I have just returned from the annual family reunion. Gathered from eight states, we played , laughed, told family stories to the youngest members of our tribe and yet something…. Something waited, stalking, quietly watching from the tree line. It waited until ten minutes before I left. My cousin said, “I love Trump.” There it was, finally, spoken out loud. In a way it was a relief. “I know, I don’t.” She looked at me, “I know, I do”. She stepped into “the house divided” and wanted to talk. I