How do you cook frogs?You put them in water. And then, slowly raise the temperature. So slowly that it is near imperceptible for the frogs. They will not jump out of the pot, because they won’t feel it.The way you cook frog is the surest way to change.Wild turns, jumps, dramatic workshops are dramatic, but … Continue reading "Are you a frog, a turtle or a hare? Your results tell"

Calling something wrong is a complaint.I drink a lot of tea. Tea needs brewing, and I hate tepid or cold tea, so I have a mug warmer. But it needs to be on.Often I forget to turn it on.Then I snap at myself ‘I am such an asshole’. And then laugh.How can I be an … Continue reading "Once you allow something to be WRONG, you have some choices"

I HATE non-fiction. Even in listening to it. I hate being lectured to. It makes my brain stop working.And no matter what the book or course is teaching, I cannot tune in. Even when it is important to me. Why? I cannot feel that I matter for the speaker. And unfortunately I need to feel … Continue reading "What if it’s really a 3-year old who is doing your life?"

Here it is, the secret technology to raise your vibration, instantly and permanently: validationMy Second Phase Activator class just had the hardest session ever: activating validation as a capacity.I will add to this post in a few hours, but for now, watch the movie that you must see to know what I mean by validation, … Continue reading "Secret technology to raise your vibration: validation"

The art and science of getting unstuck… aka ALLOWINGCan I really promise that I’ll take you to freedom? That I can take you to unstuck and moving?It may be that I have bit off more than I can chew.This feeling of being stuck, maybe even being trapped, the inability to move, the feeling that there … Continue reading "Is being stuck a personal issue that you should hide?"

You are Stuck…Stuck without a solution, stuck in a tight spot, stuck in a relationship, stuck with an irrevocable promise, stuck in a job, stuck behind… Stuck. And stuck is stuck.This is the landscape of our life. NORMAL.Whether we verbalize it or not, we feel stuck. life seems to work against us, and we feel … Continue reading "Why those successful people became successful and not you?"

I learned to drive with manual transmission. there were no automatic shifts cars in Hungary at the time. Are there now? I have no idea.I drove my first automatic in Israel. But even though it was automatic, I shifted back when we were climbing the mountain Jerusalem sits on. A steep serpentine road winding up … Continue reading "Why cannot you learn, cannot heal, cannot be happy?"

70% of all people feel that they are stuck… And I guess, 100% of the people feel, at least occasionally, that they are stuck.Feeling stuck is very unpleasant. I know because I know how it feels.But being stuck is not real, unless it is something physical, and no one means that, when they say they … Continue reading "The art and science of getting yourself unstuck…"

This article deals with the stages of healing, healing your grief. Denial, anger, fear, and so on.The most important distinction I can add is: check your cone of vision. If your cone of vision is narrow, everything is colored or filled with your grief: the context of life becomes your grief, independent of the content … Continue reading "Coming Out Of Grief – The Process And the Problem"

I think the main issue that has arrested human evolution is not in the individual, but in the system.What is the system? because it is always the system… stupid.But the word system is as slippery as the word context… because it always means something different, yet there is a distinction that points to context or … Continue reading "Who has the right to say? The right to judge you?"