Perfectly Incapable

It's a new year, a new decade, and...we're still trying to get it together. When we're trying to do everything sometimes we end up with the paralysis of choice. How do you choose what's most important or where to begin? In order to cross things off our lists we have to pick our priorities and where to put our time. We have to start somewhere, so how do we choose? Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast.

There’s a line between having a hobby or being a collector and just flat out hoarding. It’s not a fine line, but it’s a pretty slippery slope if you have an addictive personality. From beanie babies to mounds of old newspapers, collections can quickly get out of control and affect your relationships, personal space, financial standings and even your mental health. We’re discussing some of our own obsessions today, why artists make great hoarders, and some ways to try and keep yourself from plummeting into the danger zone. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast.

It's Gay Christmas again! Halloween is our favorite time of year (although it's apparently not everyone's) and we're diving into our favorite spooky season. From costumes and parties to some of our favorite pop culture killers, light a candle and join us for another Halloween episode!

We’re probably all familiar with the classic “opposites attract” trope (Ross and Rachel, Cordelia and Xander) but what really makes our opposites appealing? Is it the constant push and pull or the passionate make ups? Is there longevity in the tension or are they just meant to fizzle out? Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast.

As much as we try, nobody’s perfect. At some point or another we all fuckup, but how easy is it to admit when you’ve made a mistake? We’re discussing how we handle our own personal errors, as well as when those around us are anything less than perfect. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast.

IT'S OUR ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY! Neither Adam or Luis have made it to one year in their endeavors, so they're taking some time to reflect on the past year and see if they can find any areas of growth. Good luck, right? They discuss some of their favorite topics, if any of their views have changed, what they'd like to see in the future, and potentially even compliment one another (gasp). Grab your favorite hard seltzer, sit back and reflect with the boys! Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast.

Ever thought about your biggest fear? How about the first time you felt afraid? With spooky season just around the corner, today we're talking about FEAR and some of the ways it manifests. What causes fear? Are there actually any "irrational fears"? We throw in a little research and science paired with personal experiences to discuss the different types of fear and where they come from. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @perfectlyincapablepodcast.

Having a social media presence today is basically a requirement and can literally be your money maker. Over the last year we’ve seen content creators and celebrities open up about mental health, and the burnout that comes with feeling like you have to always “be on” for the public. From the fear of falling behind to errand fatigue, we’re discussing some of the ways Millennials and Gen-Z are suffering from burnout faster than we probably should be. Paired with this episode, Adam discusses taking a few weeks off (relatable content?) Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. 

Has a partner ever left you alone in their room and the urge to snoop won? If you're like Adam you're probably just waiting for them to leave. Today we're talking about privacy and some of the ways it's changed over the years. From parent's open-door rules to going through a partner's phone (they may have also went on a rant about cell phones for a while). Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast. 

It’s easy to say we’re good at compromising until we’re in the middle of Whole Foods fighting over what brand of toilet paper to buy. Sometimes a decision as simple as where to eat can turn into one of those huge “nothing fights” (life hack: just order from multiple restaurants and have a buffet). The boys discuss how and when to compromise in this one, how good they are at it, and some of the times it’s easier said than done. Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast and Twitter @PerfinPodcast.