Hawaii is often seen as a family destination, but what if you’re searching for the best resorts in Hawaii for couples?

Couples love vacationing here for the same reasons that families do: there are no distractions (like gambling or bustling nightlife), there are great all-ages activities, and there’s a distinct cultural charm that sets it apart from other destinations. 

However, you may struggle to decide which hotel is best for your Hawaii couple's getaway. There is only one adults-only hotel in Hawaii (we’ll share more about it below), and there are no all-inclusive Hawaii resorts. 

In today’s podcast, we’re highlighting the best resorts in Hawaii for couples. We’re covering each of the four major islands and sharing various price points as well. So click “play” above to listen in, and read on to learn more about these great places. 

Top Oahu Hawaii Resorts for Couples

High End -The Kahala Hotel & Resort

Our high-end choice for Oahu is The Kahala. The location alone makes it ideal. Since it’s so secluded, it attracts fewer families and has a more romantic vibe. Situated on its own stretch of beach, away from the hustle and bustle of Waikiki, this resort offers numerous amenities for couples. These include couples massages, private poolside dining, exclusive activities for couples, and Dolphin Quest sessions.

Couple paddle boarding together at the Kahala

Moderate – Waikiki Beach Marriott Resort & Spa

Located in a great spot overlooking the beach, this resort has been recently renovated and has lovely amenities for couples. A big plus is the adult-only pool, which is quite large and has a jacuzzi adjacent to it. The property offers private fire-pit seating for romantic cocktails at sunset, couples spa treatments, stargazing sessions, and even painting classes for couples to enjoy.

Marriott Resort and Spa Waikiki Beach

Top Maui Resorts for Couples

High End – Hotel Wailea 

This is the only adults-only hotel in Hawaii, making it an easy choice for those seeking a kid-free experience with zero distractions. Even better, all the rooms at this property are suites. Everything here revolves around couples – they offer private cabana downtime, a Porsche speedster for cruising, a beach setup at Wailea Beach, and a couples’ surf safari experience.

Since The Hotel Wailea is an adults-only boutique hotel, it was an easy choice for our best resorts in Hawaii for couples.

Adults only pool at Hotel Wailea Relais & Chateaux

Moderate – Royal Lahaina 

This iconic property, located directly on Kaanapali Beach, is an excellent choice for couples. The property offers a beach setup with coolers and umbrellas for couples. For special occasions, private dining can be arranged. Active couples can enjoy ocean kayaking, paddle boarding, snorkeling, and even eFoils! The full-service spa offers couples massages

Beach setup for Couples at the Royal Lahaina

Top Kauai Resorts for Couples

High End – Koʻa Kea Resort on Poipu Beach

With only 120 rooms, this low-rise boutique hotel is on the south side of Kauai at Poipu Beach. Given that the resort primarily caters to couples with limited rooms, there’s a lesser likelihood of encountering large families with kids. The property offers oceanfront cabana dining with a private chef. A full-service spa provides couples’ massages. Onsite, couples can enjoy various water sports, including snorkeling, surfing, and paddle boarding. 

Couples enjoy quiet time at Koa Kea, one of the best resorts in Hawaii for couples

Moderate – Sheraton Kauai Resort

The Sheraton Kauai Resort is the perfect spot for couples. It’s located on Poipu Beach, and deluxe oceanfront rooms provide direct access to the beach. The resort features a beachside adult pool and “Hawaii bungalows” to ensure a tranquil, relaxing experience. Couples can also enjoy private beachside dining.

Private Beachside Dining for couples at the Sheraton Poipu