The boys are back, but this time they've added a fourth - and my god does it feel good.
Sexologist Morgan Penn, the host of the hit iHeart Radio podcast Sex.Life joins the boys to answer their - and your - questions about sex and relationships.

Like how often should long term couples be having sex? Or what happens if your libido is shot to pieces because of medication? Is it normal to feel shame after sex? And how do we grow our confidence in the bedroom?

This episode, more than any other, is testament to the Out The Gayte mantra that we never yuck someone's yum.

Sex.Life season 3 is out May 28th.

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The boys are all back together with the return of prodigal son Brad, and you will not BELIEVE what treats he has brought in for the team.

Chris has been getting into a TV recommendation given on the pod recently, but he really has a bone to pick with Pockets.

We do  a whip around of interesting news from the internet - including an update on the gay version of MAFS, a selection of Broadway-related thirst traps, and a coming out story that may or may not be four years old (we're talking to our research department about it.

Matty had a very interesting interaction with a well-known New Zealand celebrity involving a locked toilet cubicle - you won't want to miss this story.

Plus a selection of suggestions from our Gaytors about what should be included on a 40 before 40 list.

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It’s been a big week as Chris hit the big 4-0. So what’s he learnt, and why has he all of a sudden started crying?!

It’s got Matty thinking about his own 40th next year, and he’s wondering whether he should be putting together a to-do list of things to tick off before the milestone.

We’ve found our Hottie of the Week in the form of a Spanish football star (si Papi) who accidentally revealed more than he meant to in a recent game.

There’s a gay version of Married at First Sight that the boys are hooked on at the moment, and we cannot wait to see how it ends.

Plus what on earth is Matty’s husband Ryan hiding from him?!

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It is all go on the podcast this week, with a heartfelt and long overdue apology straight out the GAYTE from one of the boys.

We thought we knew what the gays were into until Chris turned up somewhere unexpected and found our community en masse!

Why was Pockets crying in a show about zombies, and more importantly why is he insisting we all put ourselves through it?!

One of us is having a significant birthday this week, and it got us thinking about our old man habits.

Plus all the goss from the stag do Matty threw at his house - with a surprise guest appearance from an old friend of the podcast, who had an awkward question at the end of the night.

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The boys are back after an Easter Break, although they're still blissfully unaware of what happened to Jesus after he came out of the cave.

We whip through a quick fire round of updates on previous podcast mentions, including Tiger King Joe Exotic, our favourite Australian photographer Mitchell Burns, and that Senate Twink.

Brad's been sassed over a recent home appliance purchase - but a debate ensued between the fellas.

We discussed the art of complaining after Matty wasn't happy with his hotel room.

Plus is this our new favourite sport?! Chris plays us the very dramatic trailer for - wait for it - sperm racing.

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The boys are back for another killer episode, although Brad's in the regions - specifically returning to the scene of the crime where he was recently caught on security camera by his in-laws. So is there any residual awkwardness?!

There's some new research out around pheromones, and Chris reckons the gays love sweat more than the average person.

Matty went out over the weekend, and was very surprised by what he got up to with his husband Ryan in da clubs.

One of the boys is furious at straight boys this week, and really has a bone to pick.
Boomer Brad is in to deliver a rousing speech in support of something the Gen Z's want to cancel.

Plus for the very last time, we talk about The White Lotus. We promise - we're done.

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The boys are back together after Brad's jaunt to the regions last week, and he returns with a Hot Apple Pie review!

It looks like Pockets might be a model now?! He hit the runway in Dunedin and is ready for his Naomi Campbell diva-ship

What fun little walk down memory lane put Chris in the dog box with his partner, and what's it going to take to get out?!

We have to talk about those steamy new Robert Irwin underwear pictures.

Plus by the time you listen to this you'll already know, but we make our final White Lotus predictions ahead of the season finale (because, you know, we record on a Monday and upload on a Wednesday).

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Our boy Brad is away this week in Palmerston North, so we expect a full review of the Hot Apple Pie from the mall food court when he returns next week.

But Matty and Chris had a big weekend attending the Synthony Festival - although why did Pockets wake up with excruciating thighs the next day?!

We've had some feedback from Chris' fiancé that maybe last week we spent too long talking about The White Lotus, so strap in for the quickest of recaps (but, honestly, we had to talk about the brothers).

One of our childhood crushes - and an absolute gay icon - is heading down under. Do we think he'll make his way to New Zealand?!

There is a university overseas offering a course for male adult film stars wanting to go Gay for Pay - complete with different sets including a building site, a mechanic garage and a "chav's living room".

Plus just wait until you hear the gorgeous voice note we got from a Gaytor who had some advice for the boys about becoming a parent.

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Our boy Chris threw one heck of an engagement party, and there was a lot to discuss.

Firstly, were the rumours that the engagement party might double as a secret wedding true?!

Also who was the very unlikely Gaytor the boys met at the event?

Plus why is Brad ordering drinks from the bar like a boomer?

There's a lot going on in the LGBT+ community at the moment, and we really do need your support and love more than ever.

Plus, to finish off on a note of levity, the peen count on The White Lotus has increased, and there's an update on the brotherly love storyline.

All that and more on this week's episode.

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It's a big week on Out The Gayte as we discuss everything going down (and we mean down) on The White Lotus - including your official peen count. 

The boys all agree that comedian Pete Davidson has BDE, but should he have gotten rid of his tattoos?!

It's nearly time for Chris' engagement party, but he has a dilemma regarding gifts! 
With the weather getting warmer, Brad decided to take a dip in the pool, but his in-laws got more than they bargained for when they checked the security cameras.
Plus when do you know you're ready to be a parent? It's a big question that's been nagging Matty, and he'd love some help from the Gaytors.

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