I bet when you read ‘c-word’, you were thinking of something else… But don’t be mistaken, people are more afraid of commitment than the c-word you thought I meant… Here is a quote from Rob Brezsny: When a crocodile slams its jaws shut, the energy it summons is powerful. But when the beast opens its … Continue reading "Commitment… the c-word… and saving grace"

Use winner and winning like two walls the hamster uses to climb to the top. Make it a tiny steps method, aka Kaizen. In no time you’ll become a winner One of the functions the new HERO system can be used is to Change habits… Build new habits. Change who you are. This is a … Continue reading "What’s the difference between being a winner and winning?"

Commitment vs. getting off the hook I am noticing marked difference in the way people of different religious, geographical, or ethnic background perform in my courses. Also I see marked difference between island people and continent people. This is due to social evolution differences, they are not individual. One area of difference is this: some … Continue reading "The twinkie defense gets you off the hook"

Why can’t you make things happen? Why can’t you make your life work… You’ll hate me for this… but hate me as much as you want, this is why: Your integrity is shot. Without integrity nothing works. Sounds very general, and definitely doesn’t seem to have anything to do with you: you are always on … Continue reading "Mastering your word to make things happen"

In this article I will tell you about the health aspects of the Tree of Knowledge… 1 William, a rehabilitation trainer from South Africa sent me one of his clients’ DNA testing. It would have been interesting to also get the client’s picture, so I can compare the results with muscletesting, with what Source has … Continue reading "How is the Tree-of-Knowledge alive and well today?"

I can tell by the look in your eyes you’ve been hurting. You’ve been wanting to be the best you can be, and you can’t. You always hit a snag here, a snag there… And it looks hopeless. You are ashamed of yourself. You try to hide, but it doesn’t help. Because you know. You … Continue reading "I can tell by the look in your eyes you’ve been hurting"

I have tons of people asking me to activate the capacity of self-discipline, and will power. And although I CAN activate those capacities, they don’t come ‘online’ unless your behavior already proves that you can use them… I.e. that you have SOME will power. And most people don’t… we’ll look at what you can do … Continue reading "Why are you weak-willed when it comes to growth?"

It’s human nature to be fascinated by a hero story. Hero stories create hope, because they create an illusion that the listener can be a hero too, can get the girl, can get the millions. People buy, based on that hope, nearly everything. The Hero’s Journey tells a story structure we all love. Joseph Campbell … Continue reading "The hero story that inspires you tells me a lot about you…"

When something is not working, there is something you didn’t know In the movie, The Truman Show, Truman lives in a ‘bucket’ of a world, that is in essence a movie stage. He doesn’t know it… For a long time life works, until it doesn’t. For a while he doesn’t know why it is not … Continue reading "What didn’t I know that can finally help you to break through?"

One day a Zen master told his students that he was going to teach a new technique of shooting an arrow. He instructed his students to cover his eyes with a cloth and then he shot his arrow. When he opened his eyes, he saw the target with no arrow in it and when he … Continue reading "What is the ONE THING that decides your future?"