When you’re feeling distance from your partner or anger at what they are saying, try reframing your feelings. When you and your partner try this together, you will able to turn this into an opportunity for increased closeness. Say out loud, “I’m excited to find mutual solutions.”

In our mutual writing we tend to write and describe things differently with different words and different styles expressing our thoughts and feelings. Yet we easily join our pieces into one blog because of our merged self, the fact that we have the same actual experience.

Is full disclosure necessary in a relationship? Lies are unacceptable in a successful relationship; both white lies, even when thought to be harmless, and outright lies designed to conceal some part of yourself. Honesty illuminates and enriches your connection, leaving no barriers to intimacy.

In your relationship, accepting the differences between you brings an enrichment of who you are and can greatly add to your quality of life, but only when you do not feel assailed or attacked or afraid of the difference.

We are often asked if we don’t really fight, sometimes at least. The answer is never; no arguments, no fights, not even compromises. When we disagree on something or have a decision to make, we use a simple, startlingly effective method we call Our Process.

We have a deeply peaceful relationship, and feel an obligation to share how to achieve this experience. We firmly believe that the peace that we have discovered and live is achievable by many and that these types of peaceful relationships can transform our world.

Being snippy is something that all of us have been at some time or another, and we've all seen the damage it can do in a relationship. Why is this behavior so prevalent and what can we do about it?

Unwanted drama plagues many relationships, and often, people feel unable to get past it. This doesn’t have to be the case; there is another way. Let’s look at why drama persists and is so prevalent in many relationships and what to do about it.

People have a basic need for intimacy, so they seek or are in a relationship as a way to have that experience. Not everybody is able to reach or sustain intimacy; this article tells what is needed and how to achieve it.

This week we debunk another myth that is deeply embedded in our minds and culture. It states that differences between people in a relationship automatically cause distance, fighting, argument and estrangement. This myth suggests there are ways to work around it, but that all couples will encounter this problem.