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In conscious parenting, the message we often hear is - connect, connect, connect.

And yet, rarely do we hear about the importance of healthy separation in our relationships with our children. Tune into this episode to get some support with healthy separation in your parenting. www.purejoyparenting.com

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Do you experience happiness emanating from inside and spreading out or coming from the outside and spreading in?

Most of us were trained to attach happiness to an external event.

Tune into this week's episode to hear more about happiness as an internal experience.

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Have you noticed how transitions can be both exciting and scary? Settling into a rhythm, a pattern, or a way of being feels safe and secure, and yet in the river of life, there is always a flow. Children are constantly shifting and changing as they grow and develop. And yet, it is easy as parents to crystallize our view coming to a conclusion about who our children are or are not. Tune into this week's episode as we talk about transitions! www.purejoyparenting.com

Ever feel misunderstood and judged by the way you parent? Do others think you are permissive and question your style? If others are not interested in hearing how you parent and, out of their discomfort, keep telling you how "wrong" you are for messing up your child, do you listen? Tune into this week's episode to hear more about coming together in a new culture of parenting. www.purejoyparenting.com

In my parenting, the number 1 challenge I experience is holding onto unrealistic expectations. Right? Do you remember before you had your first child? What were your fantasies? Your expectations on yourself?

Tune into this week's episode to hear more about what to do with expectations!

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Seeing what your child is actually doing instead of focusing and believing they are ONLY doing the negative sends a message to your child that they are a whole human being experiencing positive and negative. If you focus only on the negative your child is hearing over and over they have a deficit which becomes their internal self-talk.

The more balanced you see a situation the less emotionally charged you'll be when supporting your child in learning skill sets that will support their growth.

Tune into this week's episode to hear more!

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As a parent, it is easy, to think what you believe is "right" casting your child as in the "wrong". When this happens righteousness pops up defending and justifying your actions of pushing, pulling, or forcing your child to live into your high values. I'm here to offer you another way of seeing. What if thinking you are right is just your first STOP on the elevator down to connecting with reality? Tune into this episode to find out what might be possible! www.purejoyparenting.com

Synchronicity in parenting is the occurrence of meaningful coincidences that seem to have no cause. Tapping into this field offers a different lens to view certain situations and to enter a realm out of the ordinary. Have you ever thought of someone and you end up running into them at the store? Hmmmmm! What is that?

Tune into this week's episode to hear all about it!

When I adopted my daughter I was SURE I had it all together. I was going to be the best parent in the world and I was READY for my mission. So, when I found myself in the weeds struggling to get my 4-year-old to listen, I noticed that I was withdrawing love and protecting my heart. This led to a deep inquiry about what was going on inside my heart and why did I feel the need to protect it from this beautiful being that I so longed to give my heart to?

Tune into this week's episode to hear more about open-hearted relating.

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