this episode is proof that change can happen. We're sharing the lessons we learned, the mistakes we made, and the mindset shifts that helped us build a life with more peace, purpose, and financial freedom.

Whether you're just starting your debt-free journey or need a little hope to keep going, this episode is for you.

What is it really like to live in a fifth wheel with four kids? In this episode, we're sharing our honest experience after spending a year and a half living full-time in our RV as a family of six.

From peaceful mornings on our acre of land, bonfires with friends, and watching our kids play with our chickens, to the not-so-glamorous reality of RV repairs, septic problems, and the challenges of living in a small space, we're talking about it all.

We also share what it was like moving to an RV resort for the winter, how we adapted through every season, the lessons we learned, and if we would do it again.

If you've ever wondered whether full-time RV living is for your family—or you're simply curious about what life in a fifth wheel is really like—this episode is full of the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

Happy to have my husband be my co-host for this episode. Join us for an honest conversation about one of the biggest adventures our family has taken.

This week, I'm sharing my biggest holiday hot takes—and they might be a little controversial! From why I think Christmas decorations should go up before Thanksgiving to questioning why every holiday revolves around candy, we're diving into the traditions we keep without always thinking about why. I'm also talking about why Valentine's Day should be about spreading love to everyone, why I believe we need to bring more of Christ back into Easter, why it's time to stop recording entire firework shows, and why parents should prioritize creating meaningful holiday memories for their children instead of trying to meet every adult's expectations. Whether you agree or disagree, I hope this episode gets you thinking about the traditions that matter most and inspires you to celebrate the holidays in a way that best serves your family.

Welcome to the very first episode of my new podcast — a space where opinions aren’t fixed, growth is expected, and changing your mind is a strength, not a flaw.

In this intro episode, I’m sharing a bit about who I am, why I started this show, and a personal story about an opinion I once held tightly… until life, experience, and a little humility changed it over time.

If you’ve ever looked back and thought, “Wow, I don’t see that the same way anymore,” you’re in the right place. This podcast is all about exploring how our perspectives evolve — sometimes slowly, sometimes suddenly — and why that evolution matters.

✨ In this episode:

• What this podcast is all about
• Why changing your mind is underrated
• A real story from my own life where my opinion shifted
• What you can expect from future episodes

If you enjoy honest conversations, self-reflection, and the freedom to grow, hit subscribe and stick around. There’s a lot more to come.

🎧 Listen, reflect, disagree, change, grow — all are welcome here.

Welcome to a podcast built on one simple idea: you’re allowed to change your mind.

Hit follow, subscribe, or whatever your app calls it — and join me on this journey of reflection, growth, and seeing the world with fresh eyes.

🎧 First Episode Launches Tuesday at 6 AM.