16 Reasons Why People Don’t Like YouWhat can it be that causes you to be less popular than most?Why do you miss out on invitations and frequently feel like a Billy-No-Mates?Or do you feel that your career is suffering because you’re alienating superiors and co-workers alike?Let’s take a look at some possible factors.With a bit … Continue reading "16 ways you render yourself unlikable, and poor"

I woke up at 3 am today. Shall I get up? I asked myself. Yes…. said something…And then I asked, what part of me that wants me to get up.My body, my intellect,My psychology…What is Psychology? Feeling science… right?I want to be proud of myself.I want to love myself. Happy to be me.And that… that … Continue reading "Word-cages… The means of keeping you powerless"

I am reading many books, many articles.They all say that my life could be better, would be better if I just looked at the bright side of things.But that… looking at only the bright side of things, actually leads to a boring, inauthentic life.What makes good good is the contrast… No bad? Not looking at … Continue reading "You don’t like me? Want only positive guidance?"

When it comes to making buying decisions, what do I pay attention to?I pay attention to how many different problems a product is trying to solve… claims to solve…Because they are trying too hard.Now, most things, most problems, admittedly, cannot be solved with one skill, one tool, one push of effort. You need a set … Continue reading "If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is."

This article, unintentionally, has two parts. They are loosely connected. One part is about hitting bottom, the second part is about getting out of the judgment, getting out of the systemic value paradigm where you have no future.Depression Is A Sign That You Are Unwilling To Hit Bottom.When You Hit Bottom, There Is The Beginning … Continue reading "The Third Kind of Depression to beat: simple but not easy"

By nature, men are nearly alike; by practice/culture, they get to be wide apart. ~ Confuciusor by another great Chinese philosopher, Mengzi:…if the people ‘are full of food, have warm clothes, and live in comfort but are without instruction, then they come close to being animals‘Can you, do you ever contemplate what is the measure … Continue reading "By nature, men are nearly alike ~ Confucius"

A few comments and observations that have arisen from my offer to muscletest your health measurements for free.If you think that past sins can be erased: you are probably mistaken about that.Injuries, inner or outer, may leave you permanent disfigurement.Pockmarks on your skin due to you not leaving your pimples alone is one example. The … Continue reading "Who, what is responsible for your health or the lack of it?"

It’s like a root canal…Until you yank the roots of your misery, you can’t get better.Imagine that your tooth is your life. You don’t want to yank your life. that would mean dying. But you can yank the root, the part that makes it hurt…Or you can self-medicate.Take drugs,DrinkSexnumb yourself…get religious. it will divert your … Continue reading "Til you yank the roots of your misery, you can’t get better"

I started to write this article yesterday, before a ran class. I wanted to use the class to get some more ‘meat’ into the issue. The class went differently: it, instead, magically took me to the root of all misery, and to the evolutionary issues of humanity, and to the question: Can evolution be caused? … Continue reading "The key to the evolution of the human species discovered…"

When someone says: get present… what do YOU mean by that?I have noticed that people often know the ‘what’ but completely miss the ‘how’.I am almost certain that when I say ‘how’, you don’t even know where to look.And I am almost certain that that unawareness, that ignorance, that ‘I have no idea what you … Continue reading "When someone says: get present: what do YOU mean by that?"