Madam Alimatu Dimonekene MBE is an award-winning British-Sierra Leonean human rights activist, child protection and safeguarding expert, philanthropist, and one of the world's leading advocates for ending female genital mutilation/cutting (FGM/C). In 2023, she was honored by King Charles III with the Member of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) for her outstanding contribution to preventing violence against women and girls and her tireless campaign to eradicate FGM globally.
Alimatu is the founder of A Girl At A Time (SL), an organization dedicated to educating, empowering, and protecting girls and young people from gender-based violence, child marriage, and harmful traditional practices. She is also a member of Equality Now, an Op-Ed Public Voices Fellow on Advancing the Rights of Women and Girls, and a recipient of numerous awards, including the African Achievers Award and the Rosie McGrath Activist Award.I first met Alimatu by coincidence when she attended Pansa Pansa's conversation with Lola Aforo as a supporter. During that event, she briefly shared her own experience as an FGM survivor and spoke passionately about her global advocacy work. It was immediately clear that her story deserved a wider audience, and I was honored when she accepted my invitation to join the Pansa Pansa Podcast.In this deeply moving and educational conversation, Alimatu reflects on her childhood in Sierra Leone, her loving relationship with her parents, and the painful reality that despite their opposition to FGM, cultural pressures and the authority of her grandmother ultimately led to her being subjected to the practice against their wishes. She explains how deeply rooted traditions and societal expectations often silence families and prevent them from challenging harmful practices.Throughout the conversation, she provides valuable historical and global context, discussing the origins of FGM, the various forms practiced around the world, and the reasons communities continue to uphold the practice. She also explains the significance of February 6th, the International Day of Zero Tolerance for Female Genital Mutilation, and how international awareness and advocacy have contributed to progress in protecting girls.Alimatu further discusses the devastating physical, emotional, psychological, and reproductive health consequences of FGM, while emphasizing the importance of education, community engagement, and empowering survivors to speak out. She offers hope and practical insights into how families, communities, policymakers, religious leaders, and advocates can work together to end violence against women and girls.
Chapters
02:56 Madame Ali Matsu's Background and Journey
06:08 Cultural Identity and Diaspora Experiences
09:01 Advocacy and Activism Against FGM
11:47 Challenges Faced by African Immigrants
15:07 Personal Experience with FGM
17:55 Impact of FGM on Personal Life
21:07 Navigating Cultural Expectations and Identity
23:52 The Role of Family in Cultural Practices
27:08 Reflections on Trauma and Healing
29:57 The Importance of Advocacy and Awareness
39:54 The Journey of Healing and Advocacy
45:13 Empowerment Through Community Engagement
52:47 Historical Context of FGM and Women's Health
60:27 Cultural Identity and the Impact of FGM
67:41 Reclaiming African Identity and Education
79:57 Changing Perspectives on African Identity
90:28 The Significance of February 6th FGM Awareness Day
108:10 Empowering Change: A Girl at a Time Organization
119:43 Breaking the Silence on Sexual Desire
122:06 Unpacking Cultural Stigmas and Pain
125:15 Empowering Women Through Education and Support
129:31 Community Responsibility and Changing Mindsets
132:41 The Role of Men in Ending FGM
136:59 The Socioeconomic Factors Behind FGM
140:09 The Impact of Violence on Women and Girls
143:34 Redefining Language Around FGM
149:13 A Call to Action for Community Engagement
To follow Alimatu's work, visit her website @ https://www.agdgetitdone.co.uk/