What does it actually look like to carry grief for years or even decades?

In this episode, we’re talking about what long-term grief really feels like and how to support someone who’s still living with it. Charlotte shares her experience of losing her mom at 10, but this conversation is packed with universal insights, reminders, and tools you can use to show up better for the people you love.

In this episode we dive into:

💜 How grief resurfaces years (even decades) later

💬 Common phrases that can hurt and what to say instead

🤝 Practical ways to support a grieving friend or loved one

🌸 Simple, meaningful ways to honor someone you’ve lost

Whether you’re grieving yourself or just want to be a better friend, this episode is here to help you show up with more compassion and confidence.

🔔 Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of childhood grief and parental loss.

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I’ve been the only plus-size bridesmaid more than once. The one adjusting the robe that barely fits. The one trying to find something on-theme for the bachelorette that actually comes in my size. The one quietly wondering if anyone else noticed how isolating this can feel.

This week, it’s just me—sharing the things no one tells you about wedding season when you’re in a bigger body.

We’re talking:

👯‍♀️ What it’s like being the only plus-size person in the bridal party

👀 How to handle subtle comments that land heavier than they should

📌 What brides and friends can do to make sure no one feels like an afterthought

📷 Why Pinterest boards actually matter more than you think

💌 How to give people their flowers when they do get it right

If you’ve ever felt out of place in a room that was supposed to be celebratory—or you’re a friend who wants to show up better—this one’s for you.

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She’s known for airplane bathroom selfies, chaotic travel stories, and building a real-life friendship movement... all without health insurance.

This week, I’m joined by Marissa Meizz, the internet’s favorite adventure friend and the founder of No More Lonely Friends. We’re talking:

📱 The viral TikTok that started it all

👯‍♀️ How she accidentally created a global friendship movement

🎒 Her wildest travel stories (spoiler: there’s chaos)

💡 Why being a little unhinged might be the key to more connection

It’s fun, it’s fast-paced, and it might just make you text that internet friend you’ve been meaning to meet IRL. If you’re craving more connection, spontaneous adventures, or just need a reminder that you’re not the only one winging it — this one’s for you.

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Today we’re pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to balance a full-time job and a successful side hustle.

Raimee has been building her travel brand for years, all while working full-time in corporate America. In this episode, she shares how she’s managed both sets of deadlines, how she makes the most of her PTO, and what it’s taken to keep burnout (mostly) at bay. We also dive into some of her favorite travel moments, underrated destinations, and the tools she swears by—whether she’s at her desk or on a plane!

If you’ve ever wondered how people are doing both... this episode is for you.

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Climbing the corporate ladder feels safe… until it vanishes beneath you.

Corporate America is supposed to be the stable, responsible path. The one that comes with health insurance, promotions, and some kind of safety net. But more and more, people are finding that safety net has holes... and that the system doesn’t always catch you when you fall.

This week, I sat down with my friend Mandy Ogulnick to talk about what it’s really like to get laid off twice and then choose a completely different path: one that isn’t tied to titles or LinkedIn announcements.

We talk about:

💼 What it’s like to be laid off from two different corporate jobs

🍷 Why she chose service industry work—and how it gave her peace

💞 Letting go of shame and rewriting what success looks like

🗺️ Navigating the pressure to have a “big plan”

If you’ve ever felt like you did everything “right” and it still didn’t work out—this one’s for you.

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Some travel splurges are just overpriced. But others? Total game-changers.
In this solo episode, I’m sharing the upgrades and little luxuries I’ve said yes to—and exactly why I’d do them again.

From business class flights to that $100 spa day in Bali (yes, really), I’m walking you through:
✈️ When business class is worth it—and what to know before you book
💆‍♀️ The ritual we always do before flying home
💅 The best beauty treatments I’ve found abroad
💸 How I balance indulgence with intentional saving

If you’re craving travel that feels a little more you—this one’s for you.

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What happens when long-term love ends—and you suddenly have to reintroduce yourself to… yourself?

This week on Out of Office Era, I’m joined by Fiona Chen—aka @FindingFiona—your internet big sister for skincare, solo trips, and self-discovery. We talk about the quiet ending of her 8-year relationship and what it’s looked like to find herself again in the aftermath.

We get into:

• The emotional weight of leaving a long-term relationship
• Starting over in your late 20s
• Dating again after nearly a decade
• What sharing online looks like when your real life is shifting
• How to reclaim your story without needing to explain everything

It’s raw, reflective, and full of reminders that healing doesn’t happen all at once—but you’re allowed to take up space in the process.

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The harsh truth about building a platform: visibility doesn’t come without a cost.

In this solo episode, I’m opening up about the love that fills your DMs… and the hate that follows you into your real life. From quiet harassment to viral praise, I’m sharing the moments that made me question if being seen was worth it—and why I still choose to show up.

I talk about:

• The emotional weight of going viral
• How harassment often shows up in quiet, relentless ways
• Why some comments stick with you more than others
• What I’ve learned about protecting my peace while staying visible

If you’ve ever second-guessed sharing your story online or felt the weight of other people’s opinions—this one’s for you.

This is Out of Office Era—where we unpack what happens when you stop living on autopilot and finally write your own story.

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For our very first episode of Out of Office Era, we’re diving into what it looks like to step away from tradition and create something that feels authentic — starting with your wedding day.

Joining me is Jenna Liston, a self-made entrepreneur, social media marketing manager, and content creator with over a decade of experience in the digital space. She helps brands show up online while building a career that blends storytelling, strategy, and a whole lot of travel.

Right now, she’s planning a wedding that doesn’t follow the script. And that’s exactly what makes it meaningful.

In this episode, we talk about:
💍 Jenna’s journey to planning a wedding that feels like her
📋 What we’re both cutting out and intentionally choosing to keep
💭 The emotional layers behind doing things differently
🔥 A rapid-fire round of I Do or I Don’t — our takes on popular wedding trends

Whether you’re rethinking a big milestone or just craving a more honest way to live, this episode is your permission slip to unsubscribe from expectations and start doing things your way.

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Welcome to your Out of Office Era.

This podcast is your official sign to step back, rethink what matters, and start building a life that actually feels like yours.

I’m Janelle Rupkalvis (@janelleonajet), and here, we talk travel, identity, confidence, personal growth, and all the real-life shifts that come with choosing bold, intentional living.

You’ll hear honest conversations, vulnerable stories, and reflections that feel like catching up with a friend who gets it.

If you’re in your twenties, thirties, or somewhere in between—welcome to your Out of Office Era.