OPPORTUNITIES ARE NEVER MISSED THEY ARE JUST PASSED ONTO SOMEONE ELSE!

Find out what I think about this!

Share with me opportunities you may have missed!
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I’M TIRED OF LOOKING AT THE WOMAN IN THE MIRROR!

Have you ever noticed that things you dislike or HATE or often JUDGE in others is a REFLECTION of things you dislike or don’t want to accept about YOURSELF!

Check out what I HATE OR JUDGE ABOUT MYSELF!
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I AM A REPEAT OFFENDER!

Want to know what I am a repeat offender at? Want to know if that is a good thing or a bad thing...CHECK OUT THE FULL VIDEO OF OUT~LAW!

PATTY PERFECT...MAYBE NOT SO MUCH!

This is something I have struggled with my whole life! Find out what my solution is and how I put her back in the cheap seats!
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I AM UNBECOMING!

I have spent most of my LIFE BECOMING!

By that, I mean striving to be something or someone!

As far back as I can remember I had such drive and determination. Not because my parents pushed me to become great it was something that I feel I was born with. Along the way, other people and events caused this voice inside my head to continue to get stuck on REPEAT!

I graduated from high school and went to college! I went to law school.

I studied and trained with the best to be the best litigator there was. Learning how to tell stories, create themes and theories to tell my clients story so that they just weren’t another file on the pile.

I was becoming a wife!

I was becoming a GREAT caretaker and teacher to my nephew!

The high achiever in me wanted to be the BEST at everything I did.

This perfectionism is and was exhausting and came at a very high price.

I WAS BECOMING A WORKAHOLIC!

I WAS BECOMING STRESSED!

I WAS BECOMING SICK!

Women, can you relate to these things I mention?

Can you see yourself in ONE ore MORE of these comments?

By learning how to listen to my inner wisdom I was able to discover what was my next step in LIFE! This was important because all the previous noise was keeping me STUCK and in REPEAT MODE!

I have learned over time to STOP BECOMING AND START UNBECOMING!

I AM NOW...

UNBECOMING...the person who I thought I had to BE!

UNBECOMING... a person driven by stress, trauma, and generations of women before me.

UNBECOMING...a person needing permission to live my BEST and BOLD LIFE EVER!

I am CHOOSING INTO A NEW LIFE! Removing the past hurts, thoughts and beliefs to UNBECOME and SEIZE THE BEAUTY OF...

WHO I AM!!!

What are you choosing? If you are READY TO START UNBECOMING send me a message let’s chat!
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HOW EASILY IT IS FORGOTTEN UNLESS IT PERTAINS TO YOU AND THEN YOU NEVER FORGET!

Sharing my memories of 9-11!

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MOURNING THE EROSION OF THE CONSTITUTION!

I am on my soapbox so watch out!
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WE HAVE A VERDICT!

I lived for those days and hearing those words!!! I would just complete a hellish trial where I had to fight tooth and nail against the police, prosecution and a judge in order to seek justice.

I did everything I could and now we waited! Unfortunately, it was out of my hands! My client's faith was being held by 6 or 12 women and men of his peers!

The trial could be anywhere from one day two weeks

Watch the full video to see how I dealt with the stress and how life after litigation is so different!
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PURPOSE PRODUCES PASSION!

How I was able to discover my purpose again which has turned into my passion!

What the whole video....
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MY DEFAULT BUTTON IS STUCK ON WORRYING!

Can you believe you were taught to worry?

Do you remember your parents saying things like...
~ "You can’t have that"
~ "Money doesn’t grow on trees(in fact I say this to my husband all the time), ~
~ "We can’t afford that"
~ "Save your pennies and maybe someday you can buy that"

I SPEND WAY TO MUCH TIME and ENERGY WORRYING!

Dr. Karl Pillner talked with a group of senior citizens and their #1 regret was wasting time worrying.

What do you worry about?
~ Money!
~Your kid’s safety!
~ Will you die in a plane crash?
~What happens when my kids graduate from high school and leave home?

Does any of this sound familiar?

Money is a HUGE TRIGGER and WORRY for me. Money has always brought me safety and security and the minute I feel LACK the DEFAULT BUTTON GETS TRIPPED.

DEFAULT: The minute a bill comes in or I have to look at my checking account. I get highjacked by the thoughts of where is the money going to come from, we don’t have a money tree int he back yard, what if I don’t have enough to pay for everything this month..ugh there is never enough.

Guess what I have discovered that my worrying won’t actually pay the bills, won’t bring in more money and of course, worrying won’t solve anything!

It just keeps me on the perpetual state of high stress and on the edge.

It also robs me of enjoying the PRESENT MOMENT.

This is difficult for me because if I relax into JOY I have to be VULNERABLE!

If I can simply say to myself what can I be grateful for in this MOMENT or what do I want to REMEMBER it makes a HUGE shift in my brain.

According to neuroscientist Alex Korb your brain chemistry changes and releases dopamine when you are grateful.

The next time you feel the dEFAULT BUTTON GETTING TRIGGERED shift into WHAT CAN I BE GRATEFUL FOR OR ENJOY IN THIS PRESENT MOMENT!

"Life is Amazing. And then it’s awful. And then it’s amazing again. And in between the amazing and the awful, it’s ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That’s just living. Heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it’s breathtakingly beautiful." LR Knost

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