The April 25th, 2021 Morning Worship Service at Plainfield Christian Church in Comstock Park, MI
Youth Minister: Brady Jester
Children’s Minister: Wade Harrier
Worship Leader: Katie Winstanley
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The Chronological Life of Christ #90
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How To Heal Broken Relationships
There are at least three ways to handle conflict and sin.
A. Peace-faking. A peace-faker avoids conflict at all cost.
B. Peace-breaking. These people function more like skunks.
C. Peace-making. Willing to candidly discuss conflict.
1. A private meeting (verse 15).
Two important imperatives in this verse:
This first step is to be “between you and him alone.”
1. Avoids shame for the person.
2. Minimizes misunderstandings.
3. Keeps you from hating the person.
4. The other person may not know they’ve offended you.
Matthew 18:15 - I must go quietly.
Ephesians 4:26 - I must do it quickly
Matthew 7:5 – I must do it carefully
2. A private conference with witnesses (verse 16).
Some Other Benefits To Having A Witness Or Two
A. They can establish the facts
C. May communicate the gravity of the situation
D. They can keep things from escalating.
E. Witnesses can remember and record what was said.
3. A public announcement to the church (verse 17a).
Here are some reasons why we need to pursue this step:
1. Vindicates God’s holiness
3. Deters others from sinning
4. Conveys biblical love and a pathway for restoration
4. Public exclusion from the church (17b).
1. The promise of His power.
2. The promise of His presence.
Let’s Consider These Questions
1. Am I treating the other person I’m in conflict with as someone God loves?
2. Is my goal reconciliation or retaliation?
4. How willing am I to obey?