My parents divorced before I could remember what was going on. What ever had happened, though, had made her hate him and, in turn, me. She would remind me that my blue eyes were the same as my dad's and her distaste for those reminders was a factor in her leaving me with him when I was 4.Taking care of me, though, seemed to be the least of his interests. When he'd hang out with women or just didn't want to deal with me, he'd lock me in my room and would rarely feed me.