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Series: Life and Character of David
Service: Wed Bible Study
Type: Bible Class
Speaker: Dwayne Gandy
Series: Life and Character of David
Service: Sun Bible Study
Type: Bible Class
Speaker: Dwayne Gandy
Series: N/A
Service: Lord’s Supper Service
Type: Lord's Supper Talk
Speaker: Dwayne Gandy
Peace: A Different Kind of KingDwayne Gandy’s Lord’s Supper Talk – June 29, 2025
In this Lord’s Supper talk, Dwayne Gandy continues his series on the unique and countercultural kingship of Jesus by focusing on one of His most extraordinary attributes — the kind of peace He offers.
Most rulers throughout history have offered peace by force. Nations secure treaties by defeating their enemies. Leaders command loyalty and impose control, often at the expense of others. Peace, in this world, usually comes after conflict, bloodshed, and a demand for submission. Even in our day-to-day lives — whether at school, work, or within nations — the strongest often impose their will to create what they call peace. The message is simple: surrender to me, and you’ll have peace.
But Jesus is not like any other king.
He doesn't win peace by killing His enemies. He wins peace by dying for them. Jesus doesn’t demand submission by fear or force — He offers reconciliation through sacrifice.
Dwayne reminds us that the greatest conflict in human history isn’t between countries. It’s between us and God. And this conflict wasn’t caused by God. Scripture makes it clear: we are the ones who rebelled. James 4:4 tells us that friendship with the world puts us at odds with God. Romans 5:10 says we were “enemies” of God. Colossians 1:21 says we were “alienated and hostile in mind.” Isaiah 59 shows that our sins separated us from Him.
This is not a mutual misunderstanding. It's not a 50/50 dispute. We were entirely in the wrong. The rupture in our relationship with God was entirely our doing — and yet, Jesus came to make peace anyway.
To illustrate this, Dwayne turns to the familiar story of the prodigal son (Luke 15). The son demands his inheritance while his father is still alive — essentially saying, “I want your gifts, but not you.” He walks away, chasing pleasure, independence, and worldly comfort. But eventually, in his brokenness and poverty, the son remembers his father’s goodness and returns.
This story mirrors what each of us has done to God. We’ve told Him — with our lives, our desires, and our decisions — that we want the gifts of this world more than a relationship with the Giver. Like the prodigal, we’ve traded eternal inheritance for temporary pleasure. But just as the father ran to welcome the son, our perfect heavenly Father longs to receive us back — not with punishment, but with peace.
The difference, of course, is that our return to God required more than just a change of heart. It required the blood of Jesus. Our sins had created a chasm so deep that only the cross could bridge it. Romans 5:6–11 tells us that Christ died for us while we were still sinners — while we were still enemies, still in rebellion, still not waving the white flag.
Peace didn’t come from our surrender. It came from His death.
Isaiah 53:5 says, “The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, and by His stripes we are healed.” Jesus bore not only the consequences of war, but the cause of it — our sin. He didn’t just end the conflict; He absorbed it. He took our punishment and paid the price in full.
As Dwayne reminds us, Jesus was not forced into this role. He wasn’t drafted into service. John 10:11, 17–18 makes it clear: Jesus chose to lay down His life. He had the authority to lay it down and take it up again. No one took it from Him. This was voluntary, self-giving love from a King who desired peace at any cost — even His own blood.
And what a cost it was. Peter reminds us (1 Peter 1:18–19) that we were not redeemed with silver or gold — the way kings might buy temporary peace — but with the precious blood of Christ. Nothing on earth can purchase the kind of peace Jesus offers. It’s not a ceasefire. It’s not a temporary treaty. It’s reconciliation — an eternal, restored relationship with God Himself.
As we take the Lord’s Supper, we’re not just remembering a historical event. We are celebrating the greatest peace agreement ever made — one we could never have achieved on our own. A peace that doesn’t fade or fracture. A peace sealed not with ink or treasure, but with the blood of the King who died for His enemies… and now calls them family.
This is why we remember. This is why we worship. Because Jesus is a different kind of king — and He offers a different kind of peace.
Series: Authentic Relationships
Service: Praise and Preaching Service
Type: Sermon
Speaker: Dwayne Gandy
Root Causes of ConflictDwayne’s Sermon – Authentic Relationships Series
Conflict. It’s one of those words that instantly stirs emotion—because we’ve all lived it. We face conflict with friends, family, coworkers, even with ourselves. But beneath all the shouting, misunderstandings, and hurt feelings, there’s something deeper. Every conflict has a root.
This lesson explores those roots—not just to diagnose them, but to help us grow into the kind of people who bring peace rather than tension. Scripture shows that even strong, faithful believers have found themselves in conflict. Yet in every story, God offers wisdom to help His people rise above division and find unity again.
Conflict Is Everywhere—Even Among God’s PeopleIt’s easy to think that if we’re spiritual enough, we won’t have conflict. But the Bible proves otherwise.
Paul and Barnabas—two pillar apostles—had such a sharp disagreement over John Mark that they parted ways (Acts 15:36–41).
Jesus and Peter clashed when Peter tried to rebuke the Lord Himself.
Abraham and Lot quarreled over grazing land.
Moses faced conflict with his own siblings, Miriam and Aaron.
David and Absalom, Jacob and Esau, Joseph and his brothers—the list goes on.
From Genesis to Revelation, the Bible is filled with people trying—and often failing—to live at peace with one another. But conflict in itself isn’t always sinful. What matters is how we handle it.
Some conflict exposes heart problems that need to be addressed. Some is simply the result of clashing personalities or perspectives. And some stems from poor communication that distorts understanding.
In this sermon, we’ll look at all three.
1. Heart Issues – When Pride, Selfishness, and Control Rule the HeartThe first and deepest source of conflict is a heart problem. Until the heart is right, peace will remain out of reach.
Pride: The Sinful Elevation of SelfPride is when we lift our own worth above God, His word, or others. Most of us don’t consciously place ourselves above God, but we often put ourselves above others. We want our way, our comfort, our opinion to prevail.
Nebuchadnezzar in Daniel 4 is a striking example. He looked over the splendor of Babylon and said, “Is not this great Babylon that I have built by my mighty power and for the honor of my majesty?” (v. 30).
Before the words even left his mouth, God humbled him—sending him into the wilderness to live like a beast until he learned that “the Most High rules in the kingdom of men.”
Pride sets us against others, but even worse, it sets us against God. Only humility can bring reconciliation.
Another example comes from Sarah and Hagar. When Hagar conceived and Sarah did not, Hagar’s pride caused her to look down on Sarah. In response, Sarah’s wounded pride lashed out in harshness. The result was a bitter, lasting conflict—one that only God Himself could calm.
Pride always whispers, “I’m better,” but God calls us to whisper, “I’m His.” Our worth comes not from status or success, but from belonging to Him.
Selfishness: Pride in ActionIf pride says, “I’m better,” selfishness says, “I deserve better.”
It is the sinful pursuit of personal gain or advantage at the expense of others.
Paul warned the Philippians against this mindset:
“Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.” (Philippians 2:3)
Jesus Himself is our example. Though equal with God, He “emptied Himself,” taking the form of a servant. Selfishness divides; selflessness unites.
James contrasts heavenly and earthly wisdom, calling selfishness “earthly, sensual, demonic.” It breeds “confusion and every evil thing.” (James 3:15–16)
Wherever selfishness exists—at home, at work, or in church—conflict won’t be far behind.
The Desire to ControlPride and selfishness often lead to a hunger for control. Some people simply cannot tolerate losing influence.
3 John 9–10 describes Diotrephes, who “loved to have the preeminence.” He rejected the apostles’ authority, slandered them, and even expelled faithful members from the church.
When control becomes more important than compassion, we’ve lost sight of Christ’s heart.
A humble spirit, willing to yield and listen, invites peace. A controlling spirit breeds isolation and division.
Other Heart Problems That Breed ConflictJealousy and envy – wanting what others have.
Anger and bitterness – clinging to old wounds.
Unforgiveness – refusing to release others as God has released us.
Discontentment – always comparing, never grateful.
Fear and insecurity – acting defensively instead of faithfully.
The heart is the wellspring of life. If it’s poisoned by pride, fear, or resentment, everything downstream becomes toxic.
That’s why David prayed, “Create in me a clean heart, O God.” When we pray that same prayer, peace begins there.
2. Personality and Perspective Clashes – When Differences DivideNot all conflict is sinful. Sometimes it’s simply the product of different temperaments or perspectives colliding.
God created personality diversity. He designed some to be bold leaders and others to be gentle encouragers. Some are thinkers, others are doers. These differences are meant to complement each other—but Satan twists them into competition.
Understanding Personality DifferencesDuring family or church disagreements, personality differences often play a quiet but powerful role.
In Acts 15, Paul and Barnabas illustrate this perfectly.
Paul was mission-driven, disciplined, focused on results.
Barnabas was relational, compassionate, focused on encouragement.
When John Mark abandoned them early in their work, Paul’s “D” personality said, “No second chances.” Barnabas’s “S” personality said, “Let’s help him grow.” They split paths, yet God used both for good.
The same happens in families and congregations. Understanding personality types doesn’t excuse sin, but it helps us extend grace. When we recognize how God wired others, we can stop expecting everyone to process, feel, and respond like we do.
Churches that intentionally learn each other’s personalities—like PSD’s elders and deacons who took personality profiles—build understanding and reduce unnecessary friction. As we learn to “make room” for each other, differences that once felt like obstacles become assets.
Perspective ClashesBeyond personality, we also see conflict arise from perspective—the way our experiences shape how we see the world.
Age, gender, education, culture, family background, region, and even accent can color how we interpret the same words or events. Two people can hear the same conversation and walk away with entirely different understandings because they filter it through different life experiences.
Rehoboam’s story in 1 Kings 12 is a clear biblical example. The older advisers urged wisdom and gentleness; the younger urged dominance and pride. His decision to follow the young men’s advice split the kingdom of Israel in two.
Perspective differences aren’t sinful—but ignoring them can be disastrous.
Jesus and the Woman at the WellNo story better shows how Jesus handled perspective gaps than His conversation with the Samaritan woman (John 4). She was shocked that a Jewish man would even speak to her. Ethnicity, gender, and moral reputation all stood between them.
Yet Jesus broke every barrier. He saw beyond her background to her soul. He offered her living water—and in doing so, He healed centuries of prejudice.
If we hope to reduce conflict, we must learn to see people as Jesus saw her: not through the lens of culture or bias, but through the eyes of grace.
Family and Cultural DynamicsOur upbringing shapes how we react to others.
The Bible shows this in countless ways:
Birth order affected Jacob and Esau’s rivalry.
Favoritism poisoned Joseph’s family.
Economic differences led James to rebuke believers who gave the rich the best seats and shamed the poor (James 2).
Regional identity divided Israel when the Ephraimites were killed for mispronouncing “Shibboleth.”
All these perspective clashes reveal how easily human distinctions can overshadow divine unity.
When the church acknowledges and respects these differences, it turns potential conflict into an opportunity for mutual growth.
3. Communication Problems – When Words Wound and Assumptions MisleadThe third root cause of conflict is poor communication. We fail to listen, we jump to conclusions, we react before we understand.
James reminds us to be “swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath” (James 1:19). Yet our instincts often reverse that order.
The goal of communication is simple: to get what’s in my mind accurately into yours. But that’s difficult when both minds are full of noise—memories, emotions, biases, and filters.
The Danger of AssumptionsOne of the most powerful biblical examples comes from Joshua 22.
After the conquest of Canaan, the tribes who settled east of the Jordan built a large altar. The western tribes assumed they were rebelling by offering unauthorized sacrifices. Anger flared; an armed confrontation loomed.
But when they finally spoke face-to-face, the eastern tribes explained:
“We built this altar not for burnt offerings, but as a witness between us—that your God is our God too.”
They wanted their children to remember their shared faith. The misunderstanding vanished, and peace returned.
Assumptions almost started a war. Listening ended it.
How many modern conflicts—marital, congregational, or personal—could be resolved the same way if we simply listened before judging?
Quick Tempers and Careless WordsAs Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
When emotions run high, words become weapons. A sarcastic remark or careless tone can undo years of goodwill.
Before speaking, we must ask: “Will this heal or harm?”
Because once spoken, words can’t be taken back.
The gospel doesn’t just reveal the roots of conflict—it gives us the tools to overcome it.
1. Examine Your Own HeartBefore confronting someone else, ask God to search your own motives. Pray like David: “Create in me a clean heart.” If pride, envy, or fear is driving you, confess it. You can’t have peace with others until you’ve made peace with God.
2. Choose LoveEven when wronged, choose love. The second greatest commandment—to love your neighbor as yourself—solves more conflict than any argument ever could. When people know they’re loved, they stop fighting to be understood.
3. Get to Know Each OtherSpend time together. Learn each other’s backgrounds, personalities, and stories. The more we know people, the less likely we are to misjudge them. It’s easy to assume the worst about strangers; it’s hard to do that with friends.
4. Thank God for DifferencesOur diversity is not a threat—it’s a gift. Praise God that we are not all alike. Each difference is an opportunity to see another facet of God’s wisdom and creativity.
5. Assume Good MotivesTreat others the way you want to be treated. Give them the same benefit of the doubt you hope they’ll give you.
6. Know YourselfUnderstanding your own temperament helps you anticipate your weak points. As parents, spouses, or leaders, learning our natural tendencies allows us to manage conflict more wisely and graciously.
5. The Ultimate Conflict—and the Ultimate PeaceAt the end of the sermon, Dwayne reminded us that the greatest conflict of all isn’t between people—it’s between humanity and God. Sin made us His enemies, but Jesus resolved that conflict on the cross.
He is our propitiation, our peace-maker, the one who bridged the divide.
Through faith, repentance, confession, and baptism, we can be reconciled to God and begin living as peacemakers in His image.
If you find yourself in conflict today—whether with others or with God—know that peace is possible. Jesus has already paid the price for reconciliation. He stands ready to bring you out of strife and into His everlasting peace.
Series: Cultural Issue
Service: Sun Bible Study
Type: Bible Class
Speaker: Brian Messerli
Why this Matters:
In preparation for this, I’ve listened to about 6 hours of debates, 4 hours of sermons, I’ve read 600 pages worth of books and articles from sources on all sides of the debate because I wanted to leave no stone unturned, but what I’ve found is that under every stone I turn, there’s another stone under that one too. I’ve never been so torn on a subject, and I’ve never seen one so complex, but one of the reasons this subject is so divisive is because each side says the issue is simple, and the people on the other side are either dumb or evil for not seeing it their way.
The Issue in a Nutshell
2. Immigrants Should be Subject to the Law
3. Respect Each Other’s Convictions
Question: What other Biblical principles can we apply to the current immigration situation? And we’ll try to classify these principles as either pro deportation, anti deportation, or neutral.
4. The Majority Population is Tempted to Demonize Immigrants
5. We’re Kingdom Citizens First, American Citizens Second
6. Immigrants are Humans Made in God’s Image
7. Immigrants Should be Measured by the Same Standard of Justice as Citizens
8. Nations have the Right to Protect their Borders
9. Crimes Should be Punished No Matter the Reason
10. Immigrants Don’t Get the Same Perks as Citizens
11. Immigrants Should not be Exploited
12. Some Assimilation Required
13. Israelites Were Forbidden from Returning Runaway Slaves
14. Prioritize Life Over the Letter of the Law
15. God Prioritizes our Loves
16. They Should Pay their Fair Share in Taxes
17. We Need to use Both our Minds and Hearts
18. Remember Your Ancestors were Immigrants
19. Enforcement of Laws Should be Consistent and not Hypocritical
Bottom Line: There are principles in God’s word that one could use to argue for mass deportations of undocumented immigrants, even of those who haven’t committed crimes since they’ve been here. However, there are also principles in God’s word that argue against it. My goal isn’t necessarily to change anyone’s mind, but only to bring awareness that there are two sides to this, and it’s not an easy issue at all. Any attempt to simplify this on either side doesn’t seem fair to the other side. We should not take this issue lightly, and we should most importantly consider how our view of this issue will affect our relationships with undocumented immigrants we might be able to reach for Christ.
Which leads to this final question: what are some practical ways, as an individual Christian, to show love towards immigrants, even undocumented ones?
- We can debate policy all we want, but where the rubber meets the road is how we treat our neighbor. “The stranger who resides with you shall be to you as the native among you, and you shall love him as yourself…” (Leviticus 19:34a)
Series: N/A
Service: Lord’s Supper Service
Type: Lord's Supper Talk
Speaker: Brian Messerli
John 1:9-11 - Since the dawn of human history, it’s been the tendency for the majority population in any culture to view foreign immigrants with suspicion. For instance, Hebrews 11 says part of the suffering Abraham faced was living as a foreigner in the land of promise. In the ancient world, there was a stigma and shame attached to sojourners because people assumed you must have been kicked out of your homeland and rejected by your own people, otherwise you wouldn’t be there.
When the Israelites were living in Egypt, Pharaoh became paranoid, thinking they’d take over the country, so the Egyptians made them their slaves to them to keep them in line. In Jesus’ day, the Jews had no dealings with Samaritans and viewed Gentiles as unclean in every way. The Romans viewed Jews with suspicion for refusing to worship Roman gods, and Emperor Claudius didn’t like all the conflicts over Jesus, so he expelled all Jews from Rome in 49 AD.
In our own country, back in 1751 there was a massive influx of German immigrants to Pennsylvania, and Benjamin Franklin was terrified they were going to Germanize their colony. He asked, “Why should immigrants establish their language and manners to the exclusion of ours? Why should Pennsylvania, founded by the English, become a Colony of aliens who will shortly be so numerous as to change us instead of our Anglifying them, and will never adopt our language or customs, any more than they can acquire our complexion?”
In the mid 1800’s, there was a surge of Catholic immigrants from Germany and Ireland, and many protestant Christians were furious about it. Even Christians called them, “an invading enemy, audaciously conspiring, under the mask of holy religion, against the liberties of our country.” This led to decades of arson attacks against Catholic church buildings and convents.
In 1924, members of the Immigration Restriction League argued to Congress that the American gene pool was being polluted by a rising tide of intellectually and morally defective immigrants from Eastern and Southern Europe, and when President Coolidge signed the Immigration Restriction Act of 1924, he commented that “America must remain American.” He didn’t just mean ideologically, but racially.
And of course, some of the same anti-immigrant sentiment and fears continue today. It’s a sad, but common human reaction to view people who are different as dangerous. So is it really all that surprising to find that people looked at Jesus with suspicion too?
Jesus wasn’t just an immigrant from out of town, but from out of planet!
John 1:1, 14 - I find it interesting that the word “dwelt” doesn’t mean that He templed with us, but that He tabernacled with us. The temple was the more permanent dwelling place of God, it’s what Jesus would do if He intended to settle down here and make this His home. But instead, He tabernacled or tented with us. He was just a foreigner passing through, staying with us temporarily.
God in the flesh came to dwell with His own, but because His way of thinking was SO foreign to the locals, they didn’t recognize Him as one of their own at all.
Luke 9:58 - “The foxes have holes and the birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head.” Jesus understood He was an unwelcome foreigner on the earth, that He could never settle down and get comfortable here, and always had to live on the road and on the move from people who wanted Him gone.
Jesus was a Heavenly immigrant rejected as an outsider who didn’t belong. Let’s consider 3 ways He was rejected…
2. They Viewed Him as a Threat to National Security
3. They Deported Him from their City and from This Life
And as scary as all that is, there’s a tremendous comfort I want us to remember as we partake of the Lord’s Supper this morning. Because Jesus was willing to become a rejected foreigner on our behalf, we are no longer rejected foreigners to God. The world may reject us, but because of Christ’s sacrifice, God never will.
Ephesians 2:11-13 - Before Christ, we were strangers and foreigners to God, and God’s suspicion and deportation of us from His presence was perfectly justified because we were horrible sinners. Yet now in Christ, we’ve been brought back into God’s presence and granted permanent citizenship in Heaven.
Series: Life and Character of David
Service: Wed Bible Study
Type: Bible Class
Speaker: Dwayne Gandy
Series: N/A
Service: Praise and Preaching Service
Type: Sermon
Speaker: Brian Messerli
Genesis 3:15-16a [The Mother’s Day sermon was called the Maternal Mission, and today’s lesson is called the Paternal Mission. Both are rooted in Genesis 3] - Based on these two verses, we said that the maternal mission is to crush Satan’s head by bringing life to the world through suffering in sacrificial love for your children. It will cause her great pain to reverse the curse of death in the world through bearing and raising children. And if we continue reading, we see the paternal mission.
Genesis 3:16b-19 - The paternal mission is to crush Satan’s head by being willing to die to protect life in the world through servant leadership for your children. Adam is given the role as ruler of his household, and Eve won’t like it. She’ll want to take the lead from him, but leadership is not her mission; it’s his. Yet notice, Adam’s rulership is not like a king or boss giving orders to his family. His rulership is described in v. 18-19 as going out to labor and toil by the sweat of his brow to provide for Eve and their children, even to the point of death! So he’s a leader yes, but one who puts backbreaking effort into protecting the life Eve brought into the world. He is a servant leader.
Now, there’s some overlap between these missions. It’s not like fathers don’t suffer in sacrificial love for their children or that they play no role in bringing life into the world, and it’s not like mothers aren’t willing to die to protect their children and that they don’t play any role in leading them. But this is about their primary mission, so even though a mother might be willing to die to protect her children, the point is she shouldn’t have to because that’s the Father’s mission. And even though the father plays a role in bringing life into the world, he doesn’t suffer to do so like Mom does. The mother’s suffering comes from the creation and nurturing of life. The father’s suffering comes in the protection of life.
And this morning, I want us to look at the way God protects the lives of His children in…
Deuteronomy 1:29-33 [Here Moses speaks to the generation of Israelites on the brink of entering the Promised Land, and he’s reminding them how scared their parents were 40 years before when they refused to trust God. Listen to the way Moses tried to comfort them and give them confidence that they absolutely CAN defeat the Canaanites and enter the Promised Land. I think this is one of the most powerful encapsulations of the fatherhood of God in all of Scripture.] - This passage shows us exactly what the paternal mission looks like on a practical level. It means 4 things…
2. Provision
3. Protection
4. Preparation
And that’s still God’s vision for us today. The problem is our sin prevents that from happening. Our sin keeps us from reaching the final goal of the journey we’re on.
Which is why our Father in Heaven sent Jesus in order to fulfill the paternal mission to crush Satan’s head by being willing to die to protect life in the world through servant leadership for His children.
When Jesus came, He represented God’s presence among us. Jesus said if you’ve seen Me, you’ve seen the Father. Jesus represented God’s provision for us, nourishing us with God’s teachings and providing us with a safe place to live in God’s home forever. Jesus was God’s protection, disciplining us by disciplining Jesus in our place to awaken us to the horrors of our sin and save us from ourselves, while also crushing Satan’s head and dealing with the external threats. And finally, Jesus was God’s preparation for His children, as Jesus not only went to prepare a place for us, but to prepare us for that place so we can flourish for all eternity with our Father.
But in order to make all that possible, God had to become our servant and to be willing to die to protect and save our lives. He became a servant leader who put our needs above His own, and the question this morning for fathers is, will you be a servant leader like God for your family? And the question for all of us is, will we trust our Father in Heaven enough to follow His lead? If you’ll put your trust in Him, you’ll be perfectly taken care of both in this life and the next because He is the perfect Father, and He’s calling you home to Him where you belong.
Series: Life and Character of David
Service: Sun Bible Study
Type: Bible Class
Speaker: Dwayne Gandy
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