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  • Why the Music Industry Is Broken (It’s Not the Artists' Fault) | Jesse Boykins III

    Labels used to have a marketing plan for their artists. Now the marketing plan is the artist: post about the album five times a day for six months, then post the presale link again.

     

    Jesse Boykins III writes the songs, then directs the worlds they live in. Five albums of his own, a Grammy nomination for co-writing Steve Lacy's "Playground", an executive producer credit on Jessie J's album, and he's been working with Steve Lacy since Steve was 15.

     

    In this conversation I break down with Jesse why big artists can't sell tickets anymore and why it's not their fault, what artist development actually means and the five album test that proves it, why Steve Lacy hasn't dropped in three years, why Frank Ocean probably has a hundred albums we'll never hear, and why so many brilliant creatives never finish anything. We also get into the director side. Why the performance beats the perfect shot, why he'll throw out the shot list on set, what he does when a client says no, and the movie that made him want to make movies.

     

    If you're an artist, director or creative trying to build something that lasts, this one is for you.

     

    0:00 Cold Open

    2:28 What He Taught Leon Thomas About World Building

    4:50 Treat Your Artistry Like A Brand

    6:23 Niche Fan Bases vs Viral Hits

    7:15 The Difference Is Vision

    8:07 Why Chasing A Hit Is Fleeting

    9:11 Real Vision vs Pinterest References

    10:35 No Story, Just References

    11:22 "I'm Too Boring" Is Your Best Material

    12:38 A Photographer Since 14 Who Never Said So

    13:41 Directing 13 Years Before Calling Himself A Director

    14:27 One Project Doesn't Make You A Director

    15:24 What Made Anthony Mandler Different

    16:52 I Don't Care If A Song Sounds Good

    18:15 Nobody Told You This Wasn't Good Enough

    19:05 The Perfect Shot vs The Real Performance

    21:31 DPs Are All The Same Archetype

    22:39 Directing Is A Grocery List

    23:16 Forget The Shot List

    24:51 "Everything Today Is Meant To Be This Way"

    26:02 Why He Runs A Feel Good Set

    30:36 What Great Artists Have In Common

    31:12 Jessie J's Hidden Talent

    31:50 Steve Lacy Was Making Beats On His Phone At 15

    33:48 Is Artist Development Dead?

    34:34 The 5 Album Test

    35:27 Labels Don't Ask Questions

    36:31 Sales Is Asking The Right Questions

    37:27 Ask An Artist Questions Like A First Date

    40:32 Why Big Artists Can't Sell Tickets

    42:50 Bring Back Street Teams

    44:07 You Can't Blame The Artist

    44:58 College Tours And Cruise Ships

    46:11 Spend Half The Budget On Marketing

    47:59 Who He Makes Films For

    49:10 Why His Treatments Take So Long

    52:11 When To Trust Your Gut

    54:27 Taste vs Vision

    55:16 Why Brilliant Creatives Never Finish

    56:38 Russ Says Just Put It Out

    59:32 Some Artists Hold Music Sacred

    1:00:00 Why Steve Lacy Hasn't Dropped In 3 Years

    1:00:35 Frank Ocean Probably Has 100 Albums

    1:01:08 Does Putting Out Too Much Hurt You?

    1:03:48 Commercial Directors Want To Do Music Videos

    1:04:18 When The Client Says No: Director's Cut

    1:08:55 How To Actually Add Value

    1:10:51 Swap The First And Second Verse

    1:12:26 What's Next: "I'm A Creator"

    1:16:31 "I Met My Wife At Your Show"

    1:17:16 The Passion Project We Keep Putting Off

    1:18:48 Why We Put Obstacles In Front Of The Hero Story

    1:20:43 Card Pull: What He's Always Wanted To Try

     

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    1 hr 24 min
  • The Secret Weapon Behind the Choreo of Cardi B, BLACKPINK's LISA, and Lil Nas X.

    Sean Bankhead got cut from Usher's tour at 19. Almost 15 years later, he came out of retirement and danced next to Usher at the Super Bowl.

    Sean is the choreographer behind Cardi B, Normani, Tate McRae, Lil Nas X, Missy Elliott, Victoria Monét and Lisa. He started out as a shy kid from Atlanta who couldn't book a dance job, so he made his own videos, put them on YouTube, and the world knew his name before the industry did.

    In this conversation I break down with Sean how his "Run The World" dance video dropped before Beyoncé's own video and got his whole channel taken down, how he ended up performing "Single Ladies" with Beyoncé, why Normani was the first star he saw coming, and how he gave Tate McRae real pop dance. We also get into the parts nobody posts about. Why choreographers and directors sell the music but never see the royalties, the one thing he looks for when he hires dancers, why technique doesn't beat taste, the BET moment with Lil Nas X nobody planned, and what his therapist told him about needing to be needed.

    If you're a dancer, choreographer or creative trying to get paid what you're worth, this one is for you.

    0:00 Cold Open

    1:37 The Kid Who Couldn't Book A Job

    2:12 Living Out Of A Suitcase Since 19

    3:19 His First YouTube Channel

    4:39 The World Knew Him Before The Industry Did

    9:52 Beyoncé's "Run The World" Call

    14:51 The Dance Video People Thought Was Real

    15:48 Copyright Strikes Killed His Channel

    17:37 Frozen In The Room With Beyoncé

    20:15 How To Build Aura

    22:55 Fatima Robinson Took Him Under Her Wing

    23:42 Prince Showed Up To His Birthday Party

    26:11 Atlanta Became Black Hollywood

    27:30 Normani Was The First Star He Saw Coming

    31:04 Giving Tate McRae Real Pop Dance

    32:31 From Choreographer To Creative Partner

    33:37 Underpaid For The Vision

    34:44 1.5 Billion Views, Not A Penny

    35:48 "We Sell The Music"

    40:18 Creatives Are 100% A Business

    41:52 How Dancers Actually Make Money

    42:56 Taylor Swift's Dancer Bonuses

    44:39 Why He Books The Same Dancers Every Time

    45:04 The #1 Thing He Looks For In A Dancer

    47:03 Technique Doesn't Beat Taste

    48:57 How He Really Started With Beyoncé

    49:33 His First Big Break, "Promise Ring"

    50:53 Performing "Single Ladies" With Beyoncé

    53:42 Stomp The Yard 2 And Hannah Montana

    54:06 Cut From Usher's Tour At 19

    57:04 Out Of Retirement For The Super Bowl

    59:34 Next To Usher On The Biggest Stage

    1:01:18 Why Cardi B Outperforms Everyone

    1:05:45 Chris Brown's Edit Room Lesson

    1:06:34 The Secret To Viral Choreography

    1:08:16 Lisa And The K-Pop Process

    1:11:13 K-Pop Stans And Twitter

    1:12:07 How Lil Nas X Found Him

    1:14:34 The BET Kiss Nobody Planned

    1:15:57 Everything Checked Off Except Janet

    1:17:48 You Can't Delegate Taste

    1:18:23 Therapy And The Need To Be Needed

    1:22:10 Will Stepping Back End His Career?

    1:23:08 Why He Hasn't Done His Own TV Show

    1:24:03 Jumping To The Next Ladder

    1:25:17 Filling Your Cup Back Up

    1:26:15 Rapid Fire: Doja Cat Is Underrated

    1:27:45 The Artist Who Learns Fastest

    1:28:45 How They Shot Normani's "Wild Side" Slide

    1:29:50 TikTok Dancers And The Frosted Flakes Check

    1:31:59 Card Pull: What He's Always Wanted To Try

    1:33:44 Where To Find Sean

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    1 hr 35 min
  • Hollywood Is DYING And It’s Not For The Reason You Think

    The collapse is worse than you think. Over 50,000 California production jobs disappeared in two years, soundstage occupancy fell from 95% to 62%, and not a single Best Picture nominee at this year's Oscars was shot on a Hollywood lot.

     

    I've been directing for 14 years. In 2012, 99% of my shoots were in LA. Starting in 2019, my work moved to Atlanta, Miami, Jamaica and Paris. The industry didn't die. It left.

     

    In this episode I break down why American culture is losing its grip on the world and how Hollywood is dying. From your favorite NBA player being French to your favorite pop star being Korean to your favorite movie being shot overseas. I get into the FilmLA and Bureau of Labor Statistics numbers, why Netflix being a tech company changes everything, how inflation priced LA out of its own industry, and why a $20 million American production can be shot overseas for $4 million. Then I make the case that this isn't a collapse. It's a reset, and it's the biggest opening outsiders have ever had.

     

    If you're a filmmaker, artist or creative still waiting for Hollywood to call, this one is for you.

     

    0:00 Cold Open

    0:56 America Is Never Going Back

    1:41 No More Michael Jacksons

    2:08 Your Favorite Stars Aren't American Anymore

    4:04 When 99% Of My Shoots Were In LA

    5:20 How LA Priced Itself Out

    6:32 Why My Jobs Left LA In 2019

    7:14 The 2023 Strikes Changed Everything

    7:41 Soundstages Fell From 95% To 62%

    9:23 50,000 Jobs Gone In Two Years

    10:29 The Oscars Say Hollywood Is In A Death Spiral

    11:54 Shoot Days Cut Almost In Half

    12:47 Netflix Is A Tech Company

    13:44 Capitalism Swallowing Itself Whole

    14:48 Shooting For A Fifth Of The Price Overseas

    15:22 Inflation Is Through The Roof

    16:52 If You Live Overseas, This Is Your Time

    18:08 Three Hard Decisions For American Creatives

    18:33 The Gatekept Industry Is Dying

    20:20 America Isn't The Center Anymore

    20:59 Curry Barker, Kane Parsons And YouTube

    21:40 The End Of One Country Controlling Culture

    22:02 Think Globally As A Filmmaker

    22:26 Bad Bunny, Blackpink And Burna Boy

    23:26 The Immigrant Hunger America Lost

    23:52 Do We Blame AI? No. We Adapt.

    24:49 America Still Has The Infrastructure

    25:32 Build Something Undeniable

    26:10 This Era Belongs To The Outsiders

    27:03 It's Not A Collapse. It's A Reset.

     

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    29 min
  • Drake Was P-Lo's Dream Artist. He made it happen.

    P-Lo produced the Drake record that put Mac Dre back in front of the world, and the Bay had a lot to say about it.

     

    P-Lo is a producer, rapper and Bay Area architect who helped build the sound that came out of Pinole, Richmond and Vallejo. In this episode he breaks down how "Too Hard For The Radio" actually came together, why honoring Mac Dre mattered more to him than the placement itself, and why he thinks people misread the whole thing as a shot at the West Coast. He also gets into the two records that built Empire, why being independent is more fruitful now than it has ever been, and the day he told his job he was gone with $400 to his name and half of it already spent on a flight to LA.

     

    He talks about what G-Eazy taught him, why the Warriors started a record label, what AI is really taking from artists, and the sacrifice nobody warns you about. Then he makes the case that his best work is still ahead of him, because Quincy Jones made Thriller at 50.

     

    0:00 Cold Open

    1:37 The Drake Record Nobody Knew He Produced

    2:09 Drake Was The Dream He Spoke Into Existence

    2:30 Drake Wanted To Honor Mac Dre

    3:06 Was It A Shot At The West Coast

    4:04 The Bay Had Mixed Feelings About It

    4:40 Mac Dre, Forefather Of Bay Area Rap

    6:23 Growing Up In Pinole

    7:25 The Records That Raised Him

    8:44 Cataracts, The Pack And The Team

    10:01 When Your Song Becomes Their Love Story

    11:33 Producers Are Already Using Suno

    14:54 The Real Problem With AI Is Your IP

    16:40 Notebooks Full Of Raps Over Kanye Beats

    17:45 Meeting iamSU And Building HBK

    19:00 Empire Was Built Off Two Records

    20:21 Why Artists Still Sign To Majors

    21:52 Why Give Away That Percentage

    24:33 Honor The Music And It Honors You

    25:25 Being A Good Person Is The Strategy

    29:11 Build Horizontally, Not Just Up

    31:03 If He Lost Everything Tomorrow

    32:38 Passing Out CDs At Rasputin And Hilltop Mall

    37:08 The Sibling Rivalry That Built His Confidence

    39:03 His Parents Didn't Want Him Making Music

    39:54 What His Immigrant Parents Risked

    42:19 Why Filipinos Can Sing And Dance

    44:56 The CMC Channel After School

    46:20 Chad Hugo Made It Feel Possible

    48:08 The Crossroad: Wiz, Berner And Juicy J

    49:26 He Told His Job "I'm Gone"

    49:55 Down To His Last $400

    51:27 What G-Eazy Taught Him

    53:57 The Warriors Own A Record Label

    58:55 Music As A Vehicle Into Everything Else

    1:00:49 Quincy Made Thriller At 50

    1:03:38 The Sacrifice Nobody Talks About

    1:05:58 You Need That Delusion

    1:07:27 The New Album, Out The Box

    1:09:39 Card Pull: Proudest Moment

    1:11:07 Where To Find P-Lo

     

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    1 hr 12 min
  • Ariana Grande's Director Is Her Creative Soulmate

    Christian Breslauer directed the music videos you have already watched a hundred times. Ariana Grande. SZA's Kill Bill. Lil Nas X's Industry Baby. Doja Cat. Lisa. Roddy Ricch's The Box. If you have loved a music video in the last five years, there is a good chance he made it.

     

    He also never went to film school. His parents couldn't afford to send him, so he worked in restaurants and taught himself the craft one video at a time. Then he heard a song called The Box, wrote a treatment nobody asked him for, said "this is the hit," and it changed his life.

     

    In this conversation I break down with Christian how he shot SZA's Kill Bill in a single 18 hour day with wirework and stunts, the one scene he pitched over lunch that took Lil Nas X from 50 million views to 500 million, the pitch that made Ariana Grande cry and led to Video of the Year at the VMAs, and what it was like shooting Ariana on real film with Steven Spielberg's two time Oscar winning DP. We also get into the parts nobody posts about. Why you have to be your own agent, why he walks onto every set a little scared, why he'd rather have a hundred shots that look thirty percent cool than one perfect one, and why he thinks you have to be a little psychotic to be a creative.

     

    If you're trying to build a career in film or music video without permission or connections, this is the blueprint.

     

    0:00 Cold Open

    2:23 Becoming A Dad Changed Everything

    6:54 Shooting Ariana Grande On Film

    14:03 YUNGBLUD, Ozzy And Sharon On Set

    15:44 His Dad Built The Karol G Museum

    18:55 Self Taught, No Film School

    23:26 Trippie Redd's First 100K Video

    24:32 Roddy Ricch's The Box, Nobody Asked

    28:04 You Have To Be Your Own Agent

    29:53 The Box Dropped, Then Lockdown

    37:16 Lil Nas X's Industry Baby Shower Scene

    41:36 SZA's Kill Bill Was An Accident

    43:35 Doja Cat's Streets And Blacking Out

    45:44 Why His Treatments Got Simpler

    50:22 SZA And Lisa Shot In One Day

    57:54 Spielberg, Fincher And Precision

    1:02:49 Inside Ariana Grande's World

    1:05:48 We Can't Be Friends And Eternal Sunshine

    1:11:54 Creative Directing Ariana's Tour

    1:16:36 20,000 People Lose It

    1:20:06 Winning Video Of The Year At The VMAs

    1:25:06 Advice For Up And Coming Directors

    1:32:42 Old Spice, Marshmello And Commercials

    1:37:18 Chasing The First Feature

    1:45:25 Stop Forcing The Timeline

    1:50:10 McConaughey's Oscar Speech Lesson

    1:57:40 Dinner With His Grandparents

     

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  • How Obsession and Backrooms Took Over Hollywood

    A $750,000 horror movie just beat Hollywood at its own game. In this episode, I break down how two creator-made films, Obsession and Backrooms, each crossed $200 million on micro budgets, and why that quietly rewrote the rules of the entire film industry. Curry Barker built an audience on YouTube first, then made Obsession for the fans he already had, and Kane Parsons turned an internet horror phenomenon into a real theatrical event before he was old enough to rent a car.

     

    I use both to make the case that the old gatekept Hollywood pipeline is dying. You can prove the concept first, build the audience first, and let the audience tell the industry what to pay attention to. I get into why craft and taste beat budget, why horror is the great equalizer for new filmmakers, the honest reality that these breakout stories are rare, and the one move every creator still has to make. You don't need permission, a studio, or millions of dollars anymore. You need a good idea, taste, and the guts to go make your damn film.

     

    00:00 Introduction

    02:37 Two $200M Movies on Micro Budgets

    03:23 Reintroducing Myself

    04:04 Why Hollywood Might Be Better Now

    05:35 Curry Barker and the YouTube Model

    08:48 Stop Putting Pressure on One Idea

    09:32 The Excuses We Make as Creators

    12:03 The Insane Numbers Behind Obsession

    13:34 We Spend Too Much Time Waiting

    14:25 The Audience Doesn't Care How You Got There

    16:11 Make Movies That Feel Alive

    18:22 Kane Parsons and the Anti-AI Argument

    20:11 The Hard Truth and the New Path

    22:40 The Internet Is the New Film Festival

    24:41 A New Pipeline and Horror as the Equalizer

    26:26 Go Make Your Damn Film

     

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    28 min
  • He Started With $0 and Cold Emails. Now Nike, Oakley & Wingstop Hire His Agency.

    Sebastien built SLAPS, a creative agency for some of the biggest brands in the world, with no design degree, no advertising background, and no industry connections. He started by cold emailing strangers, Googling what a branding agency even does, and selling a $5K identity to a local Indian restaurant.

    Now SLAPS works with brands like Nike, Oakley, Wingstop, and Under Armour. In this conversation, Sebastien breaks down the real agency game: why sales is an art form, why you should never sell services, and why brands pay more for vision. This is the story of building taste, selling ideas, and turning zero connections into a world-class creative agency.

    This is Ourselves with Sebastien Vandecasteele.

     

    00:00 Introduction

    02:29 What SLAPS Does as a Creative Agency

    03:54 The Wingstop Mango Habanero Campaign

    06:35 How Social Media Rewrote the Agency Game

    07:48 SLAPS vs Traditional Agencies (Wieden+Kennedy, 72andSunny)

    12:36 Production: In-House vs Outsourcing

    13:56 Starting With Zero Creative Background

    16:00 Why Sales Is the Real Art Form

    17:42 Lessons From a Year in a Call Center

    18:10 Discovering Creative Direction by Accident

    20:04 Cold Emailing Strangers to Land Brands

    21:11 The First $5K Client (an Indian Restaurant)

    23:28 Why You Sell Vision, Not Services

    26:42 The Sales Exercise & Why Listeners Win

    29:42 How to Actually Get a Brand's Attention

    30:22 LinkedIn as a Creative Goldmine

    32:07 Breaking Tension With GIFs in Cold Emails

    37:33 The Brutal Reality of Unpaid Pitches

    39:26 The 6-Month Music Video Pitch From Hell

    42:08 Building a Voice So People Come to You

    47:56 Inside the SLAPS Team

    49:11 Working With His Wife at the Agency

    50:46 How Creative Directors, Art Directors & Copywriters Work

    53:15 Building a Global Agency Out of Barcelona

    54:46 Running Ads for Brand Awareness

    58:28 The Mistake of Trying to Do Everything

    01:01:11 Handling High-Pressure Clients & Celebrities

    01:04:31 What Big Budgets Actually Pay For

    01:07:13 AI, Creative Jobs & the Renaissance of Craft

    01:14:18 Pivoting SLAPS Into a Strategy-First Agency

    01:16:08 Project 2027 & the AI Endgame

    01:18:55 Favorite SLAPS Projects (HelloFresh, Wingstop, Oakley)

    01:21:46 Living Between Amsterdam, New York & LA

    01:24:18 Surfing Through Burnout

    01:25:30 Building a Business With Your Wife

    01:27:31 The Hustle Years vs The Balance Years

    01:28:35 The DISC Sales Framework Every Creative Needs

    01:32:48 Why Creative Is the Hardest Industry to Sell In

    01:38:34 The Card Question: Most Meaningful Feedback

    01:41:24 Closing Tradition

     

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  • Followers Are Worthless. Watch Time Is The New Currency. (w/ Sooraj Saxena)

    Most of what you've been told about being a content creator is a lie. Sooraj Saxena spent years learning that the hard way.

    In this conversation he reveals the testing pool TikTok uses before any video goes viral, why Mr. Beast openly admits his mental health is awful, why chasing another creator's blueprint guarantees you'll resent your own life, and the moment that made him walk away from a 5,000 person paying waitlist. If you're building anything online in 2026, this is required listening.

    00:00 Content Is Science

    01:51 Sooraj's biggest audience
    03:21 His Original Chai videos
    05:22 Brown Creator Representation
    06:13 Childhood Performer Roots
    10:47 Startup Videos Breakthrough
    16:41 Sneaking Into Concerts
    19:23 His Company Shakti And the TikTok Market Gap
    32:58 Back to Brand Deals
    33:22 Betting on a Portfolio
    35:14 Being Ghosted From a Big Partnership
    37:09 Gods Wake Up Call
    40:24 His First Big 6 Figure Merch Year
    48:20 How the Algorithm Can Penalize You
    51:41 Why Brands Dont Reach Out
    01:10:05 Creator Chaos Tradeoffs
    01:14:01 Create for Joy Not Fame
    01:16:12 Deinfluence Your Dreams
    01:16:43 Having Four Million Followers But Broke
    01:19:50 Stop Chasing Blueprints Like Mr Beast
    01:23:48 No One Is Saving You
    01:27:03 What To Do When Content Flops
    01:30:49 AI and Human Resilience
    01:35:49 Final Advice

     

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  • One TikTok and a Frank Ocean song accidentally launched his career

    Matt Hansen did not wait for a record label to believe in him. He built his career himself. After posting a single TikTok covering Frank Ocean, Matt suddenly found millions of people listening. What started as a simple video turned into a full time music career built entirely outside the traditional music industry.

    In this episode of Ourselves, Matt shares the real story behind that moment and what it actually takes to survive as an independent artist today. We talk about the reality of building an audience online, the pressure artists feel to chase algorithms, and why Matt refuses to let AI touch his music.

     

    00:00 Beating the Scroll

    02:19 Staying Independent

    03:18 DistroKid and Fast Releases

    05:11 Timing the Social Media Window

    07:44 Do Artists Need Labels?

    09:38 TikTok Mini Music Videos

    16:28 The Frank Ocean video that changed his life

    20:03 Handling Label Attention

    30:40 Finding the Right Hooks For Your Videos

    42:55 AI Emotion Theft

    43:42 Beauty of Imperfection

    49:20 Synesthesia and Billie Eilish

    01:04:30 Touring Loneliness

    01:07:10 How to Win Over a Festival Crowd

    01:13:37 Relevance and TikTok Tips

     

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  • IRAN Wants America Dead…But Will This War Bring Peace?

    I sat down with Iranian rapper and activist Erfan Paydar to unpack what’s really happening in Iran right now and why the world isn’t paying enough attention. From the 1979 revolution to today’s protests, we break down the political history that led to the current regime and the massive nationwide uprising demanding change.

    Erfan shares a deeply personal perspective shaped by growing up between Iran and the United States. We discuss the brutal crackdowns on protesters, the economic collapse inside the country, and why millions of Iranians believe the Islamic Republic has reached its breaking point. He explains the role of the IRGC, the influence of foreign powers, and why many Iranians are rallying behind Crown Prince Reza Pahlavi as a potential transitional leader.

    Beyond politics, Erfan also reflects on his childhood in Iran, the beauty of Iranian culture, and how his experiences living in both worlds shaped his music and activism. From stories of growing up in Isfahan and Tehran to building a rap career that speaks for the Iranian diaspora, this conversation dives into identity, freedom, and the responsibility of using your voice.

    This episode is an honest, emotional look at a nation at a crossroads and a reminder that behind every headline are real people fighting for their future.

    01:59 Diaspora Connection to Iran

    02:20 Growing Up Between Iran and USA

    03:53 Iran’s 1979 Revolution to Today

    05:16 Uprising and Brutal Crackdown

    08:09 Corruption and the IRGC

    12:13 1953 Coup and the Shah Era

    18:17 Why the 1979 Revolution Happened

    35:45 Free Iran vs Free Palestine Debate

    36:40 Media Silence and Minimizing Deaths

    38:40 False Comparisons to US Protests

    39:45 Being Called a Zionist for Speaking Out

    40:20 Hyperinflation and Daily Survival

    41:26 Can the Regime Outlast Collapse?

    44:11 US Sanctions Versus Corruption

    46:41 Iranian Regime’s Children Living Lavish in Dubai

    48:23 Erfan’s Childhood Memories of Iran

    50:38 Hope of Returning Home

    51:29 Trump Talks and Nuclear Standoff

    54:33 How Strict Censorship is in Iran

    01:01:13 How to Help Iran

     

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OURSELVES is the world’s first open-source podcast that dives deep into the worlds of creativity, culture, & personal growth. Hosted by film & music video director Arrad, each episode brings…