Do you believe that in order to have honest and true relationships that you have to fight and suffer and slog through tons of drama? Do you push and shove at each other, glorifying this way of interacting as the … Why You Don’t Need to Suffer and Struggle in Your Relationships Read More »

Do you want to have relationships full of joy and peace, lacking in fights and arguments? If you do, really do, then it is possible for you to have that experience. Every relationship you have can be permeated by love … How You Can Choose to Have a Better Relationship Now Read More »

PHIL: In our book, individuality and acceptance have different chapters, but as we came to put together a course, we found that the two are so intertwined that we needed to put them together into a single session. So today … How Can Relationship Differences Lead to Peace, not Anger or Resentment? Read More »

In the past few weeks we have been writing about peace and how it is a visceral, actual reality to be lived and spread. You can find peace like that in your relationships with other people, whether in an existing … Why it is Important to Set an Intention for Peace in Your Relationships Read More »

PHIL: There is a strong emphasis on the primacy of the individual in current culture, whether praised for rugged individualism or panned as the “me” generation, but by focusing so intensely on individuals, we pay less attention to the matrix … Spread Peace One Relationship at a Time and Remember That We Are All Connected Read More »

It is more important than ever to be talking about peace now. PHIL: Peace is a central feature of our relationship. Maybe it arises from the way we relate to each other – the individuality and acceptance we have spoken … How to Experience Peace as a Living Reality in Your Relationships Read More »

“When you love someone, the best thing you can offer is your presence. How can you love if you are not there?” Thich Nhat Hanh All relationships are more fruitful and more harmonious when you can feel the presence of … How Being Creative Helps You Be More Present in Your Relationships Read More »

On the morning we write our blog, we go out to breakfast and examine what has been happening in our relationship lives, and what about that might add some inspiration to how all of you experience your relationships. The goal … How can you improve your relationships through simple physical contact? Read More »

It’s likely you know someone who blames the world for everything. From the disintegration of their fourth marriage to a fender-bender to losing at bridge, nothing is ever their fault. If you want to remain the same, and want to … How Can We Use the Differences in Our Relationships to Inspire Us? Read More »

PHIL: When we started looking at how we get along so well, we saw that we used a method, and we named it Our Process. It’s a way of exchanging positions and feelings that allow us to find a mutual … How to Find Peace and Harmony in Your Relationships Through Mutual Solutions Read More »