You can't catch what you can't see. And to recognize: you first need to catch it to see it.

And if you can't see what is at the root of a problem, you can't help the client with it.

It is 100% in the invisible. They themselves don't know it. And even when they see it, unless they have the distinction (i.e. recognize it for what it is), it is as good as if they have never seen it.

Recognition and distinction go hand in hand. Distinction is not a name, not a word, not even a sentence. It is a phenomenon.

If you didn't know that lightning has two components, the sight and the sound, and many kids don't know, then the sound would scare you shitless.

But if you can recognize the lightning for what it is (distinction) then the boom will be expected. Maybe not as close, not as loud as it may be... but expected.

Last night I kept on hearing noises. And I could not fall asleep until I could recognize that it rained and the leaky roof, the dripping water made the noise.

You can see something a thousand times, and yet recognition will elude you. Why? Because the distinction, distinguishing is missing.

I managed to 'cure' myself of bipolar disease by managing my sleep habits.

How? I distinguished that when I oversleep, when I am too comfortable, I start to slip into depression. While if I stay up late, I start a manic phase...

So I am quite rigid about keeping my sleep schedule. And I also take Lithium Orotate every night. Just in case...

Just in case a client is slipping into depression...

Recognition is an intellectual feat... But you can refuse to recognize.

Why would you?

For the payoff.

Payoff is the under the table benefit. Illegitimate, immoral, desire to receive for the self alone 'benefit'. Money paid in a brown bag. Bribe.

So what kind of payoff do you get, can you get when you refuse to recognize a pattern?

In the case of the client who I am having a meeting with today, it has a visible part: she is the 'I am really trying but no matter what I do I cannot do it! I am not a match to it...' superwoman. And martyr.

Superman/superwoman/hero and martyr ALWAYS go together.

That is the visible part.

The invisible part, the one in the brown bag is: she doesn't have to take responsibility for NEVER really putting enough energy into anything.

She has gotten away for many decades, with flashy pretense.

On one hand it is a payoff, yes, But on the other hand she has given up on everything that is worth living for, doing, having. everything.

So the longer this 'game' is afoot, the harder it is to tell the truth about it. Because the amount of pretense one would have to tell the truth about... in the past. It feels like a huge threat.

Another invisible part is OFTEN being holier than thou... judgmentalness. Feeling superior.

This invisible dynamic is called The Racket.

The racket got its name from racketeering... In racketeering there is a front. A legitimate business. And the nasty stuff happens in the back rooms.

Still exists. Organized crime it's called in law enforcement circles.

Racketeering is a type of organized crime in which the perpetrators set up a coercive, fraudulent, extortionary, or otherwise illegal coordinated scheme or operation (a "racket") to repeatedly or consistently collect a profit.

But every single person on the planet lives in a racket... It is part of the Human Condition.

It is a live machine. Imagine living alongside a giant squid. The squid tells you what to do... and your 'job' is to live your life for the benefit of the giant squid.

The squid, as all squids do, has many tentacles, arms.

You can dedicate your life to cut off those arms...

The all or nothing attitude (Gentian). The 'I will always/I will never' attitude.

We have been working with the machine. The machine we all live in. It is alive... and yet it's a machine.

This, the self-sabotaging Gentian attitude is the most frequent move of the machine.

Sometimes I wish I were some other teacher... and could write my articles, learn my lessons, without having to get into it, and wade myself through the much and the mire of an attitude, or situation.

But, maybe because I am an empath, this path is not available to me: I have to get dirty myself.

So this article is going to show MY underbelly... ugh.

They say: fake it till you make it... but what people understand from that is not what the saying means. People make it mean: lie through your teeth, deceive people, create a pretense, a public persona, and the truth will follow.

I refuse to lie. So this article will tell you the raw truth about me. It will be painful, but otherwise it won't teach you anything.

OK, this is what happened:

I have recently took a course on using a facebook page to attract new customers. Sounds good, though my opinion of facebook and people that hang out on facebook is really bad... but I hoped that it would not interfere.

I chose the topic: healing enthusiasts, and named the page: I love healing. Now, it may be true for me, but not the way people hear it: in order to heal, you first have to have disease, and that makes it a distasteful topic for me, but I ignored that too, hoped that it would not interfere.

I decided that I would hold a large free healing event. I haven't been doing anything for free, because I don't like freebie seekers, I really dislike them. But I hoped that my dislike would not interfere.

I spent a few hundred dollars I didn't have to spare on advertising on Facebook, and gathered two thousand people who raised their hands that they like healing.

The events themselves weren't large... a total of 60 people showed up.

I wanted to sell one of my flagship courses in the back end: the Self-Healing Course. I'd seriously underpriced it at $149. But, for this occasion, I created a special: $49 for 6 healing videos and 6 live session. It should cost $997, But I really wanted to make sure money wouldn't be a barrier to people.

I didn't even put one person's arse in a seat... I didn't sell anything.

So, here I am. Sitting, the morning after, lol, feeling beat. Feeling betrayed.

I am musing, and playing Freecell, watching my attitude. Attitude is everything.

If you can catch your attitude, you can put yourself back in control.

Attitude is volitional, meaning that you can change your attitude. Not easy, but possible.

I am seeing glimpses of it, but it takes a good hour for it to reveal itself in all its glory:

The attitude of all or nothing. We could also call it the attitude of desperation.

I start something I don't believe I can (or even want to) do. Make sure I throw in my last dollars. I want to be rescued, I want to be saved, so I put all responsibility on the stuff that is supposed to save me.

Then I do a shabby job. I do it half-assed, just to get it done, so I can say: 'I did it and it didn't work. You see how miserable I am?'

I forget to press record the video I promised, so I had to re-record it later.

I spend only a few minutes talking about my offer... instead of selling it in earnest.

And then I can't sleep, I am looking for a scapegoat, the course was bad, the people were awful, blah blah blah.

As you can see, the results were predictable from the start, there were at least 7-8 issues to guarantee it.

As you can see, it is sabotage on the first degree...

The idea that I should drag people to heaven, people who kick and scream 'no' does not appeal to me.

So I do best with people who can and want to do the work.

Just so you know, it takes an inordinate amount of work to turn oneself from a homo sapiens, living in the culture of homo sapiens into a human being.

To do it, in spite of the environment, in spite of your upbringing, in spite of what everybody teaches, church, school, parents, open your eyes to how reality works, how life works best, and do that. Do what Life wants you to do, and not resist. Or not resist so much that you won't do it.

It's like sex. Forced it is not real joy... for the rapist it is sick joy. I am no rapist...

It is like sex: because if you don't know what you are doing, it doesn't work.

If you are forcing your own rhythm or ideas... it doesn't work.

And if you are not willing to do what there is to do, it doesn't work.

You can be a newbie, and you can be a master. The experience is very different.

Not that I have managed to master it all... although some of it I have. Mastered. Not the words. The rhythm, the dance, the allowing.

Judging from your potential has been a mistake.

What is a potential? It is what you COULD do with what you have, if you applied yourself, diligently, consistently, ACCURATELY to do what is yours to do.

Even if you have a very accurate picture of yourself, the chances of that are slim. About 7%.

Why? Because you live in a world of shoulds, and shoulds MUST BE resisted.

Shoulds are the sign that you have no say, or not much say in the matter of your life.

Shoulds are the visible parts of the machine, the human machine that we all live in.

I did an experiment earlier today. My Reality Challenge students email me the new shoulds they find daily.

So I looked what would happen if a person changed all the shoulds to coulds...

Should ---> Could

Here are a few examples:

-'I should say something more elaborate then just happy birthday to her' is changed to 'I could say something more eleaborate than just happy birthday to her'

-'I should share that insight, say my bit' is changed to 'I could share that insight, say my bit'. Feel the difference?

-'I should ask that question now' is changed to 'I could ask that question now'.

You see that the could is an invitation, while the should is forceful, pushy, and violent... MUST RESIST IT!

The goal of this work is to give you choices... whereas resistance is not a choice. Choice is never forceful. Choice is always lighthearted...

In the 'famous' chocolate or vanilla exercise, unless you can choose either, even though you like one more than the other, it is not a choice. YOU didn't choose, your preference chose, or some other should.

I have very strong likes and dislikes. For everything.

My job, if I want my life to work, if I want to enjoy my life, if I want my life to matter, my job is to cause myself to choose, instead of allowing my dislikes to choose. Or allowing my needs, allowing my wants of any sort to choose.

Wants like: Wanting to be nice... wanting to look good, wanting to make money, or make a difference.

Your integrity is low, because you hardly ever choose. Your concerns, your wants, your needs, your have-to, your shoulds choose, not you.

And, of course, you hate yourself.

The key to loving yourself is integrity. Or loving anyone... by the way.

By the way, when I say your wants choose for you... it also applies to your 'I don't wanna!'

The biggest difference between you and me is that I have only one should left I have to deal with. And that is that 'I should take my time to look before I jump...

My soul correction (Forget Thyself) is hasty. Jumping in, and making mistakes, getting in a mess, scrambling to get out.

Nowadays that we are hunting for the should shouldn't spouting little voice, I am forced to realize that for me it is not words... it is a push. Or is it a pull?

I am also seeing that many of may I hate that come from that push

So let's hunt for some hates... and let's see if this is personal to me, or across the field. Please, I will need your feedback.

There are a few things I can't tolerate, would not tolerate.

Boredom, homelessness, despicableness... as in 'normal'. I also detest cheap... in everything. Mundane.

So for me working, being interested, being curious, being the best I can be, innovation are all my vehicles to get away from what I hate, cheap, mundane, and boredom. Aimlessness. Having to reason to be. And being ordinary. Repeating something, anything, the same way... with nothing new happening. ugh.

But now that I am really looking, I can see a hint of what I see on others who have a should statement to prevent them from actually being who they fancy themselves to be...

I fancy myself high IQ. I always have.

But when I just jump in, without looking, my score is about 70% accurate, so 30% of the time the jump turns out to be a mistake.

I jumped the gun.

It would only take a little bit of looking to be near 100% accurate. But the soul says: if I were really that smart, I would not need to look before. So looking says I am not that smart.

The voice says that I should be able to make the perfect decisions without looking.

It is the same voice that tells you not to study, not to experiment, not to actually master anything, because that would mean that you are not smart enough.

Your little voice says 'I should already know that'... what it omits, are some other words: If I were as smart as I think I am, then I would already know that.

Obviously that is garden variety horse sh!t... smarts have nothing to do with knowing.

Knowing is all ASSIDUITY. Sitting on your ass, and doing the goddamn work, to turn some information into knowledge.

I watched this video on Richard Feynman yesterday. Richard Feynman won the Nobel Prize in Physics. He was said to be the biggest brain in physics and mathematics of his time...

His pictures show him smug, in love with himself. But he did the work. The work that turns information into knowledge.

He started out, they say, with an IQ of 125. One in 20 people have that high IQ, according to the video. One in ten million people win the Nobel Prize. Doing the work changed his brain. His IQ when he died was 170.

You start with what you start... It is your job is to 'cultivate' your brain... through doing actual 'turning information into knowledge' work.

I muscletested, and my IQ was 100 when I was in high school. In year three and four I actually did that 'turning information into knowledge' work. By the time I applied to architecture school, my IQ was 110.

It stagnated there for 14 years. Had I stayed in Hungary, had I continued being an architect, my IQ would be 110 today.

Then I started Landmark Education, and I worked on my vocabulary, my accurate vocabulary of certain words, like authenticity, or generosity.

My IQ rose to 125. I was where Richard Feynman started.

Then I added Kabbalah, I added feelings I now needed to identify, added identifying energies... and today my IQ is 180.

IQ is like a knife... activity sharpens it.

But if you believe the little voice that 'you should already know that because you are smart', then your IQ will remain low.

Humans are born with zero knowledge... and most die with zero knowledge.

I have been wondering if I could tell if a person can be trained or not. What would I see that would tell me yes or no?

I watched a little Grantchester on Amazon Prime yesterday. In one of those episodes the vicar gets laid. His pal almost instantly knows.

A few years ago I saw a woman come out of the hotel elevator in Las Vegas. To me she looked like she had always looked, but a man in our group instantly knew she just got laid.

I verified it with her... But how did he know?

Both men, the man in Grantchester and in Las Vegas saw something. They had some distinction that I don't... But it is possible that I could.

And I could learn where to look, how look, so I can tell a person: 'don't waste your time, buddy... You won't get it.'

Then, as it is always due to happen, I got an email from a participant in the Reality Challenge.

There, in the challenge, we do one thing only: we notice and record the little voice saying should and shouldn't.

One participant, Miko, is doing something more: he implemented something from my article on the 2nd where I teach that unless you work on creating a vision of a future. A future that your activity can and could create for you, you won't do the activity. The work.

To see what an activity can do for you, I say, you create a little ritual where you sit with our eyes closed and ask your brain to answer a question: 'what would happen if I implemented this?' or something to that end...

Of course you have to have the capacity 'foresight' for you to see it... in reality.

He writes:

I caught this should

-I should already know

What could life be like if I didn't have this last ‘should'? it could be a fascinating adventure, full of discovery… and potentially sustained progress, eventual achievement.

Today, in preparation for Tuesday's class (and life!) I listened to an hour long segment of one of the Freedom webinars (I was in) on the racket. I got at least two things.

First, that on the call I was saying the words about what it's costing me to run the racket but I didn't really SEE that all those things (self-love, affection, success, aliveness, etc.) are actually possible, that I could have them in my life and I'm missing out on them, like an opportunity cost… So even in that very conversation I was probably run by 'I should already know'. But like you said in a recent article, you won't go for it if you don't have a vision, if you don't think it's possible in the first place. And for the longest time I haven't.

And that email gave me the next piece that was missing for me to be able to see who will and who won't.

When I look at myself, I have NEVER had this should. The little voice never said in my head 'I should already know this, see this, have this'.

So when I didn't see what result an activity would give me, emotional, spiritual, physical, mental, I said simply 'I don't see that'. (For example I have never been able to see that I would be loved...)

I didn't lie. You do.

You see when someone has a 'I should already know that' they are lying. They didn't do the work to know that. Either they didn't do any work, or did not do enough work, or did work but not the right work. So they should NOT know that, given that knowledge, all knowledge takes work to acquire... no knowledge sticks to you like dirt.

So that is the test.

If a person can describe that result, that future, and I can hear that they SEE it, then they can be trained. Why? Because that vision will give them enough incentive to do the work.

If they can't see it then they can start doing the vision meditation... or go home.

Now, if you are someone with that lying 'I should already know that' inner voice, have some conversations with that inner voice.

I overslept this morning. Whenever you oversleep, or allow comfort to set in, something sinister happens in the invisible.

Your brain takes your behavior as an instruction that you want to practice for death.

You could call it hibernation, but it is only hibernation if that is what you meant to do. Otherwise it is the state where there is no future.

The first signs are hopelessness. There is no hope. There is no future. Just blah.

What you may hear the voice say: 'why bother?'

Why bother to drink water? Why bother to do what you are supposed to do? Hell, I don't care! Why bother?

And it is downhill from there.

It is a lot like a driveway on my street in the winter.

It snows. No big deal. You could shovel, but your car can get out, so why bother?

At night the snow plow comes and pushes all the snow from the street to create a ridge in front of the driveway. And that snow is packed and it would take hours to break it up and shovel it away.

But no problem, you'll do it tomorrow, today you don't have to go anywhere...

But more snow comes. And more snow plow. But now you are really locked in...

And this is how it is for many of my students. They live by 'it is not worth it', 'it is too much, why bother?'

I slept in just this once, and it is already there: Why bother trying to teach people who don't want to learn? Who don't want a better life?

If you knew what is in the invisible, then you could counter it, like I can.

KNEW, I said. But to know, you need to get deep, and you need to get complete and thorough, but 'no one has time for that!'

The dynamic in the invisible is simple. Formulaic. And sinister.

It has many words, and unless you know them intimately, you'll miss it.

And you go into despair, or into depression, or into anger, or into blaming, or into quitting...

All because you believe the voice that says: it is not your fault.

It is. Always.

And if you spent time to familiarize your self with the dynamic, you would get out of it in a jiffy.

But thus far you don't.

The invisible dynamic I am talking about is called The Racket.

70% of what can make you miserable can be warded off just by knowing, intimately, unconscious competence level, this invisible dynamic.

Not like have some idea about it. No no no, that will not help anyone. Or not be able to repeat the information... that will not help you.

No. Knowing it intimately. Instinctively.

Like you know not to start peeing in the door of the bathroom, but get to the toilet first...

I am still angry.

And because you think you know, because you have heard me talk about it.

And because you think you know because I have 90 articles where I talk about the racket. You think that you now know something.

And you are miserable... your own ugly way.

All happy people are alike, all unhappy people are unhappy in their own way...

Because you don't believe me.

You think I just want to sell you something.

Or you think it is my good idea.

Or you think like Adriana and Bonnie that you should only do anything if it is your idea.

How is it working?

I swore a few months ago that I wouldn't lead another workshop...

But I need to break that word... because without learning the racket I cannot promise anything to you.

And without you practicing recognizing the racket first and then beating it at its own game second, you'll be a miserable wretch, and stupid at that.

I intend to teach you to the level where you can start teaching it yourself.

The second move of the machine is to have a persona, or personality. the one everyone knows.

Independent, strong willed, smart, knowledgeable, pretty, nice, creative. all lies.

You paint those over everything. Over everything to hide that you are not that. Hiding that you are a real person suffering from no freedom to be yourself. You have no freedom to be any way you want to be. Instead you have to be nice. Instead you have to be smart, you have to be independent. Or maybe you have to be a superwoman.

This second move was born out of incidents where you fell short of being a match to life. From incidents where you saved the day.

Robin Williams' machine, the clown machine, ultimately killed him. He was tongue tied, lonely, sad, and an introvert underneath the loud, funny, hyper person he invented to survive as a child.

But your survival tools become a prison, and cause untold sufferings.One of my students decided that the way to make it through life is to be distant, self-protecting, and to keep everyone at arm's length. As an adult, a mother and grandmother, she is suffering from lack of intimacy, lack of closeness.

Her 'survival suit' is protecting her from what she wants most in life. Meaningful close relationships.

The third move is the chattering, judgmental mind with its accompanying emotions and feelings.

This is also a machine, and you have been trying to control it, turn it into your slave, but the more you are fighting it, the more you are trying to control it, the worse you feel, the worse your life becomes.

I accidentally stumbled onto the solution: most thoughts and feelings I experience are not mine, they come from outside.

When I realized that, I started a process that became the solution to the busy mind and ravaging feelings: I managed to create a distance, and I managed thus to give them room to roam, to do what they do, without being much bothered by them.

I found out that a group of scientists created a psychological training program to accomplish the same. They call it ACT.

I have been studying it, and I may teach it, adding to it what only an empath can add: monitoring your behavior, your inner behavior, and feedback, give you personalized strategies. invaluable. And possibly energetic support to develop the capacities faster than you would without it.

The capacities you need for winning in life in spite of the machine

The capacities this ACT method requires of you are allowing, accepting, embracing, making room, stop arguing, stop fighting, stop fixing. drop it or at least curtail it. It's your behavior and you have control over it.

With practice you can become masterful at accepting, embracing, making room for your thoughts and feelings. And when you become any good at it, you will have time and energy. Time and energy to do something with your life. To do something meaningful, something that you can be proud of. To make your life count. And to be about more than just surviving life.

The same capacities also work miracles in your life.

If the young girl had those capacities, she would have allowed me to tell her how I see her, and either just give that feedback room, or maybe even choose if it is helpful or not.

Instead she needed to attack them, and attack me.

Not a happy life maker, if you ask me. Would you agree?

As I am running with this new insight that the culprit of misery and self-destructive behavior is the soul's doing I am starting to see some aspects I didn't see yesterday.

I said it yesterday, that the words that urge you on resulting in some damage... often resulting big damage is the shoulds.

It feels like someone inside is guiding you... guiding your actions. So if you don't have the distinction that all shoulds come from the soul, its dark side, you can spend your whole life being moved by these shoulds...

But what I didn't see yesterday is this: the soul has no way to know what is in reality.

The soul cannot use your eyes, so it cannot see. It cannot hear.

So it is blind and deaf. It just wants to play its usual games... no matter what the circumstances.

It is really like an infant... the way it seems, the way it sounds to me when I connect to it. And no one can expect an infant to care about anyone other than what infants care about.

Do you think infants care about the parents who can't get decent sleep until the child is much older?

No way. The infant doesn't care.

So this infant entity will not care about your success, about your health, about your fulfillment: you have to.

You have to be the captain of that ship, or the infant will direct it every step of the way.

Now, I have said that the evil streak that is directing the soul is desire to receive for the self alone.

The interesting aspect of this is that the soul, first and foremost, wants you not to have what you want to have. So its telling you with its shoulds all the things that will make you not have what you want.

Sinister.

For example, if taking a winning step needs you to understand, needs you to look before you leap, then the soul will tell you that you are a slowpoke, and you should jump in and before you can blink it will be done.

Or if something takes hundreds of repetition to get to mastery, where it has ANY value, the soul will tell you after doing it three times, that you are now done. You don't need to do it any more.

Or if making something instinctual (unconscious competence) is the only way what you learn has value, the soul will tell you that knowing about it is as good, and besides you are very smart... so you don't have to.

If I teach you that the first step is to learn to recognize the sinister moves is 90% of the job, the soul will tell you to restrict now... and not worry about recognizing... stupid Sophie will never know.

Every single moment of every hour, the soul pressures you to do life in a way that makes you miserable.

Until and unless you win at least 30% of the time, you won't even have a sense that you are a Self... That you are You. Until then you are just hand puppet operated by the soul.

This Reality Challenge has one assignment and one assignment only: see and observe the moves of the soul often enough and long enough so you can recognize it...

If you are in the Reality Challenge but don't do the work, I will remove you. You know who you are.

If you aren't in the challenge... just listen to the voice of the soul that says something like 'I don't believe her', or 'I don't need this', or 'Don't tell me what to do' or something like that.

Or maybe it says 'You don't know my life... I don't have time for that!' like Bonnie... in my Friday Podcast.

When you are stupid, it is always the soul that you parrot.

You may be brilliant... but you DO stupid.

Unfortunately, Forrest Gump says it best: 'Stupid as the stupid does'...

And although the soul talked and tried to force his way in Forrest Gump, luckily for Gump, he didn't hear it... So he had a successful life.

You? You won't.

Turning Points: Queen to Play

Lots of movies are based on a script of turning points. Of course: a dramatic turning point is a really great story.

But few of the turning points are of any use for the viewer because you cannot see, cannot recognize the dynamic of the turning point. No distinction...

There is a movie though where the turning point is generated by the heroine, and therefore it could be really useful for you.

Our heroine is a cleaning lady on a French island. She cleans rooms in a local hotel, and cleans houses in the afternoons. She is dutiful (Elm), never says no (Centaury), and is lonely.

One day, as she cleans a room while the room's occupants are on the balcony, she sees the couple playing chess and sharing intimate moments where they are equal.

They are together,

they are doing something together,

and they are equal, we could even say, the female is equal to her partner.

Our cleaning lady decides that it must be the chess...

Chess becomes the symbol of the life she wants... and doesn't have.

So when she sees a chess set at one of her private employers, she opens the box... and gets caught by the employer.

But the desire has now burns in her. It burns like a fever. She negotiates a deal, a trade: she wants the employer to teach her chess for cleaning the guy's house.

Playing chess is fundamentally different from her daily activities. Her daily acitivities require no thinking. Thinking is hard, but the prize: togetherness, equality, are worth the struggle it takes for her to get through the barriers to play, and play well. She needs to expand her mind, she needs to re-evaluate her role in her own life, her worldview about herself and about the world.

Her relationship to the people around her shifts with her taking charge of her life. She starts owning her own power. Even in her relationship with her husband and her daughter.

Her sense of loneliness eases. Her life will never be the same.

She has started herself on the path to become an expanding human being, obeying the calling of the soul.

This is the kind of turning point that you can create for yourself if you manage to have the desire AND the hate of how it is now.

Doing the soul's purpose needs you to have enough alone time so you can

hear what the soul is saying. Hear what the soul wants and doubly hear what the soul HATES.

look what that means specifically to you

execute the steps that would put you in the position to actually do the soul's bidding.

My experience is that this is near impossible to do while in a relationship that is only about the relationship. If the relationship's purpose is not bigger than the relationship itself. The other person will not want to give you room to do this work... G-d forbid you get ahead of them.

What there is to do is distinguish between alone and lonely.

Lonely is a feeling, and it probably covers up that you are out of place. That you are wasting your life, wasting your resources, you are off-track, engaged in a mundane life, in a life not worth living.

You have resources, you have a brain, you have eyes, perception, hands, feet... all used to merely survive.

Just like our cleaning lady chose to expand herself, you can choose to expand yourself. Expand in a direction that makes the least amount of sense.

She didn't decide to learn flower arrangement, cooking, or something that would keep her still in the same social/gender caste she started in. She decided to do a decidedly male path: expand her intellect.

For most of you that is not the direction you would choose to go: I recommend therefore that you do!

Choose to expand your mind.

As I got further and further writing this article, I realized that what I am writing is some sort of manifesto. What we are doing here, what we aim to accomplish.

All the illustrations of manifestos I didn't examine. They can be good, bad, or neutral. They are just illustrations. Don't get your panties in a bunch...

OK, here is the article:

Whatever is preventing you from following instructions is your racket

Your soul correction, in effect, is a racket.

The other day I talked to two women. Both forceful. Not by choice... Not because they want to be. They have to... because their soul correction is forceful.

Every soul correction is forceful in some way.

The soul correction wants to prove the vehicle (person) right. Wants to prove the vehicle all-knowing. A superman or a superwoman.

Or alternatively the soul correction wants to prove that the vehicle can't, cannot possibly do what anyone asks of him: to live a life worthy of a human...

Yet in other soul corrections the 'other' needs to be proven wrong for the vehicle to be right... always right, always superior.

In this work, the work that Kabbalah tried to do and in the work that Werner Erhard tried to do. Werner who, maybe, also found some of the roots of what he teaches in L.Ron Hubbard work, in Nietzsche's work, in Heidegger's work, in Eastern (Indian) philosophy... so it is a mutt.

What pulls it together is my connection to Source... through muscletesting and non-verbal guidance.

The technology I learned in Landmark Education is not complicated. It is powerful, but unfortunately it needs mental, intellectual capacities most people are not taught to use.

One major missing ability is to take one's self, one's point of view, to outside of the personality and its self-interest.

The self-interest to be prove itself right.

And take that point of view outside where one can see what others can see. Where one can see what the interactions look like. What YOU look like to others.

And also where that way of being takes you and your life.

All the politicians the Borowitz Report makes fun of: the only common denominator is that they can only see the world through their own eyes... and seen from the outside they are both ridiculous and despicable.

But so are you... so we all are.

When we are run by the 'evil inclination' of the soul, we are both ridiculous and despicable.

In this work we look at the exact same thing from many different angles. We call these angles distinctions...

A distinction limits what we see, but at the same time it allows us to see things that are totally hidden, i.e. invisible from other angles.

Brilliant methodology. Nearly anything the soul-correction does is in the invisible... Invisible when you look from behind your eyeballs.

Most people, millions, never realize that we are looking at the same thing... But unless you do, you never connect the dots.

Connecting the dots needs you to see the sameness in many seemingly pictures that don't seem similar.

The sameness in every angle, is the soul correction. It is the soul's desire to receive for the self alone. (I know I am bursting some bubbles about the soul being the all good part of us. Not true...)

The racket, the identity, the itch, the pebble in your shoes, the narrow cone of vision, the perpetration/withhold. The refusing to grow, refusing to create working knowledge from bits of information, the not listening, no not achieving, the resistance, the unwillingness to look from the side, the unwillingness to be in the present, in reality...

Therefore the common denominator, what they all share, the dot that is in every one of those phenomena is the soul correction and it's desire to recei...