Your choices are going to determine whether or not you get to experience all that God has planned for you. Because the thing about choices is that we aren’t choosing between what we think. Banning Liebscher says in his book, The three-mile walk,” Life is not a choice between a safe and easy path and a hard and dangerous path. It is a choice between trusting God or trusting anything or anyone else. Both are risky. Both are dangerous. Both are difficult. Both are costly. But one path--partnering with God and becoming who we were created to be-- leads us to the greatest prize in the universe, while the other leads to destruction.”
Yes, marriage is hard. But so is divorce. Yes, working out is hard. But so is being unhealthy. Yes, paying off debt is hard but so is living paycheck to paycheck. Yes, following God is hard but so is living without Him guiding your steps. We are not choosing between easy and hard. We are choosing between life and death. And the death may be the death of a relationship, the death of our spiritual walk, the death of our purpose, it doesn’t have to be physical. Isn’t that exactly what the widow of Zarephath was choosing between, even if she didn’t know it?