In this episode of Personally, I Wouldn’t, Molly and Ethan dive into the real psychology behind “fake it till you make it.” We’re unpacking why confidence isn’t something you magically wake up with, it’s built through action, even (especially!) when you’re terrified. From starting a new career to showing up as if you’ve got a full team behind you (hello, imaginary assistant), we’ll talk about how “doing it scared” is the ultimate antidote to anxiety. Whether you’re launching a business, pivoting in your career, or just trying to be taken seriously while you’re still figuring it out, this episode will help you step into that next version of yourself, one bold move at a time.

Is your Instagram a career killer or a career booster? This week, Molly and Ethan dive into the blurry line between professionalism and personal life in the era of oversharing. They explore why work and social media should stay separate, but also how showing vulnerability online can sometimes open doors. From how creative fields often reward personal content to how expectations have shifted since the boomer generation, Molly and Ethan break down the double-edged sword of curating an online presence in your 20s.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, Molly and Ethan sit down with their friend Danny, a therapist who’s now married and living his dream life, but whose path there was anything but straightforward. Danny opens up about growing up Mormon, being sent to an abusive “troubled teens” home, his time in rehab, and the years he spent ski-bumming and living out of his car. He shares what it was like to marry at 20 (and divorce shortly after), leave the church, and ultimately rebuild his own relationship with spirituality. Now, as a narrative therapist, Danny reflects on how his tumultuous past not only shaped him but also deepened the way he now shows up for his clients.

This is a good one.

This week, Molly and Ethan sit down with their cousin Ciaran—fellow gay icon, literature nerd, and aspiring therapist—for a conversation that’s equal parts heartfelt and hilarious. Ciaran opens up about his coming out journey (which happened alongside Ethan’s), what it’s like growing up in a family where half the cousins are gay, and how ADHD shapes his creativity, relationships, and writing process. From his love of books and screenwriting to his dream of becoming a therapist like Molly, Ciaran brings honesty, wit, and a little chaos to the mic.

If you’ve ever felt like your brain is a bit too much or your story doesn’t quite fit the mold—this one’s for you.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, we’re going fungi first into the weird, brilliant world of mushrooms. From the anti-capitalist philosophy of the rhizome (shoutout to Deleuze & Guattari) to fungal networks that mimic the internet better than the internet does, we’re exploring how mushrooms defy hierarchy and logic—and somehow solve city planning better than your local council. We’ll also get into how psilocybin use can spark neurogenesis (aka grow your damn brain), and yes, we talk about the stoned ape theory—because apparently, we owe our consciousness to a mushroom trip.

Spores, slime mold, and psychedelic science? Personally, we would.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, we’re flipping the mic and putting our very own Ethan in the hot seat. Molly takes over interview duties to get the real story behind Ethan—like, is his hair always that perfect? Here, we learn the shocking truth: he’s been a devoted Arianator since Yours Truly, knows every word to White Chicks, and once couldn’t sleep without his beloved stuffed Winnie the Pooh. It’s vulnerability, glam, and just the right amount of chaos. You wouldn’t want to miss it.

This week on Personally, I Wouldn’t, we’re flipping the mic and putting our very own Mollywog in the hot seat. Ethan takes over interview duties to get the real story behind Molly’s therapist origin story. From her humble beginnings as a horse girl to her current life as a hot-shot therapist, this episode spills the inside scoop on all things Molly — the good, the chaotic, and the mildly unhinged.

P.S. Tune in next week for Ethan Tells All! 👀

We’re back, baby! After a casual five-month hiatus, Personally, I Wouldn’t is back for Season 2 — and we’re kicking it off with a big life update: Ethan moved in with Molly. 🏠✨ In this episode, we dive into all things roommates — from setting boundaries to learning each other's quirks (yes, Ethan leaves cabinets open), plus the art of being a decent human when sharing a space. We also swap roommate horror stories, share what’s surprised us about living together, and reflect on what makes cohabiting actually work.

Whether you're living with your bestie, a stranger, or your situationship… Personally, we wouldn’t miss this one.

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In this feel-good episode of Personally, I Wouldn't, Molly and Ethan break down their best tips for thriving while single. From embracing the possibility that this could be your last single era to realizing your future partner wouldn’t want you hung up on your ex, they dish out practical advice for living your best life. Whether it’s filling your calendar with fun plans, traveling solo, or simply getting glammed up for yourself, they’ll inspire you to make the most of this season. Plus, a PSA: Skip the sad playlists—this is your happy, hot single era!

Molly and Ethan are back to gently (or not-so-gently) remind you that, yes, youare evolving—even if your bank account and sleep schedule say otherwise. In this episode, they break down the sneaky ways you’ve been leveling up: caring less about randos' opinions (including that weird neighbor), setting boundaries like a boss, and finally accepting that fast fashion hauls aren’t a personality trait. Plus, why beating a dead horse is out, and being alone (and actually okay with it) is in. Grab your iced coffee, text your toxic ex “actually, nvm,” and let’s get into it.