Parenting In The Thick Of It with Louise Clarke

The more I understand about thoughts the more I am able to manage them so they don't control me and sabotage me from being able to be present. When you develop an awareness for your thoughts, you can effectively choose which ones to "follow" and which ones to let go of. The problem is that we are wired to attach to negative thoughts five times more easily than we are to positive ones. And given they create our feelings and our feelings create our actions, being able to let go of the negative thoughts before they create the associated feelings within us is a good thing. Tune in...

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Have you ever considered that creative genius or inspiration requires a certain type of openness or spaciness? And precisely the sort of spaciness and openness that your child probably displays. In Chapter 5 of the book, "The Gift Of ADHD", the author Lara Honos-Webb PH.D. discusses the gift of creativity and the other traits that can often accompany it, traits that are typically seen as being negative, traits that kids with ADHD typically possess. Lara Honos-Webb helps the reader reframe these "negative" traits into more positive ones and I have found doing so incredibly valuable in helping me shift my perspective on this when parenting my child who had ADHD. Tune in...

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With the invention of smart phones and the surge in texting, SnapChat and other communication platforms, we have become so accustomed to being able to get almost instant replies that when we don't, it can leave us impatient or prone to worrying unnecessarily. Do you worry when you text your child and they don't reply instantly? Do you expect them to reply to your texts immediately so you know exactly where they are and what they are doing? This can have negative effects on your relationship with them and your child knowing that you trust them. Tune in...

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Parent's are often left reeling at their child's chosen behavior, thinking what on earth just happened? And why? Why on earth did my child do that? Using the iceberg analogy for decoding behavior can be a useful tool for parents and one which I recommend. In other words, get curious as to what might be going on beneath the surface. Your child might be whining, shouting, crying, or being aggressive. These are the surface behaviors, the ones you see, but you have to look beyond this to what might be going on beneath the surface because it is this that usually drives the behavior. Beneath every behavior is an unmet need and it is up to us to be the Chief Inspector of Behavior in order to work out what it might be! Tune in...

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When I finally understood that my emotional response has less to do with the things I experience and more to do with the thoughts and beliefs I have, boy oh boy, did it help me with my parenting. This was HUGE for me, tune in...

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How often do you give yourself a time-in, or any time to just sit and be. Time to sit and ponder, reflect and lap up some quietness, solitude and silence. Silence nourishes us from within and allows us to develop an awareness of our minds and ultimately be able to give our minds a much needed break from the incessant thinking. Tune in...

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In today's episode, I discuss Chapter 4 from the book "The Gift of ADHD" by Lara Honos-Webb PH.D and it's a good one! It is super useful to be aware of the common barriers to becoming your child's advocate so that you can learn to navigate them and become what your child needs you to be. I learned so much from this chapter and have shared all the nuggets here for you.  Tune in:

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Being able to control our own behavior in the face of any behavior our child might throw at us takes a huge amount of awareness and self-control. Losing it, yelling and joining them in the "ring" doesn't teach our children what they most need to learn - that being self-regulation and being able to handle their own big emotions. Tune in as I discuss what you can do...

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I am right in the thick of college applications and admissions processes with my eldest son and it's crazy!!! There's such a delicate balance required from us in assisting them but not doing it for them and assisting them enough that they don't feel overwhelmed by it all. In this episode, I share with you what I have been doing and it seems to have worked... so far!! Remember that how you cope with it will strongly influence how your child will ultimately cope with it. Tune in...

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Whatever it is your child might be struggling with, it is so hard for us to watch the struggle. Whether it is emotional pain or physical pain, it can be such an uncomfortable place to find ourselves. We just want to fix it and take it away for them. But doing this robs our kids of developing some pretty vital life skills. Tune in...

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