By Annette Hines
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Special needs trusts are an essential tool for families who want to ensure the long-term financial security of their loved ones with disabilities. However, I know firsthand how overwhelming and confusing navigating the world of trusts can be.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I break down the essentials of special needs trusts in an accessible way. I share practical tips for choosing the right trustee and explain their responsibilities. Trustee’s are important—not just in managing the trust, but in making sure the beneficiary continues to receive the care and services they need. My goal is to simplify what often feels like a daunting process, stressing that choosing the right trustee, maintaining open communication, and making informed decisions are key to supporting the well-being and future of those we love.
In this episode, you will hear:
An overview of the responsibilities of a trustee.
How special needs trustees differ from regular trustees.
What factors should be considered when selecting a trustee.
How trust distributions affect public benefits eligibility.
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Being a caregiver can be tough and sometimes lonely. For caregiving moms, having a sense of community and connection is essential. Whether it's sharing tips on managing hectic schedules or simply lending an empathetic ear, having a supportive network of fellow moms can make all the difference in navigating the challenges of motherhood.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines sits down with Jessica Patay, founder of We Are Brave Together. Inspired by her journey as a special needs mom, Jessica established the nonprofit in 2017 to create a safe, judgment-free space where caregiving moms can connect and support one another, addressing the exhaustion and isolation they often face. In this conversation, Jessica discusses the power of building supportive communities for those navigating the unique challenges of raising children with special needs, as explored in her anthology, Becoming Brave Together. Jessica reminds us that no mother should face their caregiving journey alone.
In this episode, you will hear:
How caregivers can prioritize their mental health effectively.
Why community is essential for supporting caregiving moms.
What makes building connections so vital in the world of caregiving.
How advocacy for caregivers and raising awareness about their struggles help combat stigma.
Resources from this Episode:
Website: https://www.wearebravetogether.org/
Listen to the Brave Together Parenting Podcast
Read Becoming Brave Together: Heroic, Extraordinary Caregiving Stories from Mothers Hidden in Plain Sight
LinkedIn: @jessica-patay
Instagram, Facebook, & YouTube: @wearebravetogether
Twitter/X: @wearebravemoms
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Parents often carry a heavy weight of shame and self-blame when their children face tough times. It's natural for them to feel responsible, but it's important to remember that not everything is within a parent’s control. By staying present and connecting with themselves, parents can let go of the burden of shame and find a more positive, hopeful way forward.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines sits down with Celia Landman, a mindfulness educator and author of When the Whole World Tips: Parenting through Crisis with Mindfulness and Balance. They share an honest and heartfelt conversation about the real struggles of parenting during a crisis and how mindfulness and meditation can truly make a difference. Celia opens up about how parents can reconnect with their true selves and face difficult times without carrying the extra weight of blame or shame. By recognizing societal pressures, allowing themselves to feel a range of emotions, and offering compassionate support to one another, parents can find the grace and resilience they need to keep moving forward. This episode is a reminder that even in the toughest moments, there is hope and community. Parenting through a crisis is never easy, but it’s a journey no one has to take alone.
In this episode, you will hear:
Explore the key differences between mindfulness and meditation.
How mindfulness and meditation can benefit healing and self-awareness.
How societal pressures fuel feelings of shame and blame.
Why being present in someone’s pain is powerful.
Resources from this Episode:
Website: https://celialandman.com/
LinkedIn: @celia-landman-232185149
Instagram: @celiasacct
Facebook: @celia.landman
Read: When the Whole World Tips: Parenting through Crisis with Mindfulness and Balance
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Understanding the administration of special needs trusts can make a world of difference for people with disabilities, providing them with financial stability and peace of mind. These trusts—like third-party and first-party trusts—come with specific rules that trustees must follow to ensure the beneficiary can keep accessing essential public benefits.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I talk about the importance of building a solid relationship between trustees and beneficiaries. Understanding the basics of trust administration is valuable for everyone—not just those currently acting as trustees. I also stress how crucial it is to use clear, precise language and to accurately identify beneficiaries in trust documents. These details are essential to ensuring that beneficiaries keep access to the public resources they rely on. If you’re ready to take control of your trust administration knowledge and make a lasting impact, register for my Special Needs Advocacy and Planning Masterclass. This provides the tools and guidance you need to create a comprehensive life plan with confidence.
In this episode, you will hear:
Learn the difference between third-party and first-party special needs trusts.
What factors trustees should consider when making distribution decisions within special needs trusts.
What responsibilities trustees have when managing special needs trusts.
How trustees can protect the beneficiary's public benefits within special needs trusts.
Why it is essential for trustees to consult with professionals and understand tax implications.
Resources from this Episode:
Register for the Special Needs Advocacy and Planning Masterclass
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Join our community: Circle of Care
Visit: https://annettehines.com
Read Butterflies and Second Chances
LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc
Instagram: @parentingimpossible
Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies
Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo
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For longtime listeners, it’s clear this podcast covers a wide range of topics—from family discussions about kids to conversations on adult disabilities. This conversation focuses on the challenges of balancing health and work while living with a chronic illness. Practices like meditation, journaling, and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) are powerful tools for managing mental health, offering ways to create a more stable and fulfilling life despite these ongoing challenges.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines talks with Lauren Perna, leader of the Boston chapter of the Chronic Boss Collective, dedicated to supporting businesswomen and entrepreneurs managing chronic conditions. With a corporate background and personal experience with mental health struggles, Lauren understands the challenges of balancing ambition and well-being. She’s built a community where entrepreneurship and mental health go hand in hand, promoting self-awareness and the importance of self-care. Lauren also advocates for workplace cultures that prioritize both mental and physical health.
In this episode, you will hear:
What tools to use for managing mental health
Why it is important to create custom work arrangements
Why re-evaluating workplace cultures is important
How to balance being an ambitious entrepreneur while dealing with chronic conditions
Resources from this Episode:
Website: https://www.laurenperna.com/
LinkedIn: @laurenelizabethperna
Instagram & Facebook: @laurenpernacomms
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Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo
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Parenting is a rewarding journey filled with love, laughter, and joy. However, it also comes with its fair share of challenges. From sleepless nights to tantrums in the grocery store, every parent faces obstacles along the way. But what happens when those challenges are compounded by raising a child with disabilities?
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines speaks with Joanne De Simone, a special education advocate, and author of “Fall and Recovery: Raising Children with Disabilities through Lessons Learned in Dance”, about the challenges of raising a child with disabilities and navigating the healthcare and education systems. Joanne, a former professional dancer turned advocate, shares her journey and the importance of building community support for parents facing similar struggles. She also discusses her role in securing a legislative change that allowed her son, Sebastian, to participate in NCAA D3 intercollegiate sports, a huge win in her commitment to inclusivity. True change for children with disabilities comes through relentless advocacy, collective support, and the belief that every challenge can be met with hope and resilience.
In this episode, you will hear:
Common challenges parents face when raising a child with disabilities
How parents can advocate for inclusive environments in the education system
Why community support is important for parents of children with disabilities
How can embracing hope and possibility lead to personal growth
Resources from this Episode:
Website: https://special-educationmom.com/
Read: “Fall and Recovery: Raising Children with Disabilities through Lessons Learned in Dance”
Facebook: @special-educationmom
Twitter/X, Instagram: @jojdesimone
LinkedIn: @joanne-de-simone
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Parenting a child with hearing loss comes with its own unique challenges and families may find themselves grappling with isolation and communication barriers. In these moments, community support and shared knowledge can make a world of difference.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines welcomes Alaine Jacobs, a passionate advocate for the deaf community. Drawing from her personal experience as a parent, Alaine guides and supports others facing similar challenges. With a background in education, she helps families navigate both medical and educational systems, offering practical advice through her website, RaisingDeafKids.com, and her “Raising Deaf Kids” podcast. During the conversation, she addresses the ongoing debate within the deaf community about hearing loss, emphasizing that many view it not as a disability but as a normal variation of human experience. Alaine encourages respect for diverse opinions and choices, urging parents to connect with local and online communities to empower themselves in making informed decisions that best suit their family’s needs.
In this episode, you will hear:
Learn about key resources for parents of children with hearing loss.
Discover the divisions in the hearing loss community regarding cochlear implants
The importance of early diagnosis and intervention for hearing loss.
How to create a personalized communication plan for children with hearing loss.
Why parents of children with hearing loss need to connect with local and online communities for support and information.
Resources from this Episode:
Website: http://raisingdeafkids.com/
Listen to the Raising Deaf Kids Podcast
Facebook: @raisingdeafkids
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Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies
Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo
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The journey of caring for a child with disabilities is a tumultuous emotional ride. There are highs celebrating achievements and lows during setbacks. It's important to recognize those feelings and find healthy ways to cope along the way.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines chats with Jessica Fein, author of Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes and host of the I Don't Know How You Do It podcast. Jessica opens up about her journey parenting a child with MERRF syndrome, an ultra-rare degenerative disease, and emphasizes the importance of visibility for acceptance and inclusion. Instead of focusing solely on challenges, she stresses the need to highlight the unique strengths of children with disabilities, which fosters a more inclusive society. Annette and Jessica also discuss how vital it is to have a supportive community, as raising a child with disabilities truly takes a village.
In this episode, you will hear:
How writing can help parents cope with emotional challenges.
Ways to find beauty and joy amidst grief and sorrow.
Why advocating for awareness and inclusion is important for children with disabilities.
How a strong support system can benefit parents of children with disabilities.
Resources from this Episode:
Website: https://www.jessicafeinstories.com/
Read Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes
Listen to I Don't Know How You Do It
Facebook:@jessica.fein.92
Instagram: @feinjessica
LinkedIn:@jessica-fein
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Music has a way of connecting people, transcending language barriers, and healing the soul. The discipline and dedication required to master an instrument can translate into valuable life skills that go beyond the music classroom.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines spoke with Annie Ray, the founder of the Crescendo Orchestra program, a music class tailored for students with significant disabilities, and Parent Orchestra, which invites parents to join their children in learning music, fostering a vibrant community, and encouraging parental involvement in their kids' musical journeys. Annie passionately advocates for music education as a core subject, emphasizing the need to meet students where they are and tailor instruction to their unique needs. Her approach showcases music’s profound impact on students, transcending mere notes and rhythms. The Crescendo Orchestra program is a shining example of how music can transform the lives of young students, providing them with a sense of community, purpose, and hope for the future.
In this episode, you will hear:
Why emphasizing a student-centered approach fosters a joyful space for musical exploration without fear of judgment.
Ways the Parent Orchestra program has built a vibrant community of over 200 parents on a shared learning journey.
How music education sharpens cognitive abilities and instills resilience, helping students navigate challenges and embrace imperfections.
Ways fellow educators can launch inclusive music programs, advocating for equal access to the transformative power of music education.
Resources from this Episode:
Watch Annie’s TEDx Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/annie_ray_the_sound_of_sucess
Learn More About Annie’s Program and GRAMMY win - Annie Ray: Music Educator
Learn More about the Parent Orchestra -
Disability is a topic often surrounded by stigma and misconceptions, particularly within Kenyan communities, where the burden can become a significant financial strain on families. In Kenya, parents of children with disabilities face not only a lack of acceptance and support but also the heavy weight of stigma, which exacerbates their struggles.
In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines and Thitu Muiruri, an accomplished filmmaker, sheds light on the pervasive stigma surrounding disabilities in African communities. Muiruri's documentary work delves into the struggles faced by parents of children with disabilities, revealing the harsh realities of societal judgment, lack of support, and financial hardships. Through her documentaries and short films, she seeks to spark critical discussions and educate the public about the challenges individuals with disabilities face. It's through these conversations that people can truly understand different perspectives, learn from one another, and work towards positive change.
In this episode, you will hear:
What challenges parents of children with disabilities in Kenya face.
How societal attitudes add to the struggles of individuals with disabilities and their families.
What role informal support networks among mothers play in the disabilities community.
What efforts are needed to provide resources and support to mothers of children with disabilities.
How to advocate for better accessibility in buildings and roads for individuals with disabilities and their families.
Resources from this Episode:
Website: https://thitu.art
Facebook: @thituproductions
Instagram:@thitu___
LinkedIn: @salthitumuiruri
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