My first wife was having an affair and was unwilling to end the other relationship to work on our marriage, so I gave her a move-out date.My cousin's bat mitzvah was coming up, so I figured my wife could move while I was at the celebration, and be gone before my return. I hadn't told anyone what was going on, and my wife was popular with the family, so I spent the day making excuses."No, she couldn't make it, though she sends her love." "She had a rough week at work and had to go in again today.