“You Don’t Need Taming. You’re Looking for Someone Who Can Hold You.”
Sit still for a second.
Not because I’m telling you to.
But because I know you won’t — and I want to see what you do with that.
You have a way of pretending you don’t hear instructions.
A way of smiling like you’re daring someone to repeat themselves.
Like you enjoy the tension of being slightly out of reach.
You call it being playful.
Other people call it being difficult.
Neither of those are true.
You’re not playful.
You’re not difficult.
You’re alert.
You’re watching.
You’re measuring.
You’re waiting to see who blinks first.
And you do it because most people are weak in the exact places you’re strong.
They react too fast.
They explain too much.
They try to win you instead of holding themselves.
So you push.
You interrupt.
You tease.
You challenge with your tone instead of your words.
You’re not trying to cause chaos.
You’re trying to see if someone has a center.