Let the Kids Be Cringe: Toy Story, Play, and the Loss of Make-Believe
It's 2010. Maria is on her first date with her high school crush. They're in a movie theatre watching Toy Story 3. And they're both staring at the ceiling, trying desperately not to cry.
Sixteen years later, there's a new Toy Story in theatres and Maria spent a whole weekend rewatching every film in the franchise to get ready for it.
In this episode, Maria draws on her essay from Musings of Mortals to explore what Toy Story 5 got right about the world Gen Alpha is actually growing up in, with a world of screens before speech, cringe culture as social policing, and play as something increasingly rare and even seen as embarrassing.
What Toy Story 5 gets right about the pressures kids face todayHow Gen Alpha is growing up What researchers mean when they call pretend play a "metaphoric multivitamin" for the developing brainThe steep, decades-long decline in free, unsupervised play and how this is impacting mental healthCringe culture as a social fenceWhy play isn't just for kids, and what it means to never stop being in a creative practice, no matter what form it takesBecause grief literacy is life literacy, and so is knowing how to play.
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📖 Let the Kids Be Cringe — Musings of Mortals
Research & Resources Referenced
Impact of social media on Gen Alpha — Annie E. Casey FoundationThe decline of imaginative play in early childhood — Frontiers in PsychologyThe power of pretend play for children — Child Mind InstitutePretend play and early childhood development — Florida Atlantic UniversityThe decline of play and rise in children's mental health disorders — Peter Gray, Psychology TodayAnxiety and depression in young people — PMCBenefits of play for adults — HelpGuideAdult play and wellbeing — National Institute for PlayOcean Vuong on cringe culture — Rolling Stone Philippines