Chapter 1: No Disrespect is officially up + available on SoundCloud. Mohna poses the question, "what do you do when the other parent is unintentionally tainting your child's esteem?" And when attempting to educate why they are wrong, you are dismissed and essentially told to know your place?

Listen to my story and why I feel more conversations surrounding different family dynamics such as blended families are very important and in need of taking place.

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This show is about Avery, among other things. Take a listen!

Episode 9: The Ball Is In Your Court by Mohna Lyssaa\Dergobj

BJ is not crazy, slothful, or anemic. So don't say that his uncertainties of marriage is due to cold feet. BJ is just not fully ready to level up in commitment, JUST YET. But I'm sure if you listen to Change The Subject, as well as Our2Cents Podcast, you know that he is in a new relationship. So how exactly does this work for his lady? To answer your question...it may or may not. But BJ talked about it anyway....

Today's conversation is called Let's Honeymoon For Now, And Worry About Marriage Later. The discussion details the process of finding self, while in new love. Avoiding pressures of life, family, and your partner to enjoy each phase you share with another person. The phase that we are particular about is the "honeymoon phase". We as adults subscribe to pressures from our own relationship goals and expectations. Not realizing the importance of seizing moments of enjoyment that come in the early phases. Where there is nothing to do but learn, love, and enjoy one another. We discuss that phase and why it is so important. Is it a coincidence that there is a honeymoon phase in the beginning?...and one thereafter, once you get married? I don't think so. Its a part of a greater plan for relationships. But we as adults must not take the honeymoon phase for granted.

BJ also gives his top three reasons for not jumping the broom just yet. From his confessions, you learn that some men actually have reasons besides "I'm Just Not Ready!!!"...and if you want a man to ever be prepared for marriage, try patience and understanding, instead of pressure.

BJ's intent is to create a conversation for listeners to take in, that will enlighten you of how unprepared middle aged people really are for our next steps in life and love. But its totally fine. Because hopefully you and your partner can introduce to each other the idea that the honeymoon phase can last forever. But only if you enjoy it. And most importantly, invest in it. Don't take the honeymoon phase for granted. Some people are married, and have never been on a honeymoon. Remember that!!!

Today's episode finds Mohna Lyssaa in a introspective place, where she recognizes the lack of dialogue and communication from men in regards to women. And as much as it may feel good to know that women care, for most guys there is nothing to be excited about. simply because for every one woman who may show compassion for men...there are droves of other women who publicly beg to differ.

Titled, Personalized Generalizations, today's episode discusses toxic humanities that allow people to rate, and grade, people based on specifics that don't even reflect everyone you encounter. and from this, you internalize so many negative energies and thoughts of your experiences...simply to spew them at innocent people.

Mohna shows compassion by address her own personal experiences head on, by actually having to confront the person that hurt you; instead of the likeness of those that hurt you. taking responsibility for the feelings. Even the ones you didn't create. By asking BJ, about his feelings on such matters, we find that men actually do care. Just dont know how to care. But imagine being called trash everyday you are enduring this educational process. After awhile of enduring the process, it becomes hard to give a fuck.

But nonetheless, Our2Cents strives to give perspective to age old issues between men and women. And a very layered conversation was had. We speak on old traditions, experiences, and even talk dating woes. In the end, we found that personal accounts cant always be generalized. Some things are black and white, and should be addressed as such. We should learn to love and affirm one another. None of us are trash. We can just afford to do better by one another.

BJ comes with another intense (and intoxicated) episode of Change The Subject. Titled, The Conditions of Unconditional, BJ talks with Miss Kay about the circumstances that your conditions place on you when looking for true love. The argument BJ presents is that some cases of unconditional love aren't healthy....and could mean excessive baggage. KD's argument was that despite the baggage, someone should still be there. And from there....it got intense.

We discuss the many variables that comes from the idea of unconditional love. Whether it be lessening your own standards in the beginning, that yield you no result in the end. Or, how a person who lacks may just need a chance, not be graded. We talk the difference between standards and preferences....privilege and morals....AND baggage versus trauma. It was a very interesting conversation to say the least. Listen to this episode and tell BJ (and MISS KAY DRUNK ASS) what you think. Which side do you agree or disagree with? or is there a side at all??

Today's episode is called Legs Spread A Quarter Til Three. Is all starts from Mohna Lyssaa posing a question....is there a difference between promiscuity and being a hoe? BJ begins to explain how he believes there is a difference. And the conversation followed...

We also discussed Jesse Peterson's video of him showing up to last year's slut walk to shame women. Was the young lady right for owning her sexuality? Should she be ashamed of who she is, or would like to be?? We define the term hoe for those who believe there is such a thing. And make you aware of whether we feel it's good or bad.

We talk whores. Whores who get nothing but empty sex. Whores with no purpose. Whores in such of something they've been missing from their sexual experiences. Hoes living their best lives sexually. Can hoes be promiscuous? Is there a hoe cut off? All these questions and more....tune in now to episode 7‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

Its another Friday...and another episode of Change The Subject. Today's conversation was recorded in Cleveland, Ohio, with my brothers PlayboyDaDJ, DJ Brainstorm (The Number 4 and The Letter Uuuuu!!!) and their newest member, Big Dev216 (EVERYWHERE!!!!)..... BJ decided to take the trip to kick it with the bros and catch up. And from us kickin it, came this conversation.

This episode talks about support systems within our brotherhoods. Oftentimes, as men, we grow. Sometimes we OUTGROW. In these growths, we find that there are strains in our relationships that we have to deal with in order for our brotherhoods to remain solid. This is not always easy. these four kings decided to weigh in on the possibilities.

Things we discuss in the convo are:

Do you have to seperate to elevate? is it a possibility that your growth requires so much space that the crew doesn't fit that space and time? Is it wrong to have individual goals, while chasing the team's dreams? Is separating from the squad sucka shit?...or being brave?

We also deal with the maturation of a man when love begins to surface. Does the concept "bros over hoes" apply to how you see your brother, when he pays more attention to his queen? Is there a point in every man's life when he realizes, "Ion wanna fuck bitches no mo!"... Do we as men even realize that once you get a good woman, she becomes BIG HOMIE? and does this woman have to be a "ride or die" in order to be a good woman?

We talk leadership, communication, and tough love...all of which are missing from a lot of our brotherhoods today. We discuss street code, and how sometimes our hood values taint our ideals, simply because of where we come from. The conversation is definitely what you would expect from BJ. Thought Provoking. Introspective. And because of the insight that the Cleveland had to add to the conversation...Its also a dope conversation.

Find Change The Subject on Apple Podcasts, Audiomack, Soundcloud, Stitcher, Google Play and Breaker. You can also catch the show on TuneInRadio from the Our2Cents Podcast hosting. Please rate and subscribe when time permits. I appreciate the support. Until then, listen to this eargasm. Until the next episode, PEACE!!!!!

Episode 6 of The Our2Cents Podcast is called The Parent Trap. This a relative conversation to the ideas of Pro Choice. Mohna and BJ deal with the issues of traditional parenting from a circumstance of a parent making a commitment to a male child in a toy store. In the situation of you committing to buying your child any toy of their choice, your son chooses a baby doll. Would you as a parent make that purchase? Does the thought alone terrify you?

We discuss how we oppress children with our traditionalist views and perspectives, with the choices we make for our children. Also, how our choices affect our children in making some of their own. We talk about the concepts of church, and how our religious beliefs can be oppressive as well. Just because you serve God does not mean you become God. We talk judgements, teachable moments, and giving children the chance to have a voice.

There is a possibility that there are parents who have been trapped in the belief that "do as I say and not as I do" "because I'm your mama/daddy" and "don't talk back to me" are effective forms of parenting. And your children have been fighting to be heard over the loudness of your own childhood issues with parenting, religion, and societal standards. This conversation was healthy for those who are, and potentially will be, parents! Listen and let us know what you think!

Waddup Doe? We are finally here for the first official episode of Change the Subject. The show, titled Heavy Weight Title Holders, is featuring two of your podcast favorites: Mr. Stealyagirlonapanda himself, Danny from The Danny and Cleo Show; and Killa Kai a.k.a. Titties All Summa 18!!!! Dergobj took a trip to Philly to catch up with them, and just so happen to record a show in that process. We were able to record a very dope conversation for the listeners.

Heavy Weight Title Holders challenges your perspectives when it comes to the titles and spaces you let people occupy in your life. With constant struggles and separations happening every single day, we ask this question: Does everyone in your life value their title? Does each person who holds a position in your life feel that their title comes as a responsibility? Or with entitlement?

Kai tells us about the separation of a Heavy Weight Title Holder we know as a "best friend". We often look at circumstances as if we are the victims. But have you ever asked yourself what it means to be your friend? Is that a difficult responsibility to occupy that you take for granted, simply because you feel entitled to love, loyalty, and countless other things? Lastly, we ask "what would a best friend mean, if we held all of our friends to the same standards"?

Danny gives us a glimpse into a Heavy Weight Title we call "First Love"...and the unique way he avoids entitlement. His beliefs that titles create senses of ownership, which are falsehoods to humanity. He references his queen (Cleo of The Danny and Cleo Show) as his best friend, soul mate, life partner, etc. Does being an "all in one" create better chances of becoming one with someone? And with carrying so many different titles at one time, does that make a relationship overwhelming?

This conversation has so many layers to it that seem to parallel perfectly. We discuss mental, sexual, and emotional health. We talk depression and shout out people who love you through such. We talk societal standards that create obstacles for living up to your titles you've given and accepted. And we finish off discussing the Heavy Weight of ownership and accountability. Acknowledging when you "fucked up" and would like to be forgiven. It is so much jewelry in this conversation.

I truly hope that you leave this episode with an understanding of how to treat people, and yourself, going forward. It's a must that you "Keep Your Cup Full...at all times"! You can't pour into someone else what you don't even have. Heavy Weight Title Holders was a very dope conversation with three people trying to remain peaceful and positive! Tune In!

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Danny at @dannyandcleo (thedesert on snap. Stealyagirlonapanda on Instagram)

Killa Kai at @vitamin_kai on twitter (_killa_kai on Instagram)