I have memories of my grandparents, who seemed to give everything. They didn’t have money to give, but giving was not about money. Giving was everything else. It was the open door, kettle on and a packet of biscuits always stowed away, ready and waiting for a visitor.
That way of being seems to be rare nowadays. As people went from having nothing to having something, they suddenly had something to protect, something to conserve, and the feeling of lack and scarcity that characterises life for so many of us means we are careful to protect and conserve, fearful of a tomorrow where we find ourselves in need, and perhaps driven to that fear by a culture of advertising that pervades everything and always seems to tell us exactly what we’re missing.
Giving is not just for charity or community.
More and more, giving can also have a central role to play in a successful business, but only if it takes place without any expectation of a return. Because giving with expectation of receiving is not giving at all.
I remember Gary Vaynerchuk, a poster-child of Internet marketing and entrepreneurship and hustle, talking about this, about the importance of giving in his businesses.
“When you put others in front of yourself, whether intended or unintended, things just happen,” he said.
He went on, “It’s magical. Be it in life or business, I implore you to always seek to be the giver first. If you can give without expectation, you’ve got everything to gain. It’s not an easy trait to acquire but it’s certainly something I advise everyone to work towards. Not only will it make you feel good, but it’ll provide you the leverage that you can utilize if the opportunity comes knocking.”
This piece is one section of Gibran's great prose poem book, The Prophet, which was published in 1923.
During his lifetime, Gibran was considered and considered himself a painter, but a hundred years after the publication of The Prophet, his words continue to travel through time and space and deliver meaning and impact on many who come upon them.
It is the second piece from The Prophet to feature on this podcase. You can find “On Friendship” in Episode 93.
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