By Nick Gaylord
The concept of Our Dead Dads was born through the daily discussions of seven men who share bonds of blood, friendship and all having lost their fathers. Nick Gaylord, the show’s host, shar
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What if the advice you’ve been giving to grieving friends is doing more harm than good? Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Mark Lucero, the author of "What to Say When You Don't Know What to Say: Loving a Friend Through Grief." Mark shares profound insights and practical advice on how to truly support those navigating the heavy waters of grief. From debunking myths about grief to exploring the nuanced difference between grief and mourning, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to understanding and addressing the emotions tied to loss.
Our discussion highlights the often-overlooked importance of allowing grief to unfold naturally and without societal pressure. We talk about the transformative power of embracing grief, and how facing these difficult emotions head-on can foster resilience and empathy. You'll hear personal anecdotes that underline the therapeutic benefits of addressing old traumas, and how societal attitudes towards mental health and therapy are slowly evolving. This episode is a call to action for creating a supportive community where open dialogue about grief, trauma, and loss can flourish.
Wrapping up on a lighter note, we present a fun segment featuring random questions that reveal the personal side of our guest. From Mark’s love for environmental philanthropy to his collection of vinyl records and his travel adventures, this part of the episode offers a delightful glimpse into his life beyond his professional insights. Whether you're looking for guidance on supporting a grieving friend or simply want to hear an engaging conversation, this episode promises to leave you with valuable takeaways and a renewed perspective on dealing with loss. Tune in and join our journey toward understanding and healing.
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What if the key to transforming your life lies in the balance between your mental and physical health? Join us for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation with Sean Christopher, a dedicated nutritionist and health coach, who opens up about his incredible journey. From the emotional challenges of experiencing a massive heart attack to redefining his life's purpose, Sean's story offers profound insights and practical advice on nurturing both body and mind.
Throughout this episode, Sean shares personal anecdotes that highlight the significance of immediate action and the profound impact of having a supportive community. He recounts the tough love from his father that spurred him to embark on a health journey, as well as the transformative decision to quit alcohol and embrace healthier choices. These moments of resilience and determination serve as a powerful reminder that it's never too late to make positive changes, especially when facing life's adversities.
Moreover, we delve into Sean's advocacy for better nutrition education, particularly for children, and his exciting new initiative, Save Our Kids. His passion for health and wellness is infectious, and his commitment to leading by example shines through as he discusses the importance of spiritual and mental well-being. With practical tips and motivational stories, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways, inviting listeners to reflect on their own health journeys and the impact of their choices on future generations.
SEAN'S LINKS:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Iseanwrench
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtheseanchristopher/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamtheseanchristo
Website: www.alifefullyalive.com
Email: [email protected]
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Ever wondered how losing a parent at a young age shapes your life? My friend Michael Graham lost his dad when he was only five, a loss that profoundly impacted his childhood and beyond. Join us on "Our Dead Dads Podcast" as Michael opens up about his journey through grief, the surrogate father figures he found along the way, and the significance of growing up in a household of women. This heartfelt conversation aims to normalize discussions around loss and trauma, creating a supportive community for those navigating similar paths.
Curious about the traits we inherit from our parents and how they influence our lives? Michael shares his reflections on the qualities he inherited from his father and the emotional challenges of embracing these traits. We dive into the importance of acknowledging these influences, even when it's difficult, and the role a supportive spouse can play in fostering open communication and personal growth. Through stories of kindness, Star Trek memories, and personal resilience, this episode offers a poignant look at the long-lasting impact of parental loss.
Discover the importance of breaking the taboo around fatherless childhoods and the power of sharing personal stories. By opening up about his experiences, Michael hopes to inspire others to speak out and seek support. In lighter moments, we engage in fun, rapid-fire questions that reveal more about Michael's personality, from his impromptu parody songs to his thoughts on lottery winnings. Tune in for a deeply moving episode that balances heartfelt reflections with moments of levity, offering both solidarity and encouragement for anyone grappling with similar challenges.
MICHAEL'S LINKS:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michael.graham.777
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/egghawk/
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What if the bond between a father and daughter could only be forged through years of emotional distance and transformative conversations? Join us as Yvonne Caputo, semi-retired author of "Flying with Dad" and "Dying with Dad," unveils the poignant journey of her relationship with her father. Yvonne opens up about their challenging yet ultimately rewarding emotional connection, sharing heartwarming anecdotes and hints of her future writing projects. Through her story, Yvonne illustrates the profound role that community support and open discussions play in navigating grief, loss, and trauma.
As we continue to explore family dynamics, Yvonne takes us back to her childhood, recounting a memorable fishing trip that marked the beginning of her quest to win her father’s approval. From heated arguments in her early years to a transformative dialogue in her 30s, Yvonne’s journey is a testament to the power of understanding and patience. We dive deep into a wartime story involving her father that highlights the importance of end-of-life decisions, such as advanced directives and the "Five Wishes" document, and their impact on family dynamics.
Finally, as a psychotherapist, Yvonne brings her professional perspective on grieving complex relationships. She emphasizes the necessity of processing grief through therapeutic means and the comfort that grief groups can offer. Yvonne also shares her insights from working in a retirement community, where open discussions about death have shaped her approach. The episode concludes with a lighthearted Q&A session, offering a glimpse into Yvonne’s personal life and her delightful Bernadoodle. Join us for this heartfelt episode of Our Dead Dads, and discover how sharing our stories can pave the way for a more meaningful grieving process.
YVONNE'S LINKS:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/xcskiyvonne
To purchase Yvonne's books, please go to https://www.ourdeaddads.com/book-recommendations. You will find Amazon and Barnes & Noble links for both of Yvonne's books!
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Have you ever felt the sting of an absent parent and the ensuing emotional complexities it brings? Join us for this raw and heartfelt conversation with Jessica Parente, a trauma-informed coach and nurse, as she opens up about her strained relationship with her largely absent father and the profound impact his absence has had on her life. We explore how she navigated the emotional landscape of her father's lack of presence and the evolution of her feelings towards him after his passing.
Jessica's journey is one of survival, growth, and ultimately, healing. From recounting the turbulent years of her adolescence, marked by her parents' separation and the widening rift with her father, to grappling with the arrival of new siblings and societal expectations about fatherhood, Jessica's story is a testament to resilience. We discuss the coping mechanisms she adopted, such as focusing on productivity and staying busy, and the emotional toll of feeling rejected by a parent who struggled with his own issues.
We delve into Jessica’s transformation from feeling unseen to becoming a beacon of support for others through her work as a trauma-informed coach and psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner. By sharing her healing process, including the utilization of therapy and embracing emotional vulnerability, Jessica highlights the importance of community, open dialogue, and small acts of kindness. Tune in for an episode filled with insightful reflections, personal anecdotes, and a powerful message about the ongoing nature of personal healing and the importance of connecting with others through grief and trauma.
JESSICA’S LINKS:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/generationaljess
Instagram (personal): https://www.instagram.com/jessmolikewhoa/
Instagram (business): https://www.instagram.com/generational.jess/
Website: https://itendswithyoullc.com/
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What happens when your most trusted person and biggest supporter is no longer there? Join us as Leslie Kuny shares her deeply personal and emotional journey of navigating life after the loss of her father, her rock and guiding star. Through Leslie's heartfelt story, listeners will gain insight into the profound impact of losing a loved one and the often unspoken challenges that come with it. We promise you an episode filled with raw emotion, valuable lessons, and the importance of creating a community where grief and trauma are normalized and discussed openly.
As we move through Leslie's narrative, we reflect on family dynamics and the evolving perceptions of parental roles. From youthful dreams shaped by supportive parents to adult realizations about the complexities of family life, Leslie's account offers a poignant look at how parental encouragement and sacrifices shape our paths. The chapter on her father's alcoholism reveals the protective measures her mother took and the hidden battles that only came to light later in life, showcasing the resilience and strength often required within families.
In the final segments, we explore Leslie's journey of honoring her father's memory and the therapeutic power of storytelling and journaling. Overcoming intense sorrow, rage, and guilt, Leslie's experiences highlight the universal nature of grief and the enduring strength found in sharing stories. We also touch on lighter moments, such as navigating sleep struggles and sharing cultural references that bring joy amidst the sorrow. This episode offers a heartfelt tribute to Leslie's father and underscores the importance of living fully and authentically for those we've lost.
LESLIE'S LINKS:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leslie.nadon
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lesliekuny/
ABSOLUTE MOTION PERFORMANCE & DANCE STUDIO:
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How do we break the cycle of trauma and build healthier relationships? This week on "Our Dead Dads," we sit down with Doug Beitz, host of "Intuitive Conversations with Doug," who opens up about his tumultuous relationship with his father and the impact of his dad's traumatic childhood. Doug's commitment to raising his own children differently shines through as he shares heartfelt stories of growth, resilience, and the powerful group conversations he's initiated that have connected people worldwide. These discussions have fostered a strong sense of community and support, encouraging listeners to share their stories of grief and loss.
Doug's journey from a young locksmith to a professional firefighter reveals the cultural and educational differences between Australia and the United States, highlighting his career transitions and the resilience required to navigate family dynamics and personal growth. Tune in to hear about the emotional toll of witnessing a loved one's passing and the value of life lessons learned along the way. Through vivid recollections of his father's unpredictable behavior and the joys of camping trips, Doug reflects on how his father's actions, shaped by his own hardships, taught him crucial lessons on what not to do.
Join us as we explore various cultural approaches to death and grieving, from the communal support systems on a small tropical island to the importance of normalizing conversations about grief. This episode also touches on the evolution of sports, the significance of intuitive decision-making, and the promise of better things on the other side of grief. Don't miss this compelling conversation with Doug Beitz, filled with personal anecdotes, profound insights, and a mission to create a supportive community for all.
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doug.beitz.5
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dougbeitz/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IntuitiveConversationwithDoug
Website: https://dougbeitz.com/
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What happens when a parent’s love turns into an unshakeable pillar of support for an entire community? Join us for a deeply touching conversation with Jason Tuttle, a father who transformed his grief into a mission of advocacy and support. In this episode, we discuss Jason's new book, "Letters to Zachary," a 70-page coloring book inspired by the life and memory of his late son, Zachary. Jason shares the emotional rollercoaster of raising two special needs children, grappling with Zachary’s rare Eagle Barrett syndrome diagnosis, and the subsequent neurological challenges that followed. This heartfelt discussion sheds light on the unique grief journey of fathers, often sidelined in societal narratives.
We dive into the powerful connections formed within the grief community, with insights from Tanya Manley of Sunset Stories Podcast and Nick Gaylord of Our Dead Dads Podcast. Tanya emphasizes the need to normalize conversations around child loss while Nick shares his own experiences and offers a generous gesture to support grieving families. Together, they highlight the importance of community and open dialogue in navigating the complex emotional landscape of grief. The episode also touches upon the stress and irritability Jason faces in everyday life, providing a raw and unfiltered look at the ongoing battle with personal grief.
Lastly, we explore how creative expression can serve as a healing tool, with Jason’s coloring book project standing as a testament to love and remembrance. From heartfelt anecdotes to practical coping mechanisms, we delve into the collaborative efforts that brought "Letters to Zachary" to life, offering solace and a meaningful tribute to lost loved ones. This episode is a poignant reminder of the enduring spirit of a community united by shared loss and the remarkable resilience of those who channel their grief into lasting legacies.
JASON'S LINKS:
Website: https://letterstozachary.com/
Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/Tuttlepatriarch
Facebook (Letters To Zachary Community): https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552174684952
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Facebook (Personal): https://www.facebook.com/wil.manley
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Sunset Stories Podcast: https://tanyawz.podbean.com/
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Can a camp really change the life of a grieving child? Join us as we welcome Paul Rubin, the visionary behind Camp Good Mourning on Long Island, a haven where children aged 7 to 17 find solace and community after losing a parent or sibling. Paul shares his heartfelt journey from volunteering at a similar camp in New Jersey to establishing this indispensable resource on Long Island. You’ll hear about how Camp Good Mourning’s unique overnight stays forge deeper connections among campers, and how the initiative has flourished since its inception in 2018, even adapting creatively during the COVID-19 pandemic.
Throughout our talk, Paul opens up about the meticulous volunteer screening process and the impactful stories of campers who have found a sense of family and belonging at Camp Good Mourning. We dive into the camp's structure, which balances support group sessions with recreational activities to create a nurturing environment for grieving children. Highlighting the importance of ongoing connections, Paul discusses how the camp ensures that kids continue receiving support beyond their camp experience, leveraging social media to keep the bonds strong.
We wrap up with a light-hearted Q&A session where Paul reveals some personal quirks and heartwarming anecdotes, making for a truly engaging conversation. From discussing the complexities of talking about death with children to celebrating the camp's 50% return rate, this episode offers a comprehensive look at how Camp Good Mourning is changing lives one child at a time. Don’t miss this heartfelt episode as we explore the profound impact of community and support in the healing journey of grieving children.
PAUL'S LINKS:
Email: [email protected]
Website: https://www.campgoodmourning.org/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CampGoodMourning
NATIONAL ALLIANCE FOR CHILDREN'S GRIEF:
https://nacg.org/
DONATE TO CAMP GOOD MOURNING: https://www.campgoodmourning.org/wish-list
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Can you imagine the unimaginable—losing both parents within a week during a global pandemic? This episode promises an empathetic and raw conversation with Jocelyn Bates, who shares her harrowing experience and the journey of processing such an immense loss. We unravel the bravery it takes to face profound grief, the struggle against anger and frustration, and the crucial importance of openly discussing these intense emotions. Jocelyn's story is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest times, there is strength to be found and a community ready to support those who are grieving.
We then explore the deep emotional ties of family and the transformative power of forgiveness. Listen as we recount the evolving relationship between a father and child, marked by the father's struggle with PTSD and his commitment to being an exceptional grandfather. The narrative captures the poignant moments of reconnection and the devastating impact of losing loved ones during the pandemic. We reflect on the emotional toll on families dealing with hospital trauma and burnout, recognizing the compassionate efforts of medical staff and the solace provided by hospice nurses.
Lastly, we venture into the intricate landscape of healing through grief and connection. Discover the realities of dissociation, the therapeutic impact of practices like Yoga Nidra and EFT tapping, and the importance of emotional validation. We also discuss breaking the cycle of emotional repression and the generational trauma that shapes our responses to loss. Join us as we highlight stories of resilience, practical strategies for navigating grief, and the uplifting work of individuals like Paul Rubin, who dedicates his life to helping bereaved children find a path to healing.
JOCELYN'S LINKS:
WEBSITE: https://www.jocelynbates.net/
FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/jocelyn.bates.5
INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/soulsessionsbyjocelyn/
Check out "Ungovernable", the podcast that Jocelyn and her husband Matthew Struck (who will be my guest on an upcoming episode) produce and host together. Available on Apple, Spotify and podcast platforms everywhere!
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The podcast currently has 26 episodes available.