Proactive Eye™

Proactive Eye™

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Proactive Eye™ episodes

  • Recovery Series - Part 2

    Escaping is scary.  And so is what to do with life after a life of abuse.  

    In this episode, you will learn how to create a plan of action as a victim, survivor, and a supporter.

    Recovery Series - Part 1 episode

    After leaving your toxic relationship, it is vital to see a physician and a mental health specialists to support you on your road to recovery.

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

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    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

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    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pepodcastblog

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast


    16 min
  • My Sincere Concern During Mandatory Quarantine

    My sincere concern is while we are under quarantine, the victims who are now having no escape from their abusers.

    What could we creatively do to solve issues for these people once the quarantine is lifted?

    Leave questions, comments, and concerns on the voice message feature or email me at [email protected]

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

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    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog: bit.ly/pepodcastblog

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

    6 min
  • Recovery Series - Part 1
    Today's goal with this episode is to express some of the things victims and survivors go through during recovery.
    After leaving your toxic relationship, it is vital to see a physician and a mental health specialists to support you on your road to recovery.
    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.
    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.
    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!
    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 
    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me
    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.
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    Please make use of these resources:
    If you are in immediate danger, call *911
    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE
    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child
    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE
    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255
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    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny
    Connect with us:
    Proactive Eye Blog: bit.ly/pepodcastblog
    Instagram - @proactiveeye
    Twitter - @proactiveeye
    Periscope - @proactiveeye
    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast
    Article:  Clay, Rebecca, A. (2014). Suicide and Intimate Partner Violence. American Psychological Association. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2014/11/suicide-violence
    18 min
  • What We Were Taught About Self-Love

    It is imperative you remember how much you matter. Having a healthy relationship with yourself is the biggest key to your success in healing after a life of abuse. Taking care of yourself is just one way of doing that. It is also a way of expressing how you love yourself.

    This week, we are discussing what we were taught about self-love. I’ll start the conversation by sharing what I was taught. Hopefully, you will feel free to either leave a voice message on the anchor app so I can hear the values you were taught, or email me at [email protected]. You can also leave a comment on the blog if you prefer to do it that way.

    After leaving your toxic relationship, it is vital to see a physician and a mental health specialists to support you on your road to recovery.

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    Season 1 Episode 13 - Health Check After a Life of Abuse https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Health-Check-After-a-Life-of-Abuse-eavlen

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

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    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

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    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pediary

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

    19 min
  • Importance of Taking Care of Yourself

    Tossing around today's discussion is a piggyback from a previous episode "Health Check After a Life of Abuse" you can listen to here if you missed it. 

    Why is taking care of yourself important.....YOU MATTER!  Those traumatic experiences while being abused came with powerful lessons.

    One of the main things to consider is having a healthy relationship with ourselves.  If we cannot have a healthy one with ourselves, it is impossible to have a healthy relationship with anyone else. 

    After leaving your toxic relationship, it is vital to see a physician and a mental health specialists to support you on your road to recovery.

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    Season 1 Episode 13 - Health Check After a Life of Abuse https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Health-Check-After-a-Life-of-Abuse-eavlen

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pediary

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

    13 min
  • Q & A with Elegant Granny

    This episode we are answering questions asked by our lovely audience.

    Thank each of you for your love and support.

    You are greatly appreciated. 

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

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    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pediary

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

    16 min
  • Health Check After a Life of Abuse

    During the toxic relationship, many of us were not able to attend to our bodies as we needed to. 

    After leaving your toxic relationship, it is vital to see a physician and a mental health specialists to support you on your road to recovery.

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

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    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pediary

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

    Work cited:  Percent of Women Killed by Their Husbands or Boyfriends  https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2017/07/homicides-women/534306/

    9 min
  • An Ideal Mate After a Life Of Abuse

    Today is Valentine's Day!

    And this week, we are in discussion about what an ideal mate may look like for someone after a life of abuse.

    Tune in as we engage with you three things important to us in the next relationship. 

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pediary

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

    10 min
  • Starting Over - The Summation

    This episode will give you a recap of the series.

    Links to all episodes are below:

    Starting Over https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Starting-Over-ea47kh

    Starting Over - part 2 (Finances) https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Starting-Over---Part-2-Finances-ea8661

    Starting Over - part 3 (Emotions) https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Starting-Over---Part-3-Emotions-ead0fd

    Starting Over - part 4 (Business Owner) https://anchor.fm/elegant-granny/episodes/Starting-Over---Part-4-Business-Owners-eaid64

    As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

    Thank you for listening.  We appreciate your support.

    Much love, peace, light, and healing vibes family!

    For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

    For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

    My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    Please make use of these resources:

    If you are in immediate danger, call *911

    National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

    National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

    National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

    National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

    ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

    HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

    Connect with us:

    Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pediary

    Instagram - @proactiveeye

    Twitter - @proactiveeye

    Periscope - @proactiveeye

    Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

    9 min
  • Starting Over - Part 4 (Business Owners)

    This week will be all about our business owners coping with life juggling their business and personal lives simultaneously after a life of abuse.

    Three things I share in today's episode to assist you juggling life and business as you start over:

    1. Recognize you are being abused and plan an escape
    2. Think about what you what your life to look like on the other side of the abusive relationship.
    3. Build a team.
    4. As always I will leave other resources for you and for your loved ones if you are supporting them after a life of abuse.

      Thank you for listening.  I appreciate your support.

      For those needing an exit plan to assist you creating a plan to escape your abuser - X-It Strategist  https://calendly.com/x-it-strategist 

      For those needing a Life Coach to support you moving forward to a successful lifestyle after a life of abuse -  Live Life Luvd https://divorceliberator.as.me

      My hope is that everyone is in a safe place and enjoying time with their loved ones.

      ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

      Please make use of these resources:

      If you are in immediate danger, call *911

      National Domestic Violence hotline 1(800)799-SAFE

      National Child Abuse hotline 1(800)4-A-Child

      National Sexual Assault hotline 1(800)656-HOPE

      National Suicide Prevention hotline 1(800)273-8255

      ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************

      HEALING IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS; NOT A ONE SHOT DEAL! ~ Elegant Granny

      Connect with us:

      Proactive Eye Blog:  bit.ly/pediary

      Instagram - @proactiveeye

      Twitter - @proactiveeye

      Periscope - @proactiveeye

      Facebook - @proactiveeyepodcast

      16 min

    About Proactive Eye™

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    Conversations on Intimate Partner Violence aka Domestic Violence, Child Abuse, Sexual Assault, and Suicide Prevention as it relates to abuse.