I understand that the world is constantly evolving and the norms of society are inevitably changing but sometimes i feel like the excuse that the world is just becoming more modern is robing us of having real experiences. 

Being dependent on nothing but myself has always been something that i genuinely believed was the ultimate way to grow but I’m starting to realize that maybe this idea that we must be our own support system is turning into something negative. 

Sometimes its hard being yourself when it seems like its a problem. A lot of the time introverts or people with social anxiety are heavily misunderstood which makes it harder to navigate adjusting to an environment in a way that doesn’t end up with you loosing yourself.

Here’s my thing, no one ever knows what’s going on inside your head.  The only thing they can work with is what they think your intentions were and sometimes what they think is completely different from your truth… but then again, no one can ever know what’s going on in your head, they only have they’re perception to work with. So maybe intention is overrated ?

 As much as our parents might hurt us sometimes, we also have to realize that the insane expectations we set for them to keep everything together is making a large contribution to why we feel hurt in the first place 

Sometimes it feels like resolutions do more harm than good. They aren’t necessarily a bad thing all together but the way we approach New Year’s resolutions needs to be reevaluated. At least that’s what it feels like.

The older i get the more Christmas spirit i loose, but i think its only because I’m having a hard time letting go of what Christmas was like as a child, that I’m failing to define what Christmas means to me now.

Setting a boundary is one thing, but actually allowing yourself to let go is another.

Okay hear me out, being embarrassed is a normal thing that everyone has experienced at some point in their lives and I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be embarrassed but what if you just allowed yourself to be embarrassed ? Wouldn’t you lowkey be so much more free? 

Is it just me or does it sometimes feel like in order to make being single worthwhile we have to live a spicy life of flings and one night stands ? Why can’t i be single and thriving ?