What does your success prove, if you have many many many clients?The question is triggered by a comment on my vibrational review about Caroline Cory on my siteHere is the comment. I don’t put it here because it makes me look good… I put it here because it doesn’t. The commenter used a fake name … Continue reading "What do popular coaches, courses, programs have in common?"

Get comfortable with not knowing the answerBecause you won’t… and maybe for a long time.But if you insist on knowing, then you won’t actually look, you won’t actually expand. You will keep on pondering, using only what you already ‘know’. And instead of questions that make you grow, you’ll be looking for answers, that confirm … Continue reading "From Pain Island to Pleasure Island… how to get unstuck"

Everything that you BELIEVE is Tree of Knowledge.What does it mean believe? It means that you don’t actually know, because you don’t have any proof. You didn’t see it, didn’t experience it, so you have to believe it.When I measure the truth value of something, I am measuring, in essence, the proportion of Tree of … Continue reading "What is the Tree of Knowledge? How does it work?"

Canadian wildfires are painting the sky yellow. This is a good time to think about needs… are they real or are they made up?Is clean air a need or a nice to have?A need is real… It’s not just a feeling. Not just a thought. Without the need fulfilled, life itself is dimmed… or extinguished.Beyond … Continue reading "Need is not a feeling. Feeling is also not a thought."

Worlds Apart: the two basic worldviews every worldview belongs to… Part 2: Comparing the two worldviewsIf you haven’t read part 1, it’s here…Like you, I want certainty. Like you, I want to be sure. And like you, I want to understand how the world works.Why? Because we are coming from a personal worldview that Life … Continue reading "Worlds Apart: worldviews… Part 2: Comparing the two"

The brilliance in the movie, It’s a wonderful life is that the angel creates a thought experiment: what the world would be like if our hero hadn’t been born.Thought experiments are uniquely human: animals can’t do thought experiments.The minimum intelligence required to create a thought experiment is 70. and I am not talking about IQ … Continue reading "Learning lessons the hard way or the easy way, choose 2"

If you are discouraged, read how I got myself out of the rut and see the rainbow againI just read Roy H. Williams’ Monday Morning Memo.It was just the thing for me to read… it was a mixture of feeling shamed and encouraged at the same time… Whaat? Yeah.I woke up depressed. Not new, I … Continue reading "Dogs can’t see rainbows. People can see them, but don’t"

What’s special about the roller coaster is the height it takes you and the depth it takes you… The experience is aliveness.When your life has no highs and maybe no deep lows, what you are, instead of being alive, is a walking dead. Resigned, and settled for the scraps at life’s table.You see others at … Continue reading "How dead are you? If your life is not a roller coaster…"

The principle of compounding is not only about moneyIt is also in attaining the good life: health, wealth, love and fulfillment.But not understanding the principle, having a narrow cone of vision will rob you of a chance for a life you love and live powerfully. If that is what you want… listen up. This may … Continue reading "The principle of compounding is not only about money"

inauthenticity: the fact of not being what somebody claims it is or not possible to believe or rely on opposite authenticity.Your use of language gives away your inauthenticityThe English language used to be quite precise in its tenses, but the language has been destroyed by the powers that be.I learned English from teachers in another … Continue reading "Your use of language gives away your inauthenticity"