Points of Perspective

In this episode, I'm expressing my perspectives on how some people gender blame when it comes to relationships, and using examples. When it comes to Memes, online discussions, and even among friends at an outing, We're used to hearing a lot of men saying, "women are all...." fill in the blank... and women say, "All men ain't S%@%", and it's usually over 1 terrible experiences, possibly more. I'm attempted to break that barrier down by announcing that gender blaming is bad, and at times even toxic... and at the same time, we need to open our eyes a little cause there are three cases. One, a person definitely do wrong, but blame the individual, and not their sex. Two, maybe there's wasn't compatibility. Three, maybe the issue wasn't the person you was with. Sometimes we don't reflect, and we could be the issue. Sometimes, we're just biased. I want to spread this message because gender blaming is ultimately toxic, and it can lower the potential of us finding happiness when it comes to companionship.... cause no one wants a negative nancy. 

In this episode, I'm expressing how important it is to understand how "like attracts like" exist. It's the reason why friendships are formed. I also express my huge point of views of the pro and cons of the quote, "birds of a feather flock together", and how we need to understand that it isn't the case for every single person, group/crew... but people are connected by having, or doing things in common with each other. We just need to understand why, instead of making the quick assumptions of people sharing bad habits and/or flaws, but i also pointed out on why I understand how a few people come up with the assumption, especially if some habits are knowingly condoned. 

"Don't judge another person just because they sin differently than you do". I'm speaking about how we should calm down as people, judging people openly and how we should be more humble. The results are night and day. Being more humble gives us more positive feedback, while being Judgemental openly, can be more negative.

Jealousy is a little healthy... and some people can use it for motivation, but we have to be careful to not have too much jealousy. Don't confuse it with Envy. Envy is the drunken, toxic sibling of jealousy. In this episode, I'm discussing jealousy we can have with friends or strangers... and then jealousy we can have in a relationship. Possessiveness, can be toxic. Especially if it's one-sided, and not being met with mutual actions. 

This episode is me talking about Shame, and a couple of different types. Shame when it comes to ourselves, and people who tries to place blame on us. It's very hard for us to recover from shame, and it effects us very deeply. We feel regret, dishonor, embarrassed.. ect. We can even have shame in my hearts even due to guilt. So I'm expressing how it effects us, the possibilities, and even how it can effect our Limbic section of our brain... the Amygdala. 

I'm speaking a whole lot about dealing with people who uses Fabrications, and fictions in discussions to prove points. Speaking about things they're unsure of, and inserting other things they're unsure of into the topic, but then telling you to do research, or trying to correct what you've learned from research. I used Dr. Sebi's (R.I.P) teachings for an example, how many will only project what they know from Memes, instead of taking their time in learning. Plus more examples. 

About me, how my perspectives should be projected... basically tired of dubbing myself down to please others. 

In this episode, I talk about dealing with fake love with friends, and fake love while in a relationship. How both of them can be a burden. Dealing with fake friends, or being a fake friend, can be such a burden and drain us from our energy. It's always best to just find people we can be compatible with. So I'm expressing some of my past experiences when it comes to fake love. With the fake relationship, I even get deep into one of my past relationships which caused me the curiosity to... uh oh... snoop! I want my listeners to connect with me more on a personal level with this subject, so i'm giving my perspectives on a personal level, and not an observational one.

I'm speaking about people selectively being aware of things. Hearing the same thing from two different people, but may favor hearing it from a stranger (Or celebrity figure), than a friend. Then I close on why I disagree so strongly with the term woke, in detail, and stating that it'll be my last time addressing it during a solo episode.