Our pajamarotica show was lots of fun.

We talked about looking at what you have as opposed to what you don't, how to have hard conversation, connecting sex and play and did some really awful and fun poetry and rap. End show song is "Self Breast Exam"

Don't be too rigid in what you are looking for in partners and you might be pleasantly surprised. Electro stimulation tips and a lot of irreverent behavior. End show song is "Ashes"

We talked about the dangers of thinking you know a certain type of play safety but in fact, you've just been lucky. The we had a long multi opinion discussion on how to deal with self hatred and self pity.

End show song is FUZZY PIMP

Heavy on good communication and the disasters that can happen when you don't, talk about anime breasts, self harm and other perverted topics. End show EDM song is Boogie's newest jewel "Flying Carpet

When those old judging voices tell you being kinky is bad, how to deal with a non kinky mate when you are kinky and a bunch of dirty talk.

End show song is Dancing is a sex toy

Ok so after the initial 14 minutes of needle and hook pull play conversation (you've been warned) we got into some pretty real stuff.

Processing through social programming into BDSM, Boogie SCREAMS foul judgy hatred to people that are pigs with no basic manners and then a very somber talk about a BDSM related death that hit very close to home. Risk Aware Consensual Kink is REAL. End show song is "Thumby the Frog"

Kathy got very honest about her current polyamory problems, then we assured a listener that getting aroused by knife play is OK.

Unger talked about his blood crotch and the end show song is the world's greatest space rap song " Sex on other planets"

When people don't want to follow the rules at your party or event, what is spiritual BDSM, and then a lot of confusion and silliness. End show song is Butterflap

Is communication the #1 thing in a healthy relationship, or is there something else? What happens when you come out to your friends and you instantly regret it? End show song is Two Minutes twice.

Sometimes you have to walk what you talk and share news that will hurt you in the short term. We also talked about how to prove to your mind that it is worth loving again after you've been hurt. Then some cool thoughts on new ways of looking at situations. Then of course lots of

sexy talk and rude jokes. End show song is Messiah Bot