How do you develop yourself to be able to move forward? To grow?Many of my coaching students are at a crucial point in their lives where unless something happens, they probably won’t move forward.Fear, unclarity, self-centeredness, belligerence…The main attitude is different for each person. Not one person resembles another in what seems to block their … Continue reading "Self-trust… a linchpin capacity… can you develop it?"

I experienced a few weeks ago that I can bring party to life.It was at my weekly exercise class. The teacher has 600 songs on his tablet… and we do everything to the music and the rhythm of the songs.You can use that to do the movements normally, or the way I do it: like … Continue reading "Can you turn life into a party? At a moment’s notice?"

This is a somewhat edited article from 2011. In 2011 I still thought that I can upgrade the DNA of every person on the planet.The capacity of caring is new to humanity. On September 4 less than a handful of people had it.So what is this capacity ‘caring’ that we give lip service to, but … Continue reading "Acquiring the capacities of caring, respect, and regard"

One of the issues some of my clients come up with are about setting boundaries.Preventing abuse, being used, being seduced from the path to do what other people want them to do.This is not an easy question… but you can get closer to actually being free to be yourself and have the room, the energy, … Continue reading "Do you have boundaries? Do you even NEED boundaries?"

One of the crucial steps in the 67 steps, is Step #26. It’s about having both belts and suspenders so you always have something to hold up your pants… your life… your health… And your relationships… your livelihood. That step is a step that has been paying me dividends for years now.Having both a best … Continue reading "1 thing, 1 principle, 1 distinction: turn your life around"

…or how should you go from where you are to where you want to be, emotionally, in your health, wealth, love, and happiness.I just ended my core group training, and as it seems I now have some energy to coach.Instantly three ‘associates’ called, on the same day, and I accepted all three for some friendly … Continue reading "How to turn your life around under any circumstances"

This article has two parts:In part one I coach myself to be able to make a decision if I want to spend the money and the time to sign up and do a course creators’ course. I am undecided… and that is, being on the fence is not good for me… So I want to … Continue reading "Be a fly on the wall observing me self-coaching"

That sinking feeling… the feeling that you don’t measure up. The feeling of impending doom. Of being found out… The fear of death…I just read an article in the New York Times, and ended up having that sinking feeling in my stomach.I don’t often have it myself, that sinking feeling in my stomach. but I … Continue reading "That sinking feeling in your stomach. Is it real?"

Positive THINKING, negative THINKING… listen up: it is not all about THINKING!Instead, it is deciding where to look, and where to go.Don’t look backwards unless you are planning to go that way (Thoureau).Or if you are climbing a rock… don’t look down. You can look after you are safe… but not during the climb.This has … Continue reading "A new take of what ‘positive thinking’ could be but isn’t"

If humanity lived in father-nature, it would have to learn how to live, how to be, how to do best with what they have, so it can last. Mothers are to be used and abused… it’s just how it is… every living thing devours their mother… No compassion, no remorse.mother-child is about gettingfather-child is about … Continue reading "If humanity lived in father-nature instead of mother-nature"