"And they lived happily ever after..." How many times did we hear that when we were little? And how many of us got married and quickly realized MARRIAGE. IS. HARD. It's two imperfect people coming together to share a life. It takes a lot of unselfishness and hard work, and it's so easy to focus on each other's shortcomings. Listening to these positive affirmations will help change your perspective and focus on the good things in your marriage.