In this episode, we sit down with Japleen Pasricha, founder of Feminism in India, mother, and changemaker, for an unfiltered conversation on the emotional, physical, and social shifts that come with motherhood. Across this deeply honest discussion, Japleen opens up about the postpartum fog, the loneliness of hospital rooms, the constant negotiation between identity and caregiving, and the quiet rebellions that shape feminist parenting.

The episode flows through her birth story, postpartum recovery, body image healing, and her evolving partnership as a parent. Japleen talks about the invisible mental load that mothers carry and how modern motherhood often feels like “performing care while hiding exhaustion.” Together, Neha and Japleen explore how feminist values can live inside everyday parenting—through small acts like teaching consent to toddlers, setting boundaries, or challenging the myth of the “perfect mom.”

🌟 Why You Should Listen

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re “doing motherhood right,” this episode will remind you that there’s no single way to mother well—only your own, honest way.

You’ll hear:

• A feminist’s take on redefining motherhood beyond guilt and perfectionism.
• Honest talk about body image and self-acceptance after childbirth.
• Real examples of raising children with respect, empathy, and consent.
• How partners can share emotional labor and show up as equals.
• Why letting go of control (and embracing a little mess) can be freeing for both parent and child.

Japleen’s warmth and humor make the hard parts of parenting relatable and the hopeful parts achievable.

Notable Quotes from Japleen

• “They keep you out for observation, but no one observes your loneliness.”
• “Motherhood teaches you patience—one meltdown at a time.”
• “My daughter kissed my thighs where I saw cellulite. That was the day I stopped saying yuck to myself.”
• “You know who cares about perfect parenting? Instagram.”
• “Babies are resilient. We’re the ones who need to learn kindness—for ourselves.”
• “It’s not the baby—it’s your partner. If you’re not a team, parenting will break you before it builds you.”

Resources and References

• Feminism in India (FII): Japleen’s digital platform exploring gender equality, feminist parenting, and inclusive conversations.
• “The Mental Load: A Feminist Comic” by Emma — on invisible domestic labor.
• Postpartum Support International — for resources on postpartum depression and anxiety.

🧘‍♀️About the Guest

Japleen Pasricha is a changemaker, educator, and founder of Feminism in India, a platform amplifying marginalized voices and advancing gender discourse in South Asia. She has received global recognition for her advocacy, including features in BBC 100 Women and Forbes India’s 30 Under 30, and has won many awards including Laadli and WSA Young Innovator.

Beyond her professional identity, Japleen is a mother learning, unlearning, and redefining what feminist parenting looks like in real life—messy, mindful, and deeply human.

Connect with Japleen:

• Instagram: @japleenpasricha
• Twitter/X: @japna_p
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/japleen-pasricha-8864b348/

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In this warm and insightful Parenthoot Spotlight episode, we sit down with JoAnne Saldanha, known fondly as Myth Aunty — an educator, storyteller, and children’s literature advocate whose mission is to bring myths, legends, and stories alive for children and parents alike.

JoAnne speaks about reading not as a skill but as an act of connection — between parent and child, story and self. She shares her deep belief that stories shape empathy, confidence, and imagination, and that the most powerful thing a parent can do is simply start reading aloud.

JoAnne also unpacks what happens when we let go of “right” and “wrong” ways to read, how children’s questions (even the wild ones) reveal comprehension, and why storytelling in your mother tongue anchors cultural identity. Her reflections on contemporary children’s books, Indian publishers, and the joy of finding stories that “click” will leave listeners inspired to rediscover the magic on their own bookshelves.

Why You Should Listen

• For parents discovering the joy of reading aloud. JoAnne demystifies storytelling and reminds us that children love our voices more than perfect pronunciation.
• For educators and book lovers. Her insights on children’s comprehension, story connection, and visual learning will transform how you view literature.
• For anyone overwhelmed by “reading lists.” JoAnne helps you trust your instincts, read what resonates, and avoid comparison-driven choices.
• For cultural connection. She celebrates the power of myths, folk tales, and mother-tongue storytelling as bridges between generations.
• For perspective and laughter. From poking fun at SEO-driven content to heartfelt reflections on storytelling’s rewards, this episode balances humour with wisdom.

Resources and References

Children’s Books Mentioned

• The Tiger Who Came to Tea — Judith Kerr
• Where the Wild Things Are — Maurice Sendak
• We’re Going on a Bear Hunt — Michael Rosen & Helen Oxenbury
• The Gruffalo — Julia Donaldson
• The Dot — Peter H. Reynolds
• Gajapati Kulapati series — Ashok Rajagopalan

Recommended Indian Publishers and Platforms

• Pratham Books — Affordable multilingual stories rooted in Indian contexts.
• StoryWeaver — Free, open-access platform by Pratham Books.
• Tulika Publishers — Pioneers in bilingual and multicultural children’s books. (https://www.tulikabooks.com)
• Duckbill Books — Engaging Indian fiction for middle-grade readers. (https://www.penguin.co.in/community/about-us/publishing-divisions/childrens-publishing-2/duckbill/)
• Puffin India — Classic and contemporary titles for all ages. (https://www.penguin.co.in/community/about-us/publishing-divisions/childrens-publishing-2/puffin/)
• Bookaroo Children’s Literature Festival — India’s premier celebration of children’s books and authors.(https://www.instagram.com/bookaroolitfest)

Themes and Takeaways

• Storytelling is connection, not performance.
• Reading in your mother tongue deepens identity and emotion.
• Respect children as readers — they deserve quality, not shortcuts.
• Let curiosity guide book choices instead of trends.
• Comprehension is creativity — even “off-topic” questions are insight.
• Reading aloud builds empathy, vocabulary, and memory.
• Joy is the benchmark — if both reader and listener enjoy it, it’s the right book.

Follow The Myth Aunty on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mythaunty and discover more about her storytelling sessions, book recommendations, and resources for families and educators.

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In this candid and layered conversation, we speak with Sukanya Venkatraghavan — author of Dark Things, practicing astrologer, and mother to Katha. Known for her imaginative writing and deep introspection, Sukanya opens up about her journey through adoption, motherhood, self-discovery, and creative identity.

The episode moves fluidly between the personal and the philosophical: from the myths surrounding adoption to the small, tender, and hilarious moments that define parenting. Sukanya reflects on how becoming a mother in her 40s and being diagnosed with ADHD reframed her understanding of balance, rest, and self-worth. Through humour, vulnerability, and sharp insight, she reveals how parenting can be both a mirror and a magnifier—forcing us to grow, soften, and laugh at the absurdities along the way.

She also discusses her spiritual path — from tarot to astrology — and how both motherhood and astrology arrived together, transforming her purpose. Whether she’s talking about a toddler meltdown over a biscuit or explaining the beauty of “using her child to bring wonder back into her life,” Sukanya offers something universal: the recognition that no one truly has parenting figured out, and that’s perfectly okay.

🌟 Why You Should Listen

• If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by parenting or questioned your instincts, Sukanya’s honesty and humour will feel like exhale.
• Her take on adoption dismantles stigma and reframes it through empathy and instinct rather than anxiety or guilt.
• Her discussion on mental health, ADHD, and perimenopause offers comfort and validation for older or neurodivergent parents.
• Her reflections on rest as rebellion invite listeners to rethink the generational scripts around motherhood and self-sacrifice.
• This episode beautifully intersects creativity, spirituality, and parenting — showing how identity evolves when life takes an unexpected but meaningful turn.

Notable Quotes from Sukanya

• “He gets the good bits. I get the spiky bits of parenting.”
• “Terrible twos has got the bad rap. A three-year-old is just a two-year-old with job experience.”
• “You don’t have to earn your rest. I love that my child can see me rest.”
• “It’s a deliberate act of rebellion — breaking the generational pattern of tired mothers.”
• “I very cleverly use my child to bring wonder back into my life.”
• “You’re only as old as your child when it comes to parenting.”
• “I’m a student of astrology, and I’m a student of motherhood.”
• “Kindness above all else — and don’t forget to laugh about something every day.”

🧘‍♀️ About the Guest

Sukanya Venkatraghavan is a storyteller. Formerly the entertainment editor at Marie Claire and a journalist with The Times of India, she has built a literary career rooted in the mystical and mythological. Today, she divides her time between astrology, tarot, writing, and motherhood. Sukanya speaks with unflinching candor about neurodivergence, womanhood, and the fluid meaning of identity — whether as a creator, partner, or parent.

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In this powerful episode, legal scholar, feminist thinker, and writer Sameena Dalwai joins host Neha for a deeply engaging, humorous, and thought-provoking conversation about love, partnership, adoption, and parenting beyond social scripts. Drawing from her lived experiences as a professor, activist, mother of two daughters (one biological, one adopted), and partner in an egalitarian marriage, Sameena brings rare candour and warmth to the complexities of raising children in modern India.

In this conversation, Sameena narrates her unconventional journey — from an impulsive three-month courtship and minimalist wedding to adopting her younger daughter, navigating identity, and balancing activism with motherhood. Her reflections dismantle the romantic myths of love and marriage, question gendered expectations, and celebrate the joyful chaos of authentic parenting. The episode is as much about personal freedom as it is about empathy, equality, and humour in family life.

🌟 Why You Should Listen

• To hear a feminist perspective on parenting that integrates ideology with affection, discipline with laughter, and activism with daily life.
• To understand adoption through love rather than charity, as Sameena normalizes it with grace and practicality.
• To discover how egalitarian partnership and co-parenting actually look in practice — with wit, occasional chaos, and deep mutual respect.
• To learn why “selfless love” doesn’t work, and why parents must retain a sense of self to model integrity and independence for their children.
• To enjoy the rare blend of intellect and humour that makes tough questions feel human, hopeful, and deeply relatable.

Notable Quotes from Sameena

• “Marriage is not connected to love. You marry to share rent, to take out the garbage, to manage logistics.”
• “We must have chemistry and politics — both subjects must match.”
• “Some babies come from mothers’ tummies. Some come from Nagaland. So, these are two types.”
• “They are the kings, little children. We should earn their smiles.”
• “Selfless love does not work. Because if you let go of yourself, there is nothing to actually love.”

🔗 Resources & References

Sameena's Books:

• Bans & Bar Girls: https://www.amazon.in/Bans-Bar-Girls-Performing-Mumbais/dp/9385606247/
• Forthcoming book: Love Jihad and Other Stories of Desire and Politics

Sameena on Social Media

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sameena-dalwai-20546933/
• X/ Twitter: https://x.com/sameenadalwai

Sameena's Podcast:

• Cultural Crossroads: https://open.spotify.com/show/6C6rOhLtEUALydd6qIAIeN?si=560f08f156f7405e

On feminist parenting and equality:

• All About Love by bell hooks
• The Second Shift by Arlie Hochschild
• The Mother of All Questions by Rebecca Solnit

🧘‍♀️ About the Guest

Sameena Dalwai is an Associate Professor of Law and feminist scholar whose work bridges academia and activism. With over two decades of experience in legal education and social justice work, she writes on gender, love, marriage, and minority rights in India. Her upcoming book explores the intersection of politics and intimacy.Sameena is also a mother of two daughters, a partner in a deeply egalitarian marriage, and a podcaster herself. She brings humor, intellectual rigor, and compassion to public discourse, making her a voice of contemporary feminism rooted in everyday life.Follow Sameena’s writings and talks on academic platforms and public forums related to gender, law, and culture.

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In this deeply reflective episode, we sit down with Sharadha Ramakrishnan — parent, professional, and advocate for embracing imperfection in parenting. Across this honest and often humorous conversation, Sharadha shares how becoming a mother reshaped her views on success, patience, and self-worth.

From navigating neurodivergence and societal expectations to finding moments of joy and stillness, Sharadha’s story is both personal and universal. She opens up about the evolving rhythms of family life — how parenting has forced her to slow down, give herself grace, and embrace delayed gratification. Through laughter, vulnerability, and insight, this episode reminds every parent that growth often hides behind the quiet, unglamorous moments of everyday care.

🌟 Why You Should Listen

If you’ve ever felt guilty for not “doing enough” as a parent, or struggled to reconcile your pre-parent self with who you’ve become, this episode will meet you where you are.

• Learn how Sharadha reframed self-care as a necessity, not a luxury.
• Discover why “delayed gratification” is the truest teacher of patience in parenting.
• Explore how parenting a neurodivergent child shifted her perspective on achievement and empathy.
• Hear honest reflections about societal expectations, invisible labor, and the myth of “balance.”

Notable Quotes from Sharadha

1. “Nothing can teach you what delayed gratification means more than parenting can. Especially when you’re parenting a neurodivergent child, there is only delayed gratification.”
2. “Children are very forgiving and resilient. Your bad moments are worse in your head than in theirs.”
3. “Give yourself more grace. The reason I had this bad moment is because I was pushed beyond my bandwidth.”
4. “Blindly following advice because someone else did it has backfired for me. Every family is different.”
5. “Each one of us is doing our best at any point in time — and that’s worth celebrating.”

🛠️ Practical Takeaways for Listeners

• Interpret advice, don’t imitate it. Parenting wisdom is situational. What worked for someone else may not fit your family.
• Redefine “me-time.” Self-care doesn’t need to be extravagant; it can be a quiet book, a short workout, or simply solitude after bedtime.
• Model forgiveness. Children learn emotional regulation from watching how you recover, not from your perfection.
• Accept delayed results. Growth in children (and yourself) takes time. Parenting is an investment in the long arc of development.

🔗 Resources & References

• The Conscious Parent by Dr. Shefali Tsabary — on mindful parenting and breaking generational patterns.
• Untamed by Glennon Doyle — on self-trust, identity, and letting go of perfection.
• NeuroTribes by Steve Silberman — for deeper understanding of neurodiversity.

🧘‍♀️ About the Guest

Sharadha Ramakrishnan is a parent, professional, and advocate for mindful living. Balancing her corporate role with motherhood, she brings a candid, nuanced voice to the conversation around parenting and identity. Her reflections on parenting a neurodivergent child — from guilt to grace — invite listeners to challenge societal expectations and redefine what “good parenting” means.Sharadha believes that the most transformative moments in parenthood come not from control or perfection, but from presence, patience, and empathy — for oneself and one’s child.

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In this inspiring and heartwarming special, we shine the Parenthoot Spotlight on Sonam Samat, founder of Flavour Lab, a pioneering initiative bringing food literacy and cooking education into schools and families. In this conversation, Sonam shares why she believes “children will eat the food if they make it themselves,” how cooking can nurture healthier habits, and why food education deserves the same dignity as math or science.

From rainbow wraps and smoothie bowls to food label sleuthing with magnifying glasses, Sonam brings learning alive with hands-on creativity. Along the way, she tackles topics that matter deeply to parents: picky eaters, gender equity in the kitchen, sustainable food choices, parenting hacks, and how involving kids in food preparation creates lasting impact.

Whether you’re a parent looking for practical ideas, an educator curious about food literacy, or someone who just loves hearing about change-makers raising the next generation of mindful eaters, this episode is packed with warmth, wisdom, and wit.

Why You Should Listen:

• Learn how kids eat better when they cook and how this simple truth can transform mealtime struggles.
• Discover fun, practical ways to teach children about nutrition—from decoding food labels to “eating the rainbow.”
• Hear how Flavour Lab is reimagining food literacy for schools, making it as essential as any academic subject.
• Gain parenting wisdom—from Sonam’s bedtime story hack to turning kitchen disasters into smoothies!
• Get inspired by Sonam’s vision of a world where food education is universal, accessible, and joyful.

Quotable Quotes:

• "I say I'm on day zero of a 30-year journey. And I think it's a good quality to have where every time someone asks you what impact have you seen, you always remember what impact lies ahead of you."
• "A lot of times when you ask kids these days, where does food come from? They say, well, it comes from the phone because you're ordering it and then it gets delivered. No, food grows in the soil."
• "Cooking has for the longest time been a woman’s job… I love that our daughter sees my husband cooking more than me. He’s actually a better cook, even if I’m the one that went to culinary school."
• "If you have a very dense cake and you blend it up with milk, it is a very indulgent, creamy smoothie… not so good as a cake, but really yummy as a smoothie."

About the Guest:

Sonam Samat is the founder of Flavour Lab, a movement to integrate food literacy and hands-on cooking into schools across India. A culinary school graduate, entrepreneur, and passionate parent, Sonam believes food is not just about recipes but about connection, values, and change. Her workshops blend creativity, science, sustainability, and fun—whether kids are building rainbow wraps, investigating ingredient labels, or learning about where food really comes from.

At home, Sonam tests recipes with her daughter and neighbours, advocates for gender equity in the kitchen, and champions bedtime storytelling as a parenting ritual. She describes her work as “day zero of a 30-year journey”—raising children and raising change.

Resources & References:

• Flavor Lab – Learn more about Sonam’s initiative bringing food literacy into schools: https://www.instagram.com/flavour_lab.in
• The Whole Truth Foods – Workshops on food label reading: https://thewholetruthfoods.com

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In this candid, heartwarming, and often humorous episode of Parenthoot with Neha, activist and animal welfare champion  Ayesha Christina Benn opens up about the messy, magical chaos of raising twin daughters while caring for eleven dogs — all alongside running community projects and fighting systemic battles.

From teaching her girls that crying is okay, to setting boundaries as a working mother, to seeing her late dog Lufi as her role model, Ayesha shares her raw, unfiltered reflections on parenting, selfhood, and the importance of honest communication. She reminds us that parenting doesn’t have to mean perfection — it’s about coping, laughing, and creating a safe space where children learn to navigate life authentically.

🎧 Why You Should Listen

• If you’re a parent juggling kids, work, and a “full house,” you’ll find Ayesha’s blend of candour and humor deeply relatable.
• You’ll hear refreshing takes on me-time, boundaries, body positivity, and how to model honesty in everyday family life.
• Her stories — from Ladakh’s cliffs with her fearless dog to bath-time lessons on body acceptance — will move you, make you smile, and maybe even shift how you see your own parenting journey.
• For anyone struggling with guilt, anger, or the pressure to “do it all,” Ayesha’s insights will remind you: you are not alone.

💬 Notable Quotes from Ayesha

• “Me time is no less important than all the other things that I have… the other me time is making sure that I go and get to pet all my 11 dogs.”
• “If you ask me, who do you aspire to be? … It would be my dog.”
• “Crying is not a bad thing… if you’re feeling sad or upset or hurt or angry then crying is okay.”
• “Sometimes accepting your faults in front of your kids really works.”
• “They told me the other day — ‘Mama, we’re friends.’”
• “I bathe with both my girls… and that has been a lesson for me as well as them in body positivity.”
• “What is more important than your body? There is nothing in the world that is more important than your body.”
• “I can be a mother, and I can still say… Mama is not available from two to five.”
• “At the end of it all… it’s one nice, mazedaar, khatta-meetha bhel puri chaat."

👩‍🦰 About the Guest

Ayesha Christina Benn is an activist, educator, and animal welfare advocate who has spent years challenging systemic neglect, raising awareness about humane living, and building grassroots projects. She is also a devoted mother of twin girls and caregiver to a large family of rescue dogs. With humour, grit, and honesty, she navigates the intersections of motherhood, social impact, and personal growth.

You can follow more of her work here:

• Neighbourhood Woof on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mynwoof
• Neighbourhood Woof on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Neighbourhoodwoof/
• Ayesha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ack20
• Ayesha on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ayesha.kant

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From infertility struggles to redefining self-care, Alisha Purandare shares raw, witty, and deeply relatable truths about modern motherhood.

In this episode, we sit down with Alisha Purandare—an unapologetic champion of keeping motherhood real. Across our conversation, we explore the messy, funny, and deeply human side of parenting. From infertility struggles to embracing the “old stained gray t-shirt,” Alisha opens up about self-compassion, redefining self-care, and finding moments of joy in the midst of laundry, milestones, and chaos.

We talk about the quiet power of patience, the hidden labor behind polished Instagram moments, and why kindness should start with the voice inside your own head. Whether you’re a parent, future parent, or simply curious about the unfiltered realities of raising humans, this episode will make you feel seen, understood, and maybe even a little lighter.

🎧 Why You Should Listen

• Relatable honesty: Hear real stories that dismantle the myth of the “perfect mom.”
• Emotional insight: Learn how infertility shaped Alisha’s outlook on parenting and life.
• Practical inspiration: Discover small acts of self-care that can make a big emotional difference.
• Gentle wisdom: Understand why measuring your child’s progress should never be a race.
• Humour in the chaos: Laugh along at the absurdity and beauty of daily mom life.

💬 Notable Quotes from Alisha

• "I’m a complete couch potato… but if buying a dress and going for lunch makes me feel alive, that’s my cardio."
• "Kindness is not just for the world—it’s for the voice in your own head too."
• "We’re so quick to measure children against milestones… but maybe the real milestone is us learning to wait without panic."
• "Infertility is not a moral failing. It’s not about trying harder—it’s about accepting that biology and timing have their own plans."
• "People see the lipstick and the new dress; they don’t see the highchair I just wiped or the wet diapers I’ve changed."
• "Sometimes joy is just being okay with wearing the old stained gray t-shirt… with two holes in the back."

🛠️ Practical Takeaways for Listeners

• Redefine self-care: It doesn’t have to be spa days—sometimes it’s brushing your hair or wearing lipstick.
• Be kind inwardly: The tone you use with yourself shapes your emotional resilience.
• Slow down on milestones: Your child’s pace is their own; your job is to guide, not pressure.
• Name the invisible work: Acknowledge your hidden labor—it matters even if it’s unseen.
• Release perfectionism: Comfort, authenticity, and connection trump curated appearances.

👩🏽‍🎨 About the Guest

Alisha Purandare is a mother, storyteller, and fierce advocate for authenticity in parenting. Her candid reflections on motherhood—rooted in personal experience with infertility, self-discovery, and the daily grind of parenting—resonate deeply with anyone navigating the unpredictable terrain of raising children. Alisha brings humor, compassion, and a deep sense of honesty to every conversation, reminding us that parenting is not about perfection, but about connection.

Follow Alisha: https://www.instagram.com/joyful_soup, https://www.instagram.com/twopurplelines

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In Episode 42, award-winning author Dharini Bhaskar takes us on an intimate, witty, and heartwarming journey into the realities of parenting. From the emotional mirror that motherhood holds up to us, to the power of presence over perfection, Dharini shares unfiltered reflections drawn from her own experiences as a mother and storyteller.

We talk about the pressures of curated “perfect parenting,” decoding children’s needs behind tantrums, building a reading culture at home, and learning from your child as much as you teach them.

If you’ve ever wondered how to balance work, creativity, and parenting without losing your sense of self — or how to simply be present in the whirlwind — this episode is for you.

🎧 Why You Should Listen

• To hear authentic, relatable parenting stories from a celebrated author who isn’t afraid to admit her vulnerabilities.
• To explore practical shifts that can make parenting less exhausting and more joyful.
• To understand why children can be our greatest teachers, and how to learn from them in daily life.
• To discover how books and storytelling can shape a child’s emotional world.
• To be reminded that you’re not alone in the mess, the guilt, or the magic of parenthood.

💬 Notable Quotes from Dharini

• "Motherhood is like being handed a mirror you didn’t ask for – and suddenly it reflects every joy, every insecurity, every hidden corner of yourself."
• "Sometimes the best parenting strategy is to take a deep breath, count to ten, and remember that you’re raising a child, not curating an Instagram feed."
• "Children have this incredible ability to forgive you before you’ve even forgiven yourself."
• "The day I stopped chasing balance and started chasing presence, parenting became a lot less exhausting."
• "Parenthood isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about showing your child how to live with the questions."

🛠️ Practical Takeaways for Listeners

• Chase presence, not perfection — Your child values your attention more than your ability to “do it all.”
• Decode tantrums with empathy — Most meltdowns hide basic needs: rest, food, or emotional reassurance.
• Lead by example — Children remember how you live, not what you lecture.
• Make reading a family ritual — Books can act as companions, mentors, and emotional anchors.
• Accept imperfection — Mess and mistakes are part of the learning journey for both parent and child.

Resources and References

Dharini Bhaskar’s Books:

• These, Our Bodies, Possessed by Light: These, Our Bodies, Possessed by Light : Bhaskar, Dharini: Amazon.in: Books
• Like Being Alive Twice: Like Being Alive Twice : Bhaskar, Dharini: Amazon.in: Books

Connect with Dharini:

• Instagram: @dharinibhaskar
• Author Page: Penguin India Profile

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👩🏽‍🎨 About the Guest

Dharini Bhaskar is an acclaimed Indian author whose debut novel, These, Our Bodies, Possessed by Light, was shortlisted for the JCB Prize for Literature. Known for her lyrical prose and deep emotional insight, Dharini’s writing explores identity, relationships, and the intricacies of human connection. Beyond her literary work, she is a mother navigating the joys and challenges of raising a young child, and she brings this lived experience into her reflections on parenting. Dharini is a passionate advocate for the role of stories — both told and lived — in shaping who we are.

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In this episode, we sit down with Shravya Kaparthi, a parent whose creativity and resilience have not only shaped her own parenting journey, but also hold the promise to touch countless others through her upcoming children’s book series, The Girl with the Red Hearing Aids. Inspired by her daughters, Divi and Urvi—both of whom have hearing loss—Shravya shares how stories became her family’s bridge between worlds of sound, silence, and imagination.

In this conversation, she opens up about raising two daughters with hearing differences, the emotional and practical challenges, and the everyday rituals that bring comfort and connection. More than just bedtime tales, stories emerge as anchors of safety, mirrors of identity, and sparks of resilience. Shravya reminds us that the narratives we tell our children—and ourselves—can transform parenting into a journey of growth, empathy, and joy.

Why You Should Listen

• To discover how storytelling can become a tool for healing, belonging, and resilience in families.
• To learn from the lived experiences of a parent navigating hearing differences with grace and creativity.
• To be inspired by Shravya’s journey from parent to children’s book author, translating personal challenges into universal stories.
• To reflect on the role of rituals, patience, and self-compassion in everyday parenting.

Highlights & Time Stamps:

• [00:04:12] Showing up over perfection: what really matters in parenting.
• [00:07:46] The art of listening without fixing.
• [00:16:52] “Self-care is not selfish—it’s survival.”
• [00:22:14] The daily practice of forgiving yourself.
• [00:28:33] Bedtime stories as rituals of safety and connection.
• [00:35:18] Parenting identity when raising children with hearing differences.
• [00:42:50] When your children become your teachers.
• [00:48:05] How tiny, ordinary moments create childhood.
• [00:54:20] Parenthood as a mirror for self-discovery.

About the Guest

Shravya Kaparthi is a mother of two daughters, Divi and Urvi, both hard of hearing. Through her lived experiences, she has discovered the profound role of stories in parenting—helping her daughters build identity, confidence, and connection. Her upcoming children’s book series, The Girl with the Red Hearing Aids, brings these themes to life for young readers and parents alike. With honesty, warmth, and wit, Shravya encourages us to see parenting not as a quest for perfection, but as a tapestry woven from patience, love, and the stories we choose to tell.

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• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shravya.kaparthi/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shravyakaparthi/

🦻 Follow The Girl With The Red Hearing Aids:

• Website: https://thegirlwithredhearingaids.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegirlwiththeredhearingaids/?hl=en

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