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"What am I, what am I going to bring to it? You're just, I think you're feeling more passive, you're feeling more, you don't feel power in the situation, you feel, I don't know, victimized or you feel intimidated, whatever words you, whatever. I'm not sure exactly what it is. Maybe it changes over time, but you're not feeling empowered at all."