Pregnancy Loss and Motherhood Podcast

Pregnancy Loss and Motherhood Podcast

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Pregnancy Loss and Motherhood Podcast episodes

  • #54: Rebuilding Life After Pregnancy Loss: Finding Our New Normal

    In this episode, Vallen discusses the process of rebuilding life after pregnancy loss and finding a new normal. She emphasizes that everyone's timeline for healing is different and there is no set path or plan. The host shares her personal experiences and coping mechanisms, such as writing, focusing on living children, and adopting a puppy. She also talks about the importance of allowing oneself to grieve and the physical and emotional aspects of mourning. Rebuilding life after pregnancy loss is a challenging and individual process. There is no set timeline for healing and it is important to take the time needed. Coping mechanisms such as writing, focusing on living children, and adopting a pet can be helpful. Allowing oneself to grieve and express emotions is an important part of the healing process. If your looking for a tribe of women to support you and provide you with accountability, safety and love in your healing journey check out our membership coming July 27th! Founding Members will be locked into the lowest price. Learn More Below https://www.evelynjamesandco.com/founding-members-launch-page-ejc-24-b6f28525-8bb4-437f-b98a-6fdacf042464

    22 min
  • #53: Navigating Infertility and Pregnancy Loss with Sarah Cox ( Jasmine's Mom)

    Sarah Cox, a guest on the Pregnancy Loss and Motherhood podcast, shares her journey of infertility, pregnancy loss, and motherhood. She discusses her experiences with PCOS, early losses, and the stillbirth of her daughter Jasmine. Sarah also talks about the rainbow skirt project she started, where families who have experienced pregnancy loss can request to wear the rainbow skirt and share their stories. The conversation touches on topics such as the emotional toll of pregnancy loss, the anxiety and fear that can arise after loss, and how to navigate these challenges with living children. The conversation revolves around the experiences and challenges faced by parents who have lost a baby. They discuss topics such as explaining death to young children, the need for better education and support for pregnancy loss, and the importance of seeking support from others. They also touch on the regrets and unanswered questions that parents often have after a loss. The main takeaway is the importance of not going through the grief journey alone and finding support from others who have experienced similar losses. You can find more information about Sarah, Jasmine, and the traveling rainbow skirt at https://www.journeyforjasmine.com @journeyforjasmine If you want to be a part of a supportive, healing and safe place to start your healing journey, join the Evelyn James Collective, launching July 27th, 2024. Join the waitlist here!

    48 min
  • #52: The importance of attitude in Motherhood, life and loss.

    In this episode, Vallen Webb discusses the importance of attitude and how it can impact the quality of our lives. She shares her own struggles with maintaining a positive attitude and how it relates to her experiences as a mother. Vallen emphasizes the need to pause and reflect when negative thoughts and emotions arise, and offers tips for shifting our attitude. She also explores the influence of past generations on our attitudes and the importance of self-love and flexibility.

    Takeaways

    Attitude plays a significant role in determining the quality of our lives. It is important to pause and reflect when negative thoughts and emotions arise, and to challenge their accuracy.

    Our attitudes can be influenced by past generations and the messages we internalize from our upbringing.

    Self-love and flexibility are key in changing our attitudes and embracing our authentic selves.

    Every day is an opportunity to choose a positive attitude and start fresh.

    Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Tone

    03:11 Sitting with Discomfort and the Power of Healing

    07:02 The Influence of Past Generations on Our Attitudes

    10:48 The Importance of Pausing and Reflecting

    15:39 Embracing Self-Love and Flexibility

    25:49 Taking Responsibility for Our Reactions

    28:06 Closing Thoughts

    If you loved this episode make sure to send it to a friend who needs this message! If you want to learn more and become a part of our amazing community head to the website at www.evelynjamesandco.com, scroll to the bottom of the page, and join the newsletter!!

    The Podcast- https://open.spotify.com/show/6Px5wtLMYkPHucbl5ytFUQ?si=0e4d10f8447d4a3f

    The Support FB group- https://www.facebook.com/groups/evelynjamescollective

     

    29 min
  • Let's talk rebranding and new beginnings!

    In this episode, Vallen Webb shares updates and changes happening in her business and personal life. She discusses rebranding her business under the name Evelyn James and Company and the launch of a membership program for bereaved moms. Vallen also mentions her upcoming book, training, and products. She emphasizes the importance of self-trust and self-love in the healing process and encourages listeners to find joy while honoring their babies. Vallen concludes by expressing her gratitude for the support and love from her audience.

    Chapters

    00:00 Rebranding and New Beginnings

    03:20 A Membership Program for Bereaved Moms

    06:12 Writing a Memoir and Creating training

    09:36 Finding Joy in the Healing Process

    13:39 Prioritizing Self-Care and Wellness

    15:20 Gratitude for the Support and Love

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    @vallenwebb

    @evelynjamesandco

    48 min
  • Connection, Joy, Empowering Change: A Conversation with Bianca Sprague

    In this conversation, Bianca Sprague discusses her work in reproductive health and justice, as well as her personal experience with pregnancy loss. She emphasizes the importance of bringing joy back to people's lives and supporting marginalized communities. Bianca shares her journey of starting and managing multiple businesses in the field, including Bebo Mia and Baby Me Fitness. She also highlights the need for improved care and support for individuals experiencing pregnancy loss, and the importance of training and education for healthcare professionals. Overall, Bianca advocates for comprehensive support and a shift in the healthcare system to better meet the needs of those affected by pregnancy loss. In this conversation, Vallen Webb and Bianca Sprague discuss the challenges and frustrations of feeling helpless in the face of loss. They explore the importance of taking action in the community to create change and support for those experiencing grief. They emphasize the individuality of grief and the power of putting grief into action. They highlight the need for change in the healthcare system and the importance of creating support systems. They discuss the normalization of acknowledging and honoring loss and the importance of keeping the heart open. They also explore the duality of emotions and the choice to embrace joy amidst grief. They emphasize the opportunity for choice and empowerment after loss and the importance of using grief as fuel for action.

    Bianca and her team have created some resources just for us on her website, bebomia.com/plm. Check it out! If you are interested in training to become a doula to help families they have provided you with a 15% discount on the training which is fricken amazing!!!!

    I hope you get so much from Bianca and this conversation!

    As always check out www.pregnancylosseducation.com for resources, training and so much more!!1

    1 hr 6 min
  • The Power of Nonverbal Communication in Therapy Using Expressive Arts to Process Grief and Trauma with Lacey Fisher!

    Today our guest is, Lacey Fisher, a licensed professional counselor, she specializes in perinatal mental health and uses sand therapy as an expressive art in her practice. Sand therapy is a projective mode of psychotherapy that allows clients to process their interpersonal issues using miniatures or figurines in a sand tray. It provides a nonverbal way of communicating and helps clients explore their unconscious thoughts and emotions. Sand therapy can be used with both children and adults and creates a therapeutic distance that makes it easier to share difficult experiences. Lacey also incorporates other expressive arts, such as drawing, to help clients process their grief and trauma. The conversation explores common themes and experiences in perinatal loss and the importance of validation and support. Lacey emphasizes the role of sand tray therapy in helping clients process their grief and connect with their emotions. She discusses the need for therapists to create a safe space for clients to share their stories and express their feelings. Lacey also highlights the significance of finding a therapist who understands and specializes in perinatal loss. The conversation concludes with a reminder to moms that their grief is valid and the importance of seeking community and support.

    If you are a Doula, Therapist or Perinatal Professional and want to learn how to support families going through stillbirth or miscarriage you can find the MOST comprehensive Pregnancy Loss Education Course, online, fully self-paced. You will have support every step of the way, including our FB group and a PDF Workbook to print.

    Learn More Here.


    If you need a gift for someone you know who has lost a baby and your not sure what to get them you can check out the Coloring Book and the Journal on Amazon.

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    1 hr 3 min
  • Courtney Hart's Story: The Impact of Political Climate on Reproductive Rights and Choice and The Need for Compassionate Care in Pregnancy Loss

    Today Courtney joins us as we talk about her loss story and journey.

    "In 2016, we chose to TFMR at 20 weeks. We didn't have a clear diagnosis very "grey area" which made the decision to terminate our son even more challenging as we thought of all the "what ifs" This was right before the 2016 election which brought on a lot of feelings and continues to do in this political climate."


    Courtney is so open and vulnerable about sharing her sweet boy with us and her journey surrounding her loss. Stories like these are why I have this platform so we can learn from them and share love and connection.



    To purchase a journal or coloring book for a mom who has suffered a loss click the links below!

    Journal:

    https://a.co/d/aDbfxcc

    Coloring Book:

    https://a.co/d/iKwnsqP


    Are you a Doula, therapist or other perinatal provider and want to take a comprehensive, Pregnancy Loss Education Course so that you are ready to support our loss community, head HERE!

    Check out the website for other ways to get in touch with me or book me for trainings, speaking engagements and 1 on 1 consults.

    www.pregnancylosseducation.com

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    57 min
  • Let's Reclaim our POWER. The importance of personalized care and understanding in fertility

    In this conversation, Vallen Webb and Karla Levit discuss the challenges and gaps in the medical community when it comes to pregnancy loss, infertility, and women's health. Karla shares her journey of pregnancy loss, infertility, and her experience with IVF. They emphasize the importance of addressing the root causes of fertility issues and the need for a more holistic approach to women's health. They also discuss the lack of support and empowerment for women in the medical community and the importance of advocating for oneself. The conversation highlights the need for women to reclaim their power and share their stories to create change. The conversation revolves around the need for better support and care for women in maternal health, particularly in the areas of pregnancy, postpartum, and infertility. The speakers discuss the lack of attention given to women's emotional and mental health, as well as the need for personalized care and understanding of individual experiences. They emphasize the importance of advocating for oneself, doing research, and seeking alternative options for care. The conversation also touches on the role of midwives in providing compassionate and holistic care. The speakers expressed the need for change in the medical community and the importance of creating spaces and experiences that prioritize women's well-being and healing.

    To connect with Vallen,

    Website: ⁠⁠www.pregnancylosseducation.com⁠⁠

    Purchase: Pregnancy Loss Coloring ⁠⁠Books HERE. ⁠⁠

    If you are a doula and want to take the Pregnancy Loss Education Course-⁠⁠ head HERE. ⁠⁠

    You can also join my ⁠⁠FREE FB group- pregnancy loss education for doulas and perinatal professionals⁠⁠ for resources, live trainings and support!

     

    Karla is hosting an incredible Retreat July 2024 in COSTA RICA. This retreat is for loss moms who want to heal and reclaim themselves, it is going to be FREAKIN INCREDIBLE. Learn more below! To learn more about Karla you can message her on INSTA

    https://www.instagram.com/karla.levit

    https://karlalevit.com/

    https://karlalevit.com/retreat/

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    1 hr 9 min
  • Learning how to have a safe birth experience for you and your baby.

    In this conversation, Gina Mundy, an attorney specializing in childbirth cases, discusses the importance of understanding childbirth and making informed decisions to ensure a healthy birth. She shares her motivation for writing a book on childbirth and highlights the common issues in legal baby cases. The impact of Pitocin, the need for self-advocacy in labor, and the role of baby advocates are also discussed. The conversation emphasizes the significance of choosing a good doctor for a positive birth experience. In this conversation, Gina Mundy emphasizes the importance of choosing a good doctor or midwife and being your own advocate during childbirth. She highlights the significance of communication skills and the doctor's specialization in managing labor and delivery. Gina also discusses the importance of understanding the baby's heart rate and learning about childbirth to make informed decisions. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the need for expectant parents to be proactive and educated to have a safe and positive birth experience.

    Takeaways

    • Understanding childbirth and making informed decisions is crucial for a healthy birth.
    • Common issues in legal baby cases can be prevented with proper knowledge and preparation.
    • Pitocin, a drug used to induce labor, can have significant impacts and should be understood by pregnant women.
    • Self-advocacy is important during labor to ensure the best outcome for both the mother and baby.
    • Having a designated baby advocate can provide additional support and help make informed decisions.
    • Choosing a good doctor is essential for a positive birth experience. Choose a doctor or midwife who aligns with your values and communication style.
    • Trust your instincts and be your own advocate during labor and delivery.
    • Learn about childbirth and understand the baby's heart rate to make informed decisions.
    • Seek recommendations from nurses, doulas, and other trusted sources when choosing a healthcare provider.

    • You can connect with Gina below

      ginamundy.com
      You can purchase her book HERE.

      Connect with me here

      Website: ⁠www.pregnancylosseducation.com⁠

      Purchase: Pregnancy Loss Coloring ⁠Books HERE. ⁠

      If you are a doula and want to take the Pregnancy Loss Education Course-⁠ head HERE. ⁠

      You can also join my ⁠FREE FB group- pregnancy loss education for doulas and perinatal professionals⁠ for resources, live trainings and support!


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      53 min
    • What are you denying yourself after the loss of your baby?

      Vallen discusses the topic of denying oneself after experiencing the loss of a baby. She shares her personal experience and the realization that she stopped taking care of herself as a way of punishing herself. Vallen highlights the importance of confronting these self-denials to move forward. She also mentions the loss of identity and intimacy as other areas where she denied herself. Vallen encourages listeners to reflect on what they may be denying themselves and to prioritize self-care and self-love. Takeaways

      • After experiencing the loss of a baby, it is common for mothers to deny themselves self-care and self-love as a way of punishing themselves.
      • Denying oneself can manifest in various ways, such as neglecting personal hygiene, avoiding intimacy, or feeling guilty about experiencing joy or happiness.
      • It is important to confront these self-denials and work through them to move forward in the healing process.
      • Loss of identity and strained relationships, such as with a partner, can also contribute to self-denial.
      • Reflecting on what one may be denying themselves and prioritizing self-care and self-love is crucial in difficult times.

      • Connect with me here

        Website: ⁠www.pregnancylosseducation.com⁠

        Purchase: Pregnancy Loss Coloring ⁠Books HERE. ⁠

        If you are a doula and want to take the Pregnancy Loss Education Course-⁠ head HERE. ⁠

        You can also join my ⁠FREE FB group- pregnancy loss education for doulas and perinatal professionals⁠ for resources, live trainings and support!


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        13 min

      About Pregnancy Loss and Motherhood Podcast

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      This podcast is for moms who have experienced pregnancy loss. This podcast will inspire, educate and support you through your journeys.