In this short episode, Rob and Dustin take on one of the dilemmas coaches face: Would you bench a key player to uphold team standards—even if it means sacrificing a win?

They reflect on real stories, personal missteps, and the evolution of their coaching philosophies—highlighting the difference between rules and standards, gray areas in leadership, and what fairness really looks like.

Key themes include:

• Standards vs. winning: when consistency collides with competitive pressure
• Why some rules get broken and others can’t
• How coaches can apply care, honesty, and conviction during hard decisions
• When bending once may cost you the season
• The power of a team that cares—and holds each other accountable

This is a conversation about about leading with wisdom, maturity, and long-term perspective. Whether you're a veteran coach or just starting, this episode will challenge how you think about leadership decisions under pressure.

“Do hard things”—but do them the right way.

Mentioned:

• The Impactful Coaching Project → impactfulcoachingproject.substack.com
• ICP Books on Coaching → Books on Amazon

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