Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of unhealthy relationships? Do you find yourself drawn to the same type of partner, only to be left feeling empty or manipulated? If so, you’re not alone.

Join host Robin Fisher Roffer as she welcomes clinical psychologist Dr. Kerry McAvoy, a survivor of predatory relationships, who offers invaluable insights into recognizing and escaping toxic dynamics.

Together, they explore how discernment can become your greatest survival skill in the dating landscape.

Key Takeaways:
• Understanding Stealth Predators: Learn how some individuals use charm and emotional manipulation as subtle forms of aggression, making them hard to spot.
• The Power of Discernment: Discover how to trust your instincts and recognize red flags, including the signs of covert aggression that many women overlook.
• Healing and Empowerment: Gain tools and strategies to break free from toxic patterns, rebuild your self-esteem, and prepare for healthier relationships moving forward.
• Real Stories, Real Lessons: Robin and Kerry share personal experiences that highlight the importance of self-awareness and the value of supportive friendships in navigating the dating world.
• Finding Hope: Understand that even after challenging experiences, love is still possible. You can cultivate meaningful connections by embracing the present moment and trusting yourself.

Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands, TikTok @plentyofhusbands, and on Substack for more uplifting content that will inspire you to live your greatest love story. You can connect with Kerry McAvoy PhD at Narcissistic Abuse Help from Kerry McAvoy, PhD.

In this episode of the Plenty of Husbands podcast, host Robin Fisher-Roffer welcomes Eleni Boosalis, a clinical psychologist with over 20 years of expertise in love and relationships. They explore the transformative power of self-love, the importance of recognizing patterns in dating, and how our inner world reflects in our relationships. Eleni emphasizes that we attract partners who mirror our unhealed wounds and discusses practical steps to foster self-awareness, encouraging listeners to understand their beliefs about love and worthiness.

Key Takeaways:
• Self-Reflection is Key: Understanding your internal dialogue and how it shapes your reality is crucial. Negative self-talk can hinder your ability to attract healthy relationships.
• Relationships are Mirrors: The partners we attract often reflect our own unresolved issues. Recognizing this pattern can help you make better choices in dating.
• Trust the Process: Love should feel easy and not like a battlefield. Healthy relationships require effective communication but don't need to be dramatic.
• Red Flags and Green Lights: Watch for how potential partners treat others and their mindset. Look for kindness, patience, and genuine interest as positive signs.
• Importance of Inner Work: Engaging in therapy, meditation, and self-care practices can foster self-love, making you more open to attracting the right partner.

Follow Robin on @plenty_of_husbands, TikTok @plentyofhusbands and Substack for more insights, inspiration, and updates on future episodes. Join the conversation and connect with a community of women who are older, wiser and hotter.

You can learn more about Eleni Boosalis, PsyD at delraypsych.com. Her podcast is Shrinks on Tap.

Are you wondering how to reignite the spark in your love life and embrace your desires?  In this episode of "Plenty of Husbands," host Robin Fisher Roffer sits down with renowned sex therapist and intimacy expert, Braxton Dutson. Together, they engage in a candid conversation designed to empower women in midlife to ask for what they want and get it.

Listeners can expect to hear about the six essential principles of sexual health, including consent, honesty, non-exploitation, mutual pleasure, and more. Braxton addresses the often-taboo topics surrounding sexual health, including the challenges women face with past relationships, societal expectations, and the impact of pornography on self-esteem.

This episode aims to dispel shame and stigma, encouraging women to ask for what they truly want in relationships while fostering open communication with their partners.

Key Takeaways:

• Empowerment Through Knowledge: Understanding the principles of sexual health can pave the way for healthier relationships.

• Open Communication: Cultivating honesty and consent in relationships is crucial, especially for those with past trust issues.

• Recognizing Shame: Women often feel shame surrounding their desires; it's essential to identify and challenge these feelings.

• Mutual Pleasure: Relationships thrive when both partners express their needs and desires, moving beyond traditional gender roles.

• Healing from Past Trauma: Acknowledging the impact of previous relationships can help in rebuilding trust and intimacy in new ones.

• Therapy as a Tool: Seeking professional help can facilitate personal growth and healing from past hurts.

This episode promises to be an eye-opening and fun exploration of love, intimacy, and the journey to self-acceptance. Tune in to gain insights that can transform your approach to relationships and your own self-worth.

Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands. You can also sign up and become a free or paid member on Substack @robinfisherroffer for more uplifting content that will guide you to live your greatest love story.

If you want to get in touch with Braxton and learn more about his practice, click here: https://www.thehealinggroup.com/therapists/braxton-dutson.  

Welcome to this inspiring episode of Plenty of Husbands! Join host Robin Fisher Roffer as she welcomes Dr. Christine Fernandez, clinical psychologist and life coach, to explore the transformative journey of finding love after 40. Together, they dive into all the complexities of midlife love, focusing on how women can embrace self-discovery and authenticity to find love after divorce or the end of a relationship.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• The Power of Authenticity: Learn how removing the masks we wear can lead to deeper connections and genuine love.
• Self-Discovery: Christine shares practical strategies to rebuild your self-esteem and foster self-acceptance after loss or divorce, helping you embrace your true self.
• Curiosity in Dating: Understand the importance of being open to new experiences and people, enriching your midlife love story.
• Real-Life Success Stories: Christine recounts inspiring tales of clients who embraced change and found lasting love through second chance love affairs.

Don’t forget to follow Robin on Instagram, TikTok, and Substack for more insights, inspiration, and updates on future episodes. Join the conversation and connect with a community of women who are older, wiser and hotter. Let’s cheer each other on as we reframe, reinvent and reignite our love stories.

You can learn more about Christine Fernandaz, Ph.D., who holds a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University
at PeacefulWayPsychology.com

In this transformative episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer and clinical psychologist Dr. Stephanie Byrd challenge women to stop auditioning for love and waiting to be chosen. They emphasize that love is not just about being selected by a partner but about understanding oneself and recognizing personal worth. By shifting the focus from seeking validation to evaluating compatibility, women can embrace their midlife journeys with confidence, fostering genuine connections that prioritize emotional availability and self-love.

Key Takeaways:

• Redefining Love: Love is not just about being chosen; it’s about understanding oneself and what truly matters in relationships.
• Dating as Evaluation: Shift from auditioning for love to evaluating compatibility. Focus on connection rather than chemistry.
• Emotional Healing: Doing the inner work is crucial. Unresolved wounds can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns.
• Chemistry vs. Connection: Recognize the difference between genuine attraction and familiar emotional triggers. Pay attention to body signals.
• Boundaries and Self-Love: Establish healthy boundaries and prioritize self-love to cultivate deeper relationships.
• Reciprocity in Relationships: Look for mutual communication and emotional availability in partners to gauge relationship potential.
• Slow Down: In this fast-paced dating culture, take the time to build meaningful connections rather than rushing into relationships

Tune in to redefine true love and what it means to take charge of your dating experience.

Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands for more uplifting content that will help you live your greatest love story.

In this transformative episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer and clinical psychologist Dr. Stephanie Byrd challenge women to stop auditioning for love and waiting to be chosen. They emphasize that love is not just about being selected by a partner but about understanding oneself and recognizing personal worth. By shifting the focus from seeking validation to evaluating compatibility, women can embrace their midlife journeys with confidence, fostering genuine connections that prioritize emotional availability and self-love.

Key Takeaways:

• Redefining Love: Love is not just about being chosen; it’s about understanding oneself and what truly matters in relationships.
• Dating as Evaluation: Shift from auditioning for love to evaluating compatibility. Focus on connection rather than chemistry.
• Emotional Healing: Doing the inner work is crucial. Unresolved wounds can lead to unhealthy relationship patterns.
• Chemistry vs. Connection: Recognize the difference between genuine attraction and familiar emotional triggers. Pay attention to body signals.
• Boundaries and Self-Love: Establish healthy boundaries and prioritize self-love to cultivate deeper relationships.
• Reciprocity in Relationships: Look for mutual communication and emotional availability in partners to gauge relationship potential.
• Slow Down: In this fast-paced dating culture, take the time to build meaningful connections rather than rushing into relationships

Tune in to redefine true love and what it means to take charge of your dating experience.

Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands for more uplifting content that will help you live your greatest love story.

Join Robin Fisher Roffer on this enlightening episode of Plenty of Husbands as she explores the intricate tapestry of love across cultural divides. This week’s guest is Dr. Carlene Lawson, a seasoned clinical psychologist with over 25 years of experience, who specializes in guiding couples through the complexities of cultural differences.

Whether you are dating someone from another country, religion, culture or upbringing, you’ll find answers on how to turn off the judgment and find common ground. Dr. Lawson emphasizes the importance of embracing our authentic selves, letting go of assumptions, and fostering curiosity to build genuine connections.

Whether you’re in a multicultural relationship or simply navigating the dating landscape, this episode provides essential insights and practical strategies for fostering acceptance and respect.

Key Takeaways:
• Understanding the impact of trauma on relationship dynamics
• The vital role of curiosity in dismantling barriers
• Practical exercises for self-discovery and authenticity
• Differentiating between connection and compatibility
• Strategies for nurturing acceptance across cultural divides

Tune in to uncover the secrets to love that transcends borders and celebrate the beauty of diversity!

Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands for more uplifting content that will help you live your greatest love story.

Have you ever wondered what happened to your high school or college sweetheart? Or that guy at work you couldn’t date at the time, but secretly wished you could? As we journey through life, our perceptions of love and relationships evolve, and it’s never too late to rewrite your story.

In this inspiring episode of Plenty of Husbands, Robin Fisher Roffer welcomes Julie Ferman, a renowned matchmaker and dating coach. Julie shares her remarkable love story, recounting how a simple card led her to reconnect with a college friend and ultimately find true love.

Together, Robin and Julie explore how one of the world’s best matchmakers finally met her match, as well as the complexities of dating in midlife, the importance of self-love, and the courage it takes to pursue happiness. Tune in for this heartfelt narrative, practical advice, and essential keys to overcoming emotional barriers as you navigate the world of love and relationships.

Key Takeaways:
• It’s Never Too Late: Love can blossom at any age, even after years of feeling unfulfilled.
• Self-Love is Essential: Prioritizing your own emotional well-being is crucial for attracting the right partner.
• Reconnecting Matters: Revisiting old connections can lead to unexpected opportunities for love.
• Courage to Change: Leaving unfulfilling relationships opens the door to new possibilities.
• Clear Criteria: Identifying your top relationship criteria can help avoid settling in future partnerships.
• Sending Out Ships: Be proactive in your love life by reaching out to potential connections and nurturing relationships.
• Embrace Transformation: Growth and self-discovery often lead to deeper, more meaningful connections.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating love in midlife, providing hope, inspiration, and actionable advice for anyone who is looking for love, especially if they want to reconnect with an old flame.

Join us for a transformative episode of Plenty of Husbands! In this must-listen conversation, host Robin Fisher Roffer teams up with expert Justin Pere, a licensed mental health counselor, to explore the intricacies of finding love again after heartbreak.

What can you expect?
• Uncover the Truth: Get inside the minds of single men in midlife and discover what they genuinely want in a partner.
• Emotional Safety Matters: Learn how to create emotional safety in new relationships, paving the way for deeper connections.
• Practical Insights: From overcoming mental barriers to reigniting intimacy, this episode is packed with actionable advice.

Whether you're freshly single or simply seeking a new perspective, this episode will inspire hope and empower you to embrace love once more.
Follow Robin on Instagram @plenty_of_husbands and TikTok @plentyofhusbands for more uplifting content that will help you live your greatest love story.

Grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s embark on the journey to love again!

In this upcoming episode of Plenty of Husbands, host Robin Fisher Roffer welcomes the inspiring Tash Doherty, a Wharton Business School graduate who has transitioned from a successful career in finance to becoming a celebrated author and advocate for shameless sexuality. With her works like The Intimacy Journal and her engaging
Substack: Misseducated by Tash Doherty.. Tash empowers women to embrace their desires unapologetically..

Key Takeaways:
• Embrace Your Desires: Tash emphasizes that being "shamelessly sexy" is about knowing what you want and believing you deserve it. This can range from personal fulfillment to intimate relationships.
• Self-Discovery and Authenticity: The episode explores how living authentically and pursuing pleasure can lead to a more fulfilling life. Tash shares her journey of self-discovery in vibrant Mexico City, illustrating the importance of surrounding yourself with what brings joy.
• Challenge Societal Norms: Women are encouraged to reject societal pressures regarding body image and sexuality. Tash discusses how embracing imperfections can lead to a more liberated and enjoyable life.
• Cultivate Curiosity: Tash advocates for sexual exploration and curiosity, suggesting that women should feel empowered to express their needs in intimate relationships. The importance of communication and mutual satisfaction is a recurring theme.
• Self-Care Practices: Practical tips are offered, from journaling to engaging in activities that stimulate the senses, helping women to reconnect with their bodies and desires.
• Community and Support: Tash discusses the value of having a supportive network of friends to share experiences with, making the journey of self-exploration less daunting and more enriching.

Join us for a conversation that promises empowerment and inspiration for living your most authentic and sexy life. Tune in and discover how to embrace your journey of self-love and pleasure unapologetically!