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The Pod talks about how they're doing and gives tips for dating and romance in the time of Covid-19, the novel corona virus. Chastain shares some Podfest Media Expo 2020 adventures and gives shout outs to the people who got her there, helped her while she was there, and made her time there awesome.

FYI: This episode was delayed to make sure included current Covid-19 information at the time of release. Things changed quickly since we recorded this last Tuesday night. We wanted to get this episode out to you as soon as possible, but show notes and the transcript are delayed. We've had some changes since recording, and Erik will be recording with Hannah, Max, and Chastain remotely moving forward. We're working to make that a smooth process. We're all pretty stressed and bummed we can't see our friend, and Chastain's partner. We know we aren't alone in that experience. Our hearts go out to our listeners. We love you. We're going to be okay and get through this.

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Enjoy fourth episode of the PATREON EXCLUSIVE Cvlt Cast Media Club is a urine-filled, lesbian fever dream. We watched The Duke of Burgundy and Chastain got aroused, Erik was bored, Hannah was smartly analytical, and Max was mad that there weren't any Dukes. You know how we roll. To hear more episodes like this, support us on Patreon! Visit podpodcvltcast.com/SupportThePod

We talk about a lot of kinky things, power dynamics, and BDSM in this episode, so if you have questions, check out our full show notes at podpodcvltcast.com! You'll find a complete transcript of the show, a list of terms and references from this episode, and credits.

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Will Max and Hannah ever be declared a couple on the Feeld dating app? Did FOSTA SESTA actually do anything to solve human sex trafficking? Are sex workers happy with their fate? How many women watch porn? What's the most popular porn category in Bulgaria? Who is Belle Delphine?! Find out all of this AND MORE!

Honestly, this episode is not for the faint of heart. It's graphic, it's passionate. There's a long conversation about shoes. 

Content Warning: This episode contains frank discussion of pornography, human trafficking, sex work, and Chastain's rant about society as a whole.

Terms of Note, Resources & References

Visit our website to read the FULL SHOW NOTES for terms and references. Don't miss this awesome information and TRANSCRIPT! (OOO AHH!)

Credits & Contact

• Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
• Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
• Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino

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Policing harm in the polyamory and BDSM communities can be challenging. When consent is violated, when people are assaulted, when people commit assault... we often shy away from victim and perpetrator. In A.V. Flox's important first book, Disrupting the Bystander: When #metoo Happens Among Friends, we learn that we should do the opposite. We should surround people who have been harmed and people who harm with our human spirit to help them find space to heal.

In this episode we discuss the book and the process of care it outlines for ourselves, for those harmed, and yes, for those who have harmed others. 

Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of assault, rape, bad actors, and how unsafe we really are in our "communities" without having each other's back.

For a list of references, our social media,credits, and a transcript of this episode head to PodPodCvltCast.com !

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Back by popular demand, we answer questions from the Whisper App that no one asked us to answer in the first place! From dating, relationships, and sex advice, to deeper issues like how to have sex with mermaids... the Pod Pod Cvlt Cast gives out bad advice! (With a little bit of good advice snuck in because we're self-respecting podcasters or something. You can find our good advice in the chapter markers!)

Content Warning: Vibrators, cloaca, and cannibalism. 

Meanwhile, have you registered to vote?

Terms of Note

• Kink Shaming
• Pay Pig
• Findom /Findomme / Financial Domination
• Sex Addiction
• Fight the New Drug is Insidious
• SAMHSA - National Helpline
• Toxic Masculinity
• Pink Eye
• Pussy Spanking
• Speculum Play
• Pornhub Statistics
• Cloaca

Resources & References

• Episode 18: #justbepoly (Jealousy)
• Book: The Four Agreements
• Episode 30: The Swiping Game (Dating Apps)
• Max's Bluetooth Headphones

Credits & Contact

• Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
• Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
• Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino

Social Meteors

• Instagram: @cvltwithav
• Twitter: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Facebook: @PodPodCvltCast 
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What's the best mainstream dating app for non-monogamous / polyamorous people? Tinder? OKCupid? Bumble? Where can swingers hook-up? Where can you find a couple to fulfill your throuple dreams? We review the apps we've used, and check out a newer app called Feeld. Hannah's never used a swiping app, so the Pod helps her create the perfect profile.

Dating profile tips and tricks, Chastain's list of dating profile "don'ts", and a some bonus sex work hacks! Content Warning: We're kind, not nice.

PS. Check out Chastain's interview on the Neurotic Nourishment podcast where she talks openly about abuse, sex addiction, being a retired dominatrix, and FOSTA SESTA.

Meanwhile, the world is a literal tire fire, so...

Our hearts are with Australia, click here to see how you can help.

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Terms of Note

Can be found in our full show notes. Visit: PodPodCvltCast.com

Resources & References

• Podcast: Neurotic Nourishment with Dr. Lindsay Weisner
• Book: Ten Steps to Finding Happy: A Guide to Permanent Satisfaction 
• A good cause:https://ifundwomen.com/projects/10stepsendthestigma
• Book: Super Sad True Love Story

Credits & Contact

• Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
• Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
• Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino

Social Meteors

• Instagram: @cvltwithav
• Twitter: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Facebook: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Patreon: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
• YouTube: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
• Tumblr: /podpodcvlcast

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How do you make sure that you and your partner are comfortable with everything you do at a sexy party? How do you prevent "unsexifying" the moment when you pause for negotiation and consent checks? How do you handle it when you feel upset at a sexy party, or your partner, or both of you?

The Pod has answers, anecdotes, advice, and more. We'll tell you how we'd like to have those conversations and set expectations, and confess our communication breakdowns. May this episode bless you with some tools to make your kink, swing, and orgy parties a success for all!

For complete show notes and a list of terms used in this episode, head to PodPodCvltCast.com

Resources & References

• Event: Winter Fire
• Negotiation Sheet: Rough BS by Sunny Megatron
• Book: The Four Agreements

Credits & Contact

• Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
• Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
• Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino

Social Meteors

• Instagram: @cvltwithav
• Twitter: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Facebook: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Patreon: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
• YouTube: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
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There are two things missing from conversations about toxic masculinity and body positivity: positive masculinity and penis appreciation. Hello, we're the Pod Pod Cvlt Cast and we're here to talk to you about dicks, pics, consent, getting naked at parties, and comparison culture.

We also answer Patron questions from Patreon.com/PodPodCvltCast! Find out how the Pod feels about podcasting. We share the most common questions we get about BDSM and our opinion on the best representation of polyamory in media. 

Content warning: Penis! Max and Erik are very candid about their relationships with their bodies and food.

Meanwhile, the world is a literal tire fire, so...

Our hearts are with Australia, click here to see how you can help.

Resources & References - For a list of terms/phrases used in this episode, visit PodPodCvltCast.com

• Episode #10: Kink & Kilts & Corsets & Tutus
• Patreon Read/Watch/Listen February
• Episode #16: The Sad Story of Katie Hill (Why Are Polyam People So Ugly?)
• Show: The Magicians Season 3 Episode 5 "A Life in the Day"
• Movie: Professor Marston & The Wonder Women

Credits & Contact

• Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
• Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
• Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino

Social Meteors

• Instagram: @cvltwithav
• Twitter: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Facebook: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Patreon: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
• YouTube: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
• Tumblr: /podpodcvlcast

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Three couples went on vacation together but there were only 4 people. How does that work? Polyamory! The Pod went to Orlando, Florida for a long-planned-for and much-needed vacation. Find out what it’s like to travel while polyamorous, road trip, and get great Disney photos. We also scoured the Whisper-verse for information about the local nonmonogamy, kink, and swinging scenes.

If you want to hear about what we did on vacay, head over to Patreon.com/PodPodCvltCast! We talk in depth about what we did every day and give you the inside scoop on Star Wars Galaxy’s Edge. See vacation photos and listen to 2 exclusive podcasts episodes!

Meanwhile, the world is a literal tire fire, so…

Our hearts are with Australia, click here to see how you can help.

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Resources & References

• Video: “My Stick!” – A Bad Lip Reading of The Last Jedi
• Book: To Kill A Mockingbird
• Book: Plato’s Republic
• Show: The Imagineering Story
• Book: Quotable Walt Disney

Credits & Contact

• Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
• Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Title Music: “Spencer – Bluegrass” by Lobo Loco
• Midroll Music: “The Point Break” by Pale Blue/Goberino

Social Meteors

• Instagram: @cvltwithav
• Twitter: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Facebook: @PodPodCvltCast 
• Patreon: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
• YouTube: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
• Tumblr: /podpodcvlcast

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The Pod was on vacation last week, so you're getting access to one of our Patreon-exclusive episodes! Our Patrons voted for their fave episodes and chose this one for you. Thank them by making sure you're subscribed to the Pod Pod Cvlt Cast, sharing us with friends/loved ones/social groups... or absorb some of their power by becoming a Patron yourself!

In this first episode of the PATREON EXCLUSIVE Cvlt Cast Media Club, the Pod discusses "Paris is Burning".
   
Resources & References

• Documentary: Paris is Burning
• Podcast: Reply All #41 "What It Looks Like"
• Podcast: WTF with Marc Maron #498 "RuPaul Charles"

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