Today is the day for Mohna and BJ to drop their 2 cents on polyamory and pansexuality. This all started when Mohna convinced BJ to binge watch the Nexflix special, She's Gotta Have It. With little to no expectation, BJ found himself questioning so many things about Polyamory and Pansexual ideals....

Is monogamy a form of possession or captivity? Should we all experience love, with unrestricted freedom and liberations? Can monogamy be a roadblock to finding one self? Are you defined?...or developed by how many sexual experiences you may have had in your past?

We talk about the many issues of monogamy that seem to be completely absent from the poly or pan life. It was a very introspective conversation, with so many more questions left to be asked and answered. Take a listen and tell us what you think. With so many people today subscribing to a more liberated way of relationship building....we had to ask, "Is monogamy a thing of the past?" Join us in the conversation as we exchange ideas. Also suggest other shows that are great watches for BJ. The nigga need something to do other than work!!!!!

Welcome to Episode 4! Today's Episode is titled "The Pleasure Principal", where we discuss the proper channels of communicating your wants and needs in a physical relationship. We somehow managed to weave a few current events in popular culture to parallel with today's conversation. Surprisingly, they managed to fit perfectly!

Take, for instance, this scathing beef between Drake and Pusha T. Despite several shots at each individuals credibility, the beef didnt get real until each decided to reference the respected women in their lives. Oddly enough for Drake, he was rumored to have a secret child with a porn star... who typically does everything a man dreams of... yet is scorned for the decisions she's made to acquire the experience. Considering that men want a freak in the bed, are we too particular in where that freak comes from? Is her experience the reason she's fucking you right?

Then the tragic exposing of Teairra Mari... who fulfilled her responsibilities to a bum ass nigga that decided to out her after a break up. Is there now a standard of what type of nude pics you send or take? Is there a reason behind the degrading picture that a guy/girl desires to save in their phones? Should you expose your identity comfortably in pics, not knowing if the relationship can go left?

Lastly we talk about the selfish lover like the infamous DJ Khaled, who calls his wife "His Queen", but wont bow before her. Is it selfish to expect something you are uncomfortable reciprocating in a relationship? Who over 25 is not eating pussy (Kill Yourself if you raised your ashy ass dick beater!!)??? With the lack of Foreplay, should you have a conversation before you let someone experience you sexually? We discuss this...

We had a mature conversation about setting your own principles for your pleasures. In order to live the best life, the best sex is included!!!

Listen to the show as we talk life, sex, music.... AND THERE IS A SURPRISE CLIP AT THE VERY END!!!!!1

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Today, Our2Cents Podcast, along with Gold Minds Media Network, presents a new show called Change The Subject. Hosted by Our2Cents very own Dergobj; This show's intention is to divert the conversation away from the typical topics of conversation you hear every day.

One of the things you've been hearing quite often is how men have been accused of sexual misconduct. taking things beyond too far. And subsequently, men are not stepping up to challenge men to do better. So BJ decided to take it back to the fundamentals of the Cat and Mouse game to find out if men have the basic skillset to approach a woman correctly.

Titled "The Completion of A Compliment", this episode features D Murph and D Moore (Penrose Eames) of DownWithTheDMs and this Hollywood ass Cleveland nigga named MTV from Poolside Chats Podcast!!! These kings bought game to the table. We discussed:

How have you been taught to give compliments?

A. Grabbing her by the wrist and forcefully giving her the compliment?

B. Simply Making Her Smile/Laugh to eventually make her comfortable?

C. Yelling from afar, "Damn Girl You Fine as Hell!!"

D. All of The Above

Have you acknowledged that you are a product of rape cultivation within our culture? And that the slightest gestures could be mistaken as triggers?

Has the absence of fatherhood played a part of why you don't know how to treat a woman? Is getting your game from a woman confusing you? Simply because your mother can only tell you what not to do to women, because even SHE hasn't been treated right?

Does your compliments get you blocked? Friend zoned? Possibly Married?

Is chivalry dead?

And the finale, we have a pop quiz on how to complement women at the end of the show. The episode was so full of grown man talk and wisdom. This is a treat!!! Take a listen!!!

(Disclaimer: The audio has some distorted spots from me editing out so much background noise. My apologies on the quality. This episode was recorded during PodpaloozaVegas event. SO, in the efforts to remove the background ruckus, it distorted some of the sections of the audio. I just felt the show was so good that i put it out anyway!) This is the UNOFFICIAL first episode of Change The Subject!!!! Episode 1 will be coming very soon! Thanks for the Supreme Love!!!!

Our2Cents is back again with another episode on this fine Wednesday. Today we discuss our background. Giving details to the origins and difficulties of our friendship. Starting out (and technically still are) as just homies...Mohna and BJ navigate through the story of how they became JUST FRIENDS!! And despite being associated and romantically linked to other people, each respective love interest weren't able to ignore the obvious chemistry between them. But did that automatically mean that they had to be intimate in order to establish that chemistry? Can two people just vibe together well without crossing lines?? We talk about it.

From Mohna's mystery man who stands her up for prom...to BJ's short term situationship with Lil Rah Rah...the story takes numerous turns. But the one thing that has survived the trials was their friendship. And even today, people are struggling to understand that despite their bond with one another...they will never take the chance of ruining their bond. They prove that platonic relationships are possible. And they encourage you to have one, even if you are in a committed relationship.

Episode 3 also talks about the concepts of the soul mate. Are your ideas of a soul mate restricted to your intimate relationships? or could their be a possibility that you are just drawn to kindred spirits? All of this and more in Episode 3 titled "Homie...Lover (???)...Platonic Friend.

Special shout out to @jjohnson313 and @damegonwild for the opportunity to record at their supremely dope studio, @shoptalkpodcaststudio. And, for hosting a dope event, along with @tcepod, on May 18th, 2018 for what we now call Urban Podcast Month. Follow Shop Talk for all your recording needs. They also have a dope podcast as well.

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Our2Cents has dropped another episode people. This show, titled "What Does The "Co" Mean In Co-Parenting", touches on the trials and errors of adulting...when a child is involved. How we connect our egos and personal views on the relationship between co parent, and child. And the majority of the time, those things never have anything to do with proper childcare.

We define the abbreviation of "CO" as being:

1. Communication

2. Co-Exist

3. Convenience

4. Contribution

We touch on each, and give our views on why they all can be effective in regards to a co parenting situation. BJ also peels more layers back on the circumstances of his very brief co parenting stint. All in all, we want peace among parent, whether they are together or not. Listen as we discuss our views on parenting. Hope you enjoy the show!!!!

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Hello People!!! We are finally here with our very first episode, titled "From Melissa To Mohna...From Brandon To Dergobj"...in this episode we tackle the issues believing in oneself to be more than whats on the surface. The audacity to see oneself as a brand. What does it actually take to become a brand? Does it require a certain personality or character? Does social media play a role in the true identity of your brand.

There is also talks of how spiritual and religious beliefs play an integral part of how you brand yourself? Does being a christian affect how you serve you clientele, if their walk is differernt than yours? Is your faith creating a competitive nature within, to naturally compete with people who aren't your competitor? All this and more in Episode Uno!!

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