Can the much maligned ego be the answer to your prayers? Praying to get unstuck? Ego is a strong driving force… if it is encouraged to be so. It is also a strong anchoring force. Its energy signature is a triangle sitting on its side. It works a lot like a ballast or flywheel. It … Continue reading "Is the Ego a friend or a foe? Let’s look!"

When I say ‘feeling’, I often include the other perception organs… The most obviously not ‘mind’ feeling is the physical sensation of pressure, heat, blockage, itches, tickles, nausea, headaches, pain, burning sensation, orgasm, warmth, butterflies in your stomach. When I say ‘feeling’, I don’t mean emotion, even though emotions have feeling-components. For example all 48 … Continue reading "Feel your way out of the Matrix, out of the limbo"

Alienation… not feeling yourself… rigidity One of my students sent me her collage. A collage is an artwork where the hidden surfaces. We think one things but what is the truth, what is underneath it come out in a well-done collage. We all feel disconnected, isolated, not quite belonging, lacking intimacy, and we think that … Continue reading "Feeling yourself is the key to personhood"

One of the humanity-wide issues is this: you feel something and then immediately jump to the meaning. You CREATE the meaning with words. The jump is from reality to unreality. The meaning never happened. It can’t even exist without the words… This is how pain becomes suffering. This is how fear becomes anxiety. And this … Continue reading "Stay Open In The Pain. Experience it with eyes open"

Your brain is an Unused Resource It is what most rainmakers do. Start using unused resources. Rainmaking is a business/industry distinction. There is a business that does so-so. A new CEO or leader comes in and restructures the company and their results go through the roof. But the same thing can be done on any … Continue reading "Become your own rainmaker… start using your brain"

If you know me, you know that I love movies. There was a time in my life when I thought that meant that I should, somehow, work in or with movies. Today I know better. Movies is Source’s way to talk to me, to open my mind, help make me an Expanding Human Being. So, … Continue reading "Watching Netflix, Plugged Up Toilet, Higher Vibration"

We all know this, it is too common to think that you don’t have it. You find yourself attracted to some kind of project. Maybe a new habit, or an exercise regimen. It feels like a done deal: it is all yours. Done deal, it is in the bag… and then you wake up one … Continue reading "Carrot or Stick? How to win at promises you make to yourself"

Ernest Hemingway once wrote a story on a restaurant napkin In Key West, a story in six words. ‘For sale: baby shoes, never worn‘ He could have written about all humans, about my students… who are just like those baby shoes; unfulfilled dreams… unfulfilled potential. I just finished my ‘Distinctions’ podcast call that today was … Continue reading "Entitlement is a worldview? Really? Not an attitude?"

Humanity has a tendency to use shortcuts to get there faster***… Where is there? Nowhere, really, so it is all about the faster, the cheaper, the less effort for humanity. Going nowhere fast. Was it always so? No. I have a theory that humanity cycles through phases of being… beingness… that are, maybe the same … Continue reading "Humanity has a tendency to use shortcuts to get there faster"

One of the differences is that a 1000 always has a coach or coaches… mentors, people they talk to regularly, who are, in certain respects, ahead of them. People who can see what they can’t see. See principles, distinctions, aberrations, errors, false steps, causation. Reading is useful. Watching videos is useful. But nothing compares to … Continue reading "What does a 1000 see and you don’t? Can you learn to see?"