Entering the BDSM / Kinky sex lifestyle can be scary when you see all the sexy things that can either shock or inspire your sex life.

The good news is that you absolutely get to own what you do or don't do and we talk about that. Then our Perverted Podcast listeners joined in for a Celebrity Fantasy segment.

New Relationship Engergy will only last until it's not NEW...duh!

So besides the hot sex, you better be working on the plan for

when it begins to fade. We also talked about Golden Penis syndrom

and a lot of other crazy kinky fun stuff. Oh yah...then a mega rap hit

at the end that will make Nicki Manaj and Cardi B want me bad.

Everybody gets in the kinky lifestyle for their own desires. But those desires can be very different from person to person. Are you here for play, sex, a relationship? We talk about not expecting everyone to follow your scripts. End show song is a garage demo "Sabotage"

Are you unlovable? Are you working on yourself to be more lovable? Does anyone owe you love? This was a hard discussion of reality.

Then we talked about how everyone processes their kinky sex pain differently. BDSM is a spectrum with infinite variables. From pain to meditation to pleasure with all or none used physically.

BDSM, kink and or sex clubs have greatly changed over the years.

How do we navigate expectations in a public play space.

Fun listener segue with Lady Loki talking about getting partners to feel safe giving you a more extreme experience.

Consensual Non Consent is a minefield of potential for both great and awful. We try to give some tips for presenting your desire for this kink to a new partner. Cuckqueening is for women that like to watch their men with other partners. Is that you? Or would it make you crazy jealous?

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To have a kinky bucket list is to be human. Finding the best, safest

and most consensual way to live out that list is something to talk about.

Then Enygma and Boogie tackle a serious but hopeful topic about stopping play due to one of the partner's self harm issues.

It can be awkward trying to find out info about potential bad people at a party. Are you being nosy or are you taking care of yourself?

Then, Enygma and Boogie talk about odd animal experiments with great human potential. Then a song about frogs or something like that.

How to navigate your ex's reappearing. From amicabal to psycho,

what should you do?

Then Uncle Creepy showed up and shared a story that really

brings life into focus.

Oh yeah, and we made a lot of crude jokes and had fun!

Fetishes and kinks are usually considered the same thing, but the intentions

are usually very different, and we talk about that.

Also, if you want to try your hand at kinky toy making, it's fun, easy

usually very cheap and we'll give you some fun ideas for that as well.

End show song is Rubber Jazz