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Dear friends its very difficult to control our tongue. But when you know how to control it you will be the real winner of the life.  

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mastering something is not so easy but when you are done with that then you will be the king of your own life. #learntoconlroltongue 

Tongue Quotes  “The tongue has no bones but is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words.”  

 “The tongue is but a small soft flesh. yet it is capable of breaking the strongest bonds and destroying the most powerful of relationships.”

  “Talk with your mind before you talk with your tongue.”

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Positivity means thinking in an optimistic way, looking for solutions, expecting good results and success, and focusing and making life happier. It is a happy and worry-free state of mind, which looks at the bright side of life.  Positivity means a #positive frame of mind.  

With this frame of mind, you do not take things too personally. You enjoy the #presentmoment. You do not worry about the future. You focus on doing and achieving, not on thinking about the past and about difficulties. I

t means a state of being a happy, tolerant and good-natured. Collins dictionary defines it as “The state or quality of being positive”.  Cambridge dictionary defines it as “the quality of having a positive attitude”. The emotions associated with positivity are joy, love and inspiration. A person possessing this state of mind chooses constructive and good feelings and emotions, and tries to avoid the negative and unhappy feelings. 

 This might not be easy at first, but with a little training, it becomes possible.  

Being positive does not mean ignoring difficulties and bad experiences. It means acknowledging them, learning from them, doing better, and using the knowledge gained to improve.  With this state of mind, though you might experience negative emotions and go through unpleasant experiences, you will not lose your spirit or give up.  

Life is such that we often hear negative stories and #negativenews. 

If we let them seep into our conscious mind and into our subconscious mind, we are allowing negativity to rule our life. This happens often, because of the negative information that finds its way into our mind, and which we encounter in daily life, on TV, the newspapers and the Internet. We should resist this negative information and let it take over our mind, feelings and life. You need to make efforts to increase positivity in your life, in order to counteract negativity. A little more #optimism, love, and happy thoughts, would help you in this respect. Do something useful each day, to improve your life and the lives of other people. All this, will contribute to a steady growth of positivity in your life.  Each evening, sit down and think what kind of thoughts and emotions you experienced this day? Were there more positive or negative thoughts and emotions? Think what you can do tomorrow to increase positivity in your life.  As you fill your day with more constructive, optimistic and happy thoughts and emotions, and do beneficial actions to make life better every day, you will #understand more what positivity is and how to increase it in your life.  I have written a great deal about this topic in my other articles about positivity.  If you wish to take this a step further, and learn a few practical techniques to become more positive I advise you to read the book Positive Thinking – The Power to Succeed.  You will find in this little book guidance for making positive thinking a reality in your life. You will also learn how to replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts, and bring optimism, happiness and joy into your life.

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There is no replacement of #hardwork for prosperity. No matter how talented you are, you’ve to work hard to excel in life. It’s not about competition only, it’s also about determination and consistency. We need to work hard for prosperity because success demands dedication. No matter which profession you choose which career you aim at, you’ve to work hard to perform the best and make it to the top.  Hard work is the first step towards #smartwork. Through hard work we gain experience; it helps us discover many new things. This experience enables us to think smartly to solve a critical problem and achieve success.  If you are not smart, your hard work won’t pay off. This is why donkeys are valued less than horses. Donkeys work hard, exactly as the master says, whereas the horse does listen to the master but with some level of its own smartness. A. In life, nothing can be done without working hard. Each one of us remembers toiling hard before the exams to get good scores or burning the midnight oil to meet a deadline. We did this because we realised the value of putting in that extra effort because we cherish the dreams and aspirations that we set for ourselves and want to achieve them at any cost.  B. Those not willing to work hard are lazy. Such people shirk all work given to them and lose out on opportunities that others grab. Their aspirations, too, lie within their comfort zones. They don’t like testing themselves too much and are happy allowing things to happen to them, rather than being proactive. Laziness is not an option for the present generation as they aspire for greater things and are willing to work hard it.

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Sometimes #people appear in your life unexpectedly like a gift from the Universe. You didn’t even know you needed them, or that you had called out silently to them. They appear when you needed them most, to lift you, educate you, wake you up, or shine a light on your path. They #sprout the seed that was in you, and patiently watch that seed emerge from the soil. Sometimes it wears them out to water and fertilize you every single day as you grow. This is a delicate time, you as the plant, and they as the nurturer. You as the plant need them for your growth, and they as your nurturer, have to have the energy to believe in your growth. Then, one day you blossom, and awaken to the beauty around you and rejoice. The only thing you ask from them anymore, is to celebrate the flower they have brought to life, and to accept the riches you now will give to them.” #தமிழ்

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“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”  “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.”  “If you live to be a hundred, I hope I live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.”

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something to implement in ourselves to be happy and to make others happy

Identify your weaknesses 

 You can not turn your weaknesses into strengths if you do not know what your weaknesses are, so first discover them. 

 2. Every Weakness has a Corresponding Strength Think about your weaknesses at school, work, and even life in general. What are some things that you absolutely cannot stand about yourself? 

3. Get advice 

4. Hire Skills 

5. Get good enough 

6. Seek to help others