In these very disturbing times, it seems a good moment to focus on this central part of our message. Our primary goal in all our writings, books and blogs is to spread peace one relationship at a time.

We never argue because we choose not to. We can make that choice because we know another way to be with each other. We are able to find mutual solutions to problem solving, decision making and how we treat each other in our daily lives.

Many couples drift apart over time. It is possible to renew that bond and refresh your connection by changing the way you communicate. This blog shares great ways to reconnect.

“I know you two have an amazingly peaceful relationship, but what about me?”

“I read Secrets of a Successful Relationship Revealed and it’s all very well for you two to be so happy, but how do we do it?”

“I can’t imagine having a relationship like you describe.”

These and many similar questions came our way after our first book was released.Click here to read more...

Presence and intimacy are both important aspects of a relationship, and are two sides of the same coin. Here are some ways to enhance being present with your partner.

Compromise. Give a little, get a little. It’s the lubricant of relationships, the WD-40 that gets you unstuck. But the difficulty with compromise is that you are always giving something up in order to get something else. Over time, this can build up and create a sense that you are not really ever getting what you want, leading to resentments, estrangement and a decrease in willingness to compromise. We practice a very different form of resolution which, rather than slowly eroding our sense of union, strengthens and supports us as a couple.

Active listening is how to really hear what the other person is saying. You might think you do that already, but odds are you can do better. Active listening is a strong part of feeling accepted and appreciated in a relationship.

This is a sneak peek of one of the key chapters in our book "How Two: Have a Successful Relationship."

Our latest article “The Myth of Inevitable Conflict within a Relationship” was just published in Awareness Magazine for May/June 2014.

It’s now also available as an audio file.Click here to read more...