In this thought-provoking episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes Sam Wike, a former police officer and certified explosive detection K9 handler who now dedicates his expertise to companion dog training. Sam discusses the challenges humans create in training due to their need for control and how true partnerships with dogs require understanding their perspective rather than imposing our own. He emphasizes the importance of communication, patience, and respecting dogs as intelligent beings with their own emotional landscapes.

Sam also explores the power of positive reinforcement in high-stakes environments like police work, dismantling the myth that harsh training methods are necessary for reliability. He shares powerful stories from his K9 handling days, explains why ego is one of the biggest obstacles in dog training, and provides valuable guidance on working with aggressive dogs. If you’ve ever wondered how to better connect with your dog, this episode is a must-listen.

To learn more about Sam or get in touch visit https://theinnerdog.com/.

Victoria Stilwell welcomes Zazie Todd, PhD, an award-winning author, animal behavior expert, and founder of Companion Animal Psychology on the podcast to discuss the science of stress in dogs, how to identify signs of anxiety, and the role of medications in behavior modification. The conversation touches on cognitive bias in dogs, optimism vs. pessimism, and how early positive experiences shape a dog’s outlook. 

Zazie shares insights on why fear and anxiety in dogs are on the rise, how counter-conditioning works, and why first-time experiences matter so much for a dog’s learning. Zazie also highlights the importance of finding properly qualified trainers who use reward-based methods and why aversive training techniques can have long-term negative effects on a dog’s well-being.

Zazie will be speaking at the 2025 Dog Behavior Conference, where she will present her research on “Firsts and Nice Surprises” in helping fearful dogs.

In this insightful episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes back Andrew Hale to discuss the deep connections between human and canine social experiences. As a certified animal behaviorist and advocate for dog-centric care, Andrew delves into the importance of secure attachments, social safety, and emotional regulation in both species. The conversation challenges traditional views on training, highlighting how reactivity and behavior issues often stem from social processing struggles rather than mere disobedience. They also explore how punishment-based methods can create long-term emotional damage, making a strong case for humane, positive approaches.

Drawing parallels between societal issues and dog behavior, they discuss how stress, insecurity, and fear-based reactions manifest similarly in people and pets. Andrew shares thought-provoking research on social pain, the effects of loneliness on physiological health, and how social exclusion can shape both human and canine behavior. Victoria and Andrew emphasize the need for compassionate training methods that prioritize emotional well-being, reinforcing the idea that true behavior change starts with understanding, safety, and connection. Tune in for a compelling conversation that may change the way you think about dogs—and people.

To learn more about Andrew Hale, visit https://trainpositive.co.uk/. 

In this episode, Victoria Stilwell interviews Beverley Cuddy, editor of Dogs Today magazine, as it celebrates 35 years of championing dog welfare. Beverley shares her experiences advocating for responsible breeding, her views on the Kennel Club's recent controversies, and the importance of holding organizations accountable. They delve into breed-specific legislation, including the XL Bully ban, and explore how media and education can shape public perception of dog ownership.

Beverley’s candid insights into her career, her advocacy work, and the future of dog welfare offer listeners a mix of inspiration and thought-provoking commentary. Whether you're a pet professional or a devoted dog lover, this episode sheds light on critical issues facing dogs and their owners today.

In this episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes Tom Candy, clinical animal behaviourist and founder of Simplifying Shelter Behaviour. Tom shares insights into the current state of shelters in the UK, highlighting the challenges brought on by the pandemic, the cost-of-living crisis, and changing adoption patterns. He delves into the frustrations faced by both dogs and their guardians in shelter and rescue scenarios, emphasizing the importance of innovative solutions like preventive rescue and in-home support programs. Tom also provides a behind-the-scenes look at how shelters are adapting to better serve both dogs and potential adopters.

The conversation extends beyond shelter operations to address pressing issues such as the XL Bully ban, burnout among shelter staff, and the importance of self-care for those in emotionally taxing professions. Victoria and Tom explore the potential benefits and risks of playgroups in shelters and share actionable advice for improving the rehoming process. Whether you're a pet professional, volunteer, or dog enthusiast, this episode offers valuable insights into creating a more compassionate and effective sheltering system.

To learn more about Tom, visit Simplifying Shelter Behaviour's Facebook page. 

In this enlightening episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes the legendary Sue Sternberg, a trailblazer in dog training and behavior. They explore Sue’s journey from 1981 to now, highlighting industry changes, the rise of trainer wars, and the complexities of shelter work. Sue shares candid insights into her groundbreaking HBO documentary, Shelter Dogs, her philosophy on crafting authentic relationships with dogs, and the need for a more holistic approach to canine care.

The conversation takes a deep dive into the difficulties of being a dog in today's world, from the pressures of modern training methods to the challenges of neighborhood walks. Sue emphasizes the importance of understanding canine behavior and adapting to their unique needs. Victoria and Sue also discuss innovative ways to enrich dogs' lives and advocate for better breeding practices to suit modern environments. This episode is a must-listen for dog trainers, pet owners, and advocates alike.

To learn more about Sue Sternberg, visit www.suesternberg.com. Access Sue's books and DVD's at www.Dogwise.com and videos at www.TawzerDog.com.

In this episode, Victoria Stilwell sits down with Dr. Maggie O’Brian, a board-certified veterinary behaviorist, to uncover the complexities of animal behavior. They dive deep into the critical role veterinary behaviorists play in addressing issues like aggression, compulsive disorders, and cognitive decline, alongside the importance of collaboration with trainers and vets. Dr. O’Brian also busts myths about pet medication and offers practical advice for traveling with anxious pets during the holidays.

Listeners will gain insights into identifying when to refer pets to a veterinary behaviorist, handling resource guarding, and understanding the nuances of canine cognitive dysfunction. Dr. O’Brian emphasizes a team-based approach to care and explains how science-based strategies and medication can lead to happier, safer pets. Whether you’re a trainer, pet owner, or animal enthusiast, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways!

To learn more about Dr. O'Brian, visit Virtual Veterinary Behavior Medicine or Southeast Animal Behavior and Training.

Join Victoria Stilwell and Holly Firfer as they celebrate 20 years of "It's Me or the Dog." Holly is the VP of programming and Development for ReachTV and Scripps New Anchor. She is a former radio DJ, news correspondent and Victoria's podcast companion for many years. 

Victoria shares her journey from acting to dog training, the creation of her groundbreaking TV show, and the evolution of her mission to educate pet owners and trainers worldwide. The episode highlights memorable moments from the show, the challenges of tackling severe behavioral issues, and the joy of fostering relationships between dogs and their humans.

They also delve into Victoria's educational initiatives, from the Victoria Stilwell Academy to online courses designed for dog enthusiasts and trainers. With stories of success, humor, and heartfelt connections, this episode showcases the enduring impact of positive reinforcement training.

In this insightful episode, Victoria interviews dog behavior expert Bob Ryder on the complexities of canine separation anxiety. Bob shares his own journey from avoiding cases of separation anxiety to becoming a certified expert in it. He discusses how separation anxiety is often misunderstood as misbehavior or stubbornness, instead highlighting it as an involuntary and intense fear response. By likening this anxiety to human phobias, he invites listeners to view affected dogs with compassion and patience.

Bob delves into the latest methods for helping dogs with separation anxiety, from suspension of absences to systematic desensitization. He explains how training should focus on reprogramming a dog's response to alone time through gradual, fear-free exposures. Bob also discusses the importance of supporting families in finding creative solutions to avoid leaving their dogs alone while training, showing that successful outcomes rely on both empathy and a well-planned approach.

To learn more about Bob, visit https://www.pawstrans.com/.

In this episode, Victoria Stilwell hosts Carolyn Menteith, an award-winning trainer and behaviorist, to discuss the UK Dog Behavior and Training Charter. They explore its importance in setting ethical training standards, the advocacy for banning shock collars, and its broader implications for dogs and trainers. Carolyn shares insights into unifying professional organizations under a common mission and highlights her ongoing efforts to promote science-based, positive reinforcement methodologies.

The episode also dives into the transformative power of ethical training on dogs' welfare, the challenges in influencing legislation, and the inspiring collaboration among organizations to create meaningful change. A must-listen for trainers, dog owners, and advocates of compassionate dog care.